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writes:How do you stop someone being a rebound after a divorce? I've been seeing a wonderful man for two months now after my ex left me for another woman. He had been seeing her over the past 3 yrs and we split 6months ago.The divorce was straightforward as possible.I have custody of our 2 children and he has access two evening and weekends but ive always told him he can see them as often as he likes. Ive tried to keep things amicable for my sake as much as the kids.I have even agreed to them visiting on holidays so they can settle back to some normalacy sooner.The trouble is my feelings for my current boyfriend.He is absolutely wonderful.He is so considerate and the most attentive loving man.The kids like him and get on well with his children. I love him and have told him so, as he has me.I look in his eyes and i know its the complete truth.So here on one hand I have a man so perfect that when im with him i never want to let go.On the other is my ex who doesnt want me,will never consider trying again cos he loves "her" and has told me to let go and move on.So why am I not? why am i still trying to keep the ex in my life when i have someone so much better? What can i do to completely move on?Thanks for caring enough to read this.
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