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writes:ok well i have a pretty big problem. I've been dating the same man now for four years and im eight and a half months pregnant with our third child but i just found out a disturbing secret about him. First off he's had a dominatrix mistress for a year and a few months and second of all, hes twelve years older than he said he was! he told me he was 27 and it turns out hes really 39! I know u would think that i wouldve known but to be honest he looks quite young. He moved from australia and has been unemployed so i never learned his true age. i never snooped and i guess i trusted him too much. the dominatrix mistress thing shocked me and i didnt belive it at first but she actually came and told me. they also filmed something together (porn) and she showed it to me. i wanted to barf. she apologized and out of respect moved away which i was grateful for but now i dont know what to do. he knows i know and currently is sleeping on the couch. we havent talked in a week and he hasnt barely left the house for more than fifteen minutes because he knows im angry. hes a great father to our kids so i cant just say screw off. i dont know whether to work through things or to just let him go. any help?
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reader, guppypig +, writes (24 March 2009):
He sounds like a great catch. The dominatrix was probably acting out a humiliation fetish of his by showing you that tape. You clearly should stay with this lying, cowardly Aussie and allow Number One Dad to pass on his wholesome values to your baby.
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