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anonymous
writes:ok i need some help about this. this afternoon i went over to my g/f's house and its mostly everytime i go there we end up touching each other or having sex. so today when i went over her house i told her that we could only go up to the touching part and not go all the way and have sex but yet we ended up having sex and i totally took her shirt off(usually she doesnt want me to 'cause she thinks that she doesnt have a beautiful body. but yet today her whole body was so beautiful and i was so happy about it.) then after we had sex she asked me if i want to see her again naked all the way and i said yes. then yet two hours after that i asked her if we could just have a regular day the next time i come over(like just making out, playing around-tickling and running, dancing and stuff)just like the way we used to be. then after i asked her that she started saying that she was sorry because she thought of making me feel good and i told her that i loved it and it felt really good but yet i still see sadness in her eyes then i told her that i just want a week without being intimit or having sex just like i said earlier. then she said ok but then when i called up she thought that i called her ugly and fat and thats why i dont want to have an intimite moment or have sex with her and i told her that she's wrong on what she was saying then she calmed down a little but i still feel bad about it cause she took it the wrong way. can anybody give me some advice on what to do about it? girls answers would be a great help guys answers will be greatly apriciated too. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i never ever used the word sexy or hot. i always call her beautiful and pretty and that i love her so much and when i am away from her i feel like my other half is gone or something. thats why i wanted her to know that i didnt say anything bad to her that i wanted to just take a break on having sex cause i dont want her to get pregnant at our age cause it would be my fault and i would blame myself because she will never reach her dream to become a doctor if she ends up getting pregnant at this time. all i wanted is the best for her and nothing else and i dont care what happens to me as long as shes happy and reached her dreams. that will complete my life by then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): I can tell that by posting your question, your a really great guy with a kind and gentle heart... I admire that :) not many guys are like that these days. Way to go! :) i had a similar issue, but i had sent a sexy pic to my boyfriend. And he said it wasn't a good picture of me. i got really mad! I thought (like your gf thought) that he was calling me ugly. All he ment by it was the lighting was bad. But he just told me how beautiful i am... (Use beautiful or gorgeous, not sexy or hot) and everything worked out well. To this day i love him. And know he loves me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): You should ask her to come here and read what you just posted here.
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