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anonymous
writes:Ok so I've been dating this girl for almost a year and just within the past few weeks she has seemed very distant she keeps making excuses about not kissing and stuff like that. What's wrong?
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reader, kami12 +, writes (27 February 2009):
 well i had a boyfriend and at first i thought he was the perfect one for me but then he got really tochy and pusy so he always wanted to kiss me well then it got to out of hand for me sso i evoided him and made up excuses about evry thing like not kissing him tell i decided what to do i ended up breaking up with him so maybe you should confront her and assk her why she has been acting this way that is eather the time she will break up with you or tell you something else that is going on. oh and if a girl says no then usally something is wrong you just have to let her tell you when she is ready to.
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (25 February 2009):
 maybe its a problem at home or something. just give her time maybe thats all she needs
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reader, LampHead  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Find out if she is having issues at home/ problems with other people. Her head might just be thinking of something else, or she might be trying to work something out. Just ask her what the problem is, and if its anything to do with you.
Good-Luck
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reader, unwonted +, writes (25 February 2009):
 It's almost impossible to know why from what you've said, but I just have to ask if you've tried asking her what's going on? If so, what did she say?
Just from my own experiences, I would get like that (distant and avoiding physical connection) when I wasn't really into the relationship but wasn't quite ready to let it go yet (because I felt bad for ending it, still cared about him, was afraid to be along...whatever reason).
BUT...I can't say that that would be why she is acting that way.
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