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writes:He is so stubborn. He got mad and now is throwing it away. I am not perfect all the time. Should i keep calling him or just let him walk away. And I will suffter and cry. I know in my heart he loves me which makes this so hard, he is very good at being alone has been for years. Why do I love this man so much. Is there anything I can do. i feel this is so absurd Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): You didn't mention if this has happened yesterday, or three weeks ago...in other words, maybe he needs time, which as a matter of fact, goes with todays theme on here...Men need time! They don't want to be pestered while processing a dilemma. Just let the situation play out on it's own. See if he comes around! If he doesn't, then you know, it is time to let go!
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reader, PS05 +, writes (28 February 2009):
Here's my advice ... let him go. It doesn't HAVE to be hard, and contrary to popular belief it shouldn't be. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and there is someone out there who WILL think you're perfect, even with your faults.
Sometimes we love the idea of love and not the person themselves. Sometimes we convince ourself a doomed relationship will work because we don't want to be without love. I loved my 1987 Honda Prelude, but it had problems. It would break down all the time due to the same issues. I could keep sinking $500.00 dollars into it every few weeks, and it would run for a while, but would end up breaking down again. I found a car that didn't break down, and life is wonderful now ;)
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