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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Jealous but not for the right reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years. I have a huge jealousy problem. Everyone here will think I am crazy, and I am a little, but you have to understand realising the problem is the first step, but I am having a hard time getting over it. ...

I'm having boyfriend issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Yesterday me and my boyfriend was chatting in general like we always do then he started talking about how he used to pull girls without even trying and that one of his mates would be desperate and come over to chat her up to but would reject him and ...

Do I tell my sister her boyfriend tried it on with me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hey my sisters boyfriend just tried in on with me and i dont no if i should tell my sister i mean she really loves him and i dont wanna hurt her by telling her but wot if i dont tell her and he tries it on with other girls she will get hurt any way. ...

What should I do?... I'm always crying myself to sleep because of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Well im 14 n have been with my bf for a yr n few months.. He says he loves me alot n wants to marry me etc.. N now his just changing =(... Hez alwez sayin tht am wrong n will always say am ryt.. we have alot off arguments now.. and he goez to me ...

We've been seeing each other casually but my feelings for him are growing! He keeps blowing hot and cold, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Ive kind of been seeing this chap for a few months. We decided we wanted things to be casual but i feel there changing between us now. My feelings for him are growing but im not sure how he feels for me. He keeps blowing hot and cold and im not ...

She cheated on me, the relationship lost colour, now she asks me out for a drink when it seems she has a living-in boyfriend! What's on her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - There's a girl I met on the internet 2 years ago. We hit it off right away, we met up and fell for eachother. 2 years on and we've had some serious ups and downs (which I understand is perfectly normal). It started off when we fell for eac...

I'm too afraid to stand up to her because I don't want to lose her! How can I do this without appearing 'bitchy'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I first met this woman through a close relative, we started talking over the net and then met up a few times for a couple of drinks. We've been getting to know each other for a couple of months now, she's not quite ready for a relationship yet ...

I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she ...

I like this guy, we did not date, we kissed and had sex, now he flirts with other girls and I feel used, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - i really need help. i really fancy a boy and im not sure if he actually does like me, he flirts with me and kisses me at random moments, sometimes holds my hand. and were not even going out. He also keeps asking me to have sex with him alot, i did ...

My girlfriend insulted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hey, this is the situation. My girlfriend had plans with her friends last night and so she saw them and we planned to see each other tommorow evening. While she was with her friend I planned to see my friend during the day time before I saw her...

Why do I still love him despite of his abuses? How do I deal with the conflicting feelings? How do I stop being in denial?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I know im probably going to sound crazy or something when I say how I feel about my ex abusive bf, but its how I feel and what bothers me most is how my feelins conflict each other. On one hand, I have so much anger and hurt and cant believe he ...

He cheated on me while drunk and confessed, feeling guilty. Does he love me? How can I forgive him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and have trusted him wholeheartedly. We have always been open and honest with each other with a great friendship and he told me that he could never cheat on me. He recently went on a boys holi...

We differ on how to bring up children, now I'm sleeping with her daughter. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - This is the picture. I am 56 my partner 53 My 4 year relationship with my partner has suffered a major set back after over 1 year of continued arguments and disputes regarding the attitude between my partner and my 12year old daughter so much so ...

My boyfriend hasn't bought anything for our future baby but keeps lending money for me and not return it. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hiyaa Im 19 and currently 32 weeks pregnant.. My boyfriend (and father of the baby) is 18 and we have been together about 20 months. The baby was unplanned.. but we decided to keep her and things were ok. Recently we havent stopped arguing tho...

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar, he said he cannot stop lying so I broke up with him. Good decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hi I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were going out for 8 months, but he was a compulsive liar. We have sat down and he has admitted the lying but says he cant stop it. He has told me every lie hes told. But he admitted to texting a ...

Is this his way of keeping me attached or is he just bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I was dating a known player for a short while and he got super serious. He asked me to moved in, insisted I got to know his family (hes 27 and only ever brought 3 girls home), and even said he loved me numerous times (I disagreed with him, tho to ...

He says he misses me, but I always feel like I come second fiddle. I don't understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - so this problem I had since last week continues. I just want to know what others think regarding this situation. So to summarize relationship between me and him, we first met at a party early this year in the east coast, where he lives. I am in the ...

I love him dearly, but I can't deal with his parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i are 19 years old and have been seeing each other for 4 years and known each other 6. i love him so much words cant even explain but i cant stand his parents. they treat him and myself with no respect but expect us to bow down to ...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with her because I thought she deserved better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. She is devastated. She gave 110% to the relationship but I could not return it. She feels used and thinks that I am an awful person. She did deserve a better fate for all that she put into ...

I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 ...

Do I need to give us time apart to make him truely realise what it would be like without me?

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10 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, it has been a great relationship, until the last month, as he has not been himself and i have had other stresses. Last week his phone goes off, but he has gone to bed and i read it as we're...

Does he remember our date or is he trying to make the week go by faster by being with his buds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Alright, I don't know if I am digging to deep into this or am just over reacting...My boyfriend and I are supposed to get together this weekend and he knows it. Last week he left and (is still camping) with a friend. He didn't tell me what he was ...

How am I suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - how am i suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that i love him?hes 7 years older than me.........

I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we we...

Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in ...

Is this a normal procedure for massage sessions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - My partner and had a couples massage in a posh hotel in Egypt. He chose the hot stone massage and I the Thai, one. He was on a massage table and I spent the hour being contorted on a mat on the floor. I was given eyeshades to wear but appa...

Could we ever become more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - im 18 and my best friends a girl who iv known for a about three years we have loads of fun together she stays at mine sometimes.But i want more than just friends. but she doesnt. we flirt constantly and have loads of time together just us two. we ...

What can I do to stop hurting? He stopped trusting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - We were together for 2 years. Wehad our issues, or maybe he did, I don't know. Maybe I did. Apparently I did. Who knows... Anyway, he was jealous. At the beginning, he told me, but it was just mild, once every blue moon, kinda cute jealousy. S...

I think my cousin may have feelings for me. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I'm 19 yrs old and I have a bit of an extended family. Pretty close to my mother's side of the family and all their children, we consider ourselves as brothers and sisters us cousins (there's a lot of us). In fact I'm the oldest, and I feel I kin...

Was this really a one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Am so confused! 2 year ago i met a guy n we became friends. last year we were invited 2 a party n he showed more interest in me. later that night we went 2 his place, he wanted sex n i said NO. We kept in touch n 2 weeks ago i went 2 his place n we ...

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...

My boyfriend hasn't told his family about me yet...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - After 4 years together, my boyfriend still hasn't told his family about me. His family is just his sister and mum but still. His mum is coming to visit for Christmas and I think he should tell her before she gets here. His excuse at first was h...

Should I tell her my reaction about her comment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - The girl I like said something to me that really hurt. I realise why she said it but I cannot agree with it. I am sure she didn't mean to hurt me so deeply but it is affecting me. Simply put: I was having a bad day and I decided to delete my fac...

I think my boyfriend is gay and is confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have lived with for 8 years whom I have supported in every sense of the word...financially, emotionally etc. Has not worked consistently and is constantly on the computer at home, while I work my butt off to pay all the ...

How should I act around my crush? He's so shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hey! I'm not sure about his feelings.. He is a friend of my friends and I really like him! .. we aren't friends .. and i don't know how to talk to him! .. today, my friends said "Andrea likes Andrew.. u are gonna make a good couple c´mon.. you guys...