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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is our love a lost cause or is what I did forgivable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hello.. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half and we have been inseparable ever since. We were really close friends before we started to date, which means I would confide a lot of my darkest secrets to him about other men and re...

My boyfriend is scared of intimacy, he stops in the middle and goes to the bathroom to masturbate. How to get him to behave like a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I'm at my wits end. Please help me. My boyfriend, who I've been with for 9 months, is very caring and we get on really well together. We spend a lot of our free time together and I would say that I'm definitely in love with him. The problem is that ...

I found that he was asking a lot of girls for pictures, to go on cam, meet up for sex... I don't want to break up, I want to get this sorted out, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Anyway starting right from the start was ages ago, in April I think when we were in the park and we were stealing each others phones and wrestling them off each other (in a nice way) I had his phone and we were carrying on, but when I went into ...

I have tried thousands of times talking to my fiance about how his mom and sister treat me, but he doesn't see it like I do! I'm out of ideas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I am wondering what I should do about a real tough situation I'm in. My fiance and I are very much in love, we just had our first baby... he is 2 months old... and we have been struggling w/ our finances and stuff. We have had to move into his ...

My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and ...

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because I ran into my ex when I went out. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, we have had our ups and downs, the other night I was mad at him so i went out and i happened to see my ex boyfriend when i got home i told him but he freaked out screaming telling me not to go ...

I put my girlfriend up on a pedestal and feel like I'm not good enough for her. It's ruining the relationship, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I'm in need of some advice. I'm an average-looking 24 year old and am currently dating a very beautiful girl 2 years my junior. The problem is that I think she's too good for me. She's so sweet (personality-wise) and pretty and i'm convinced she's ...

I don't have a life outside this relationship, I feel like I've lost myself. I've become very controlling... I need urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hey there, I feel i've lost myself! I've been in this relationship for almost 3 years and until this year i feel like i've change for the worst.I love my boyfriend very much and we plan to get married one day. I think i've become very controll...

How do I find closure from a relationship that ended a decade ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi, It's been almost 10 years since my highschool sweetheart and I have broken up. I was 19 at the time and was deeply inlove with her. Perhaps I was inlove with her because of her looks, perhaps because I liked to have her around or whatev...

Is having sex 2-3 times a week really that bad? How can I get her to stop pressuring me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year and our problem is that her sex drive dwarves mine. I do enjoy sex with her but only on an approximate 2-3 times a week basis, and this seems far too little for her. It never really sememed a...

He keeps blowing hot and cold, is he playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - i have been seein this man for a few months now i think and basically to start with it was just casual fun.. im begining to develop feelings for him now. and not sure how he feels about me. He keeps blowing hot and cold with me once minute he...

My ex keeps analysing my past looking for proof that I'm an easy girl with no self respect! We're in the same band and I'm tired of him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I'm tired of my ex's crap... Well, now he's my ex, but we're usually on and off... The problem is he can't tolerate my past, any part of it, he analyzes, and analyzes, and blah blah blah... Problem is, in my past I was a virgin. My "past" wer...

Mother and daughter trouble...need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and we are happy to be together. I don’t have any issues with my bf but his mother (50) and sister (20). They are uncontrollable. When the mother and daughter get in to fights, they ...

My boyfriend has a much lower sex drive than I do and I'm sexually frustrated. How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having trouble keeping our sex drives in sync. He says he is satisfied with sex 2 times a week whereas I would prefer 2 or 3 times a DAY if I could (well I wouldn't expect that but basically the more I can get, the happier I ...

My boyfriend suffers from depression and he acts like he doesn't want us to be together anymore... Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Whats happening to my relationship. Hi there my boyfriend of almost a year, suffers from very bad depression. At first he used to be very loving and affectionate, untill the last few months he doesnt text, call, or make any kind of a effort. Whe...

We're in a push-and-pull relationship. Can I fix things up? Or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I am confused here. I don't know how she thinks and what she want. Her actions and words are contrary. I am with her for almost 1 year. We start off great but now I feel the love is dying. We live far and rarely meet. We rely mostly on instant...

I think he cheated on me while I was pregnant, and I feel betrayed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. It all started when I got pregnant with our daughter who is now 2 years old. He started a new job and he would ignore me all day long and always be going out, coming home with friends and telling ...

My partner says he is getting an urge to cheat - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - My partner and I have been dating for some time now, and well everything has been great! we have fallen in love, talked about how we truly are soulmates and have decided we will get married. Well that was all in the plans, now my partner has ...