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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Mixed signals from the friend I am madly in love with...what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I think I have to share this story because it just drives me crazy. Since the day I fell in love. At that time I was about 11 I think. I met a girl back then, wich I am still in love with. I am now 18. In the meantime she had several boyfrien...

Breaking up with my bf would hurt but I would feel a little better...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Alright, I've got this boyfriend. Sometimes, we're sickening sweet, we don't kiss or anything (Against my wants) but he gave me a gift recently, with a bunch of suff in it, he pats my back, and always gets mad at anyone that picks on me, and ...

How can I make her understand that I need her to stop calling all the time and need space...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I have this girlfriend, we were going on pretty fine for quiet sometime ever since she started being a bitch. She believe's that being in a relationship is calling each other 10 times a day.. , She doesnt give me my space.. I now feel like ...

He said sorry if he crossed any lines...what should I say??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - There is a guy who likes me a lot and wants to marry me...we haven't met each other for lst few years and recently we met for the first time in my house,we had casual talks and then for the second time again at my home but just 2 of us were there. ...

Dealing with the end of a destructive relationship: why do we keep coming back to each other, even though things are so messed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid. I'm looking for some unbias advice. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost five years now. Our relationship was going good, aside from the insane fights we would have, or so I thought. This past January she broke it off with...

My imagination is running riot...any advice??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I was friends with him for the whole of last year and we are getting closer all the time, with our friendship turning into the beginnings of something else. He was married for a long time and has been single for two years now. I am slightly ...

We were good until he travelled....now I think it isn't working out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 September 2008 (?) - I have a bf we are with each other for 8 months we were good and everything until he traveled he stopped asking about me and every time i send him a message he answer me back after 6 hours and maybe more, NEVER bothered to call me and when i call ...

His ex is still 3 blocks away and I think he still loves her...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - It has been 1yr and a half since i moved into my boyfriend's house, but he is still married, has been separated for 2 yrs off and on and his ex lives 3 blocks away from us and i think he still loves her but she has done too many bad thing's to him. ...

Sometimes we are lovers...sometimes we are not...what should I do??

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18 September 2008 (F) - Guy I am dating is an alcoholic. We have been together for 8 months now. He says we are very good friends but notting else. He has two personalities. When he is drunk he is very affectionate and says we are lovers but when he is sober he is distant ...

We broke up because she feels unappreciated but I love her to death and it hurts so bad. What can I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi, just another problem with the need of a little advice. I have been with this girl for a long time. We recently separated. I am moving a long ways away soon. She hasnt gotten "that time of the month yet" n theres a possibility it could be my kid. ...

My bf doesn't have much free time....is 3 times a week being reasonable??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Hi I need help here, I have a 7 month boyfriend, he is wonderfull, he treats me really nice, we share strong feelings for each other, and the sex is GREAT. My problem is that now we are seeing each other like 3 times a week, he works very hard, he...

He wants to throw it all away so that he can go and live back with his mum...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 miles...

I think I should leave him but I don't do it. I think if I do that then I may not find nobody that can treat me good. So I cry every day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I don’t know how to begin so I gues ill just start talking. I afarid. Afraid that no matter how nuch I try ill never meet someone that will love me as much as I do them. I know someone that will but he doesn’t want to. Should I just sit around here ...

My boyfriend has a quiet nature, won't discuss what is on his mind but I know something is not OK, maybe he wants out but can't find a way? Oh...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - My bf and i have been together for over two years now. He has always been a quiet chap and it's been a struggle at times to communicate. We actually live together and basically spend all our time together (apart from when we are at work). However, ...

I really like this girl, but I've been an ass to her... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I was with a girl for two years, i really love her, but sometimes i was rough on her... as in i was a bit of an a**hole. Just of recent we broke up, she has sex with other men right away... Heres the clincher, she still comes to me with advice, she ...

My younger sister hates my girlfriend, and I don't know what do to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (?) - I been with my girlfriend for awhile (almost a year.) But my sister (who's only 6) hates her. One day when she came over to my house. I couldn't answer the door so my sister answer it. And cover her with silly swing (I saw the whole thing.) She got ...

I'm sort of with this guy - trouble is, he always has other girlfriends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - ok. so. i'm kinda with this guy. well its all physical, actually...no sex, but pretty much everything else. we've been doing this for a few weeks now, almost every day last week... the problem is, he always has a girlfriend. our "relationship"...

How do you know when to get out of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Ok let me fill everyone in. I have been with this guy for 3 years. We have a 1 year old together. We've had problems from the beginning because he has a hard time dealing with my past. Everytime he's ever questioned me about it, I tell him what he ...

I can't achieve an orgasm with bf or ex's.-thoughts or advice would be much appreciated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over two years and i've had other partners before him. i can not achive an orgasm with him and never have with anyone else either. i can do it myself but i have an odd way of doing it. i lie on my stomach and rub my ...

I have two men I don't want to lose, P is now amazing with the children and F also digs my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Ok ... so I have been with P for 7 years on and off, lived together again... on and off .... this year I told him to move out on his own and he did ! Long story .. but bottom line ... really mean to my kids ! Since he moved out ... huge turn ...

How do I deal with this loss of interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hey Dearcupid readers, My girlfriend has gained quite a bit of weight over the past year. She has not been successful in dealing with it, nor have my attempts to help. I am not going to ask how to address that as there are many excellent posts ...

He changes whenever he is around his friends. Do I leave or is this just a male phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I need serious help. I started dating a friend of mine almost 4 months ago. We've been friends for 2 years and we're like peas in a pod. We fit together perfectly, yet still complement each other, most of our friends envied our friendship. I had ...

I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby, but I'm afraid to leave him because of his anger issues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. he has lived with me and my family for most of the time we have been together. I have just found out I am Pregnant and things between us are getting worse. He treats my mother ...

His divorce might not go through, and I'm thinking of ending the relationship because of it. Help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this married guy for 17 months. He moved out from the house that he lived in with his wife and 3 kids about 15 months ago and moved in with is sister. Our relationship was a secret to his friends and family for about a while, b...

Can I fix this relationship? I don't want to walk out on my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure what to do with my situation anymore, i am in a relationship with a 19 year old girl and i am 30, we have a 9 month old daughter, and a baby boy on the way, she also has a 2 year old son from a previous relationship. We lived together...

What do I do about my controlling boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is very controlling. I have lived at his house, well his MOMs house for 3years. For the past year he has really been trying to control me. He has: * Put me on different curfew times. 11pm, 7pm, 8pm, now its 9pm. I have a cu...

Am I crazy or is this man a real asshole? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I am a 34 year old female. I have been in a live-in relationship for going on 3 years. He is older than myself, but I dont think that matters. Sometimes he is wonderful to be around and then other times, he acts if I dont exist. On Valentin...