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41-50,
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writes:Ok, so my boyfriend is always out on the field. Always driving from here to there.. Sometimes he's local. And he's been saying 'let's meet up during the day for sex.'I thought sure..but I do have a job. And I just can't get up and go as I please!!He text today saying he'll be in my area about 2:00pm. I was already on lunch break..having lunch with my boss. I didn't respond..he called twice..I didn't respond. Finally, he text 'Well I'm leaving, and thanks for not letting me know whether you would show up or not. And we'll talk later.' I called him about half-an-hour later and I lied, said 'Sorry, I was in a meeting and left my cell in the car.' He sounded a bit bothered and said, 'Let me call you later, when I get off work.' He never lets me go like that. And I heard his friends were in the background. He just laughed at something they said. And we said good bye. Is he just being a typical guy? I don't think he's being understanding..I work in an office all day, unlike him that gets to drive around. What do you think?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): no he wasnt being a typical guy....
he was being a typical freak!
your not in the wrong at all... he is and he should apologise and get things right
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): You are right! He has to understand that you have a conventional job and can't always answer a call or a text. I am a preschool teacher and have to leave my phone in my classroom closet. I can't just pick up my phone every time it rings! I understand completely! Now make him understand!
As far as the brief conversation, you did have with him...he was with friends...so, yes, I think he was just being a typical guy!
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