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writes:There's a girl I met on the internet 2 years ago.We hit it off right away, we met up and fell for eachother.2 years on and we've had some serious ups and downs (which I understand is perfectly normal).It started off when we fell for eachother, she was coming to university 2 years down the line and if she made it we'd be together.thigns took a nose dive when her sexual needs weren't fulfilled and she hooked up with some guy without telling me... hurt like hell.I stopped talking to her... then a few months down the line after an apology we were back on track.She went to the other extreme and smothered me totally, to the point where she was phoning me during work time.I backed off and a few months later outta the blue she texts me like nothings happened. Since I'd hadn't spoken to her in a while my heart jumped. After some investigation it seems she has a boyfriend and she's living with him.However very soon (in a matter of days infact) she is moving for university closer to me.She's asked me to go for a drink with her. Does she still have feelings for me and how likely is it that we could develop a serious relationship?Despite all the hurt and frustration she's put me through I still love her deep down
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): Ok so I met up with her today. Everything went well, she hinted a lot about little things from the past.
She told me she still has something I posted to her a while back and she's brought it to university with her, it's on display in her flat.
She's asked me to see her again, just the two of us. She's still with him and seeing her face to face again has made it begin to hurt a little.
Her being with that guy is killing me
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 I think you're going to have to wait to see her to see what she's thinking, but I'm sure she still feels something for you. If it's enough to ask to start dating you again, there's no way we can tell you.
How likely is it that you can develop a serious relationship again? First of all, you need to find out about the live-in boyfriend. If she's sticking with him, then obviously, the question is moot.
If that relationship is over, I guess you have the opportunity to start a new relationship with her. But I think you should both be clear about what happened in the past, and start off with eyes wide open. Be realistic and don't forget that some old hurt feelings may resurface and cause problems later.
Good luck, I hope things work out for the best.
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