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Is this the silent treatment? What can I do?

Tagged as: Faded love, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am dating man for a few months now this is the same man that i have posted other questions on here.i i have had problems trusting him he has never done anything to betray me it is mainly my insecurites,.we had a fall out recently because he thought i was questioning his trust again. he said he is in 2 minds about carrying on the relationship. I have sent many texts apologizing and saying i will trust him more. but i have heard nothing. its like he is giving me the silent treatment he hasnt said its over so i am left not knowing whats going on. Is this a sign it is over or is this just the silent treatment? What can i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009):

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called it off now as he has done this before on occasions if he wants me he will have to prove it once and for all

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A female reader, happy24birthday United States +, writes (10 February 2009):

happy24birthday agony auntI think it's both. IDK how long it's been since the fallout and the txts you sent, but you need to let it go for a time. Been there, so I know how hard it is. I also have insecurities that make me not trust. Try your very very best not to contact him. Can't give you any other insight, but keeping on contacting him with no response is only gonna make you feel worse.

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