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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm being ignored by someone I'm trying to love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - To Anyone Who Can Offer Prospective: I recently moved to a new state about 700 miles away to attend graduate school. I've felt pretty lonely here, where I had come from before I was a social butterfly who had friends anywhere I'd go, which has ma...

Why does he bring stuff from my past we agreed to forget whenever we fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We went through a lot over a year ago. Everything has really been good and everything, but every time we get into an argument, my mistakes are brought up. Some happened a year ago, some happened 4 ...

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...

I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and ...

Should I give him a second chance for the baby's sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - ok i have wrote on here before about my boyfriend, he is in the army. i'm pregnant and have 3 weeks left. My boyfriend of 3 years has been distant with me and went on a lads holiday and basically hasnt spent no time with me. i have recently got a ...

She has a family history of cheating women! How can I stop thinking she will cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Im a 29 year old male, and I have been currently dating a woman for over a year. We hit it off when we met so we ended up moving in together. Life hasn't been better!!! But I find myself thinking about the following quite a bit, How can I get it out ...

I have now become the doormat or the soap box. What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate your advice and comments. I do not know who else to turn to regarding my situation, someone who can give an unbiased opinion of it. I'm 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 34. We've known each other for roughly 3 years. I did not...

I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 ...

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity an...

After my pregnancy, my husband prefers to look at porn instead of sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5years now, we have 2 babies.. a while back , late at night, he asked what i was about to do... I said,"go sit on the couch"... well, the t.v. timer came on for lesbian sex. I figured I wasnt doin the job, so i go to ...

How can I tell my wife that we need to separate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hmm well i hope you can help ! iv been with my partner of 10 yrs now im 27 and she is 44 ,we have a son who is three and we love him to bits . unfortunately our relationship is very stale and even tho we laugh together and go out together as a ...

I'm involved a crazy love triangle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Alright this one is a tough one, so I'll try to really explain this one. I'm involved in a crazy love triangle. I have a child with a guy who has another child with another girl. She has two children ages 2 and 5. Now a couple months ago I got ...

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...

How can I accept my appearance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hi their, this isnt a love or sexual question, its more about appearance.. im about 5'4 large built and a little overweight.. alot of people tell me how pretty i am, but all i see is ugly and fat, i got tormented at school when i was younger when...

How can I talk other women knowing I'll never pleasure them sexually?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hi, i dont know where to start, i am married with four grown up children, ok here we go, my youngest is 27 she has a girl 8 years old and a boy 3 years old. she was on heroin and me and my wife went through hell with her, we got her of it eventua...

How can I handle my lover's best friend who wants to tear us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I really need advice on this and Im sorry for the length but to truly understand you kinda need to know everything. It's a very complex situation. I've already established that this isnt perhaps a great situation, but I need help on how to deal ...

Should I send him packing after what's happened? Is this fair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm in my junior year of college right now in a three bedroom apartment. The problem is that I have a third roomate, my ex-boyfriend that I'd been seeing almost four years. Previously I had been living with him for the past two years rent-free ...

I haven't done anything with this new guy, as that would be cheating, but I do like him! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half months and it was great at first, but these days things are just different. He can be moody and distant, and he now answers my texts with just a few words (no kisses), or not at all. When I try and ...

Cheating boyfriend drama! Should I attempt to trust him or take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hello all. CHEATING BF DRAMA I have the same story of so many young ladies. My bf cheated and it hurt. We have been together for 3 years now. Our first year together, we were college freshmen. He transferred from his school to m...

My husband seems far too emotionally attached to his ex-wife! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I have been married a little over a year, but we have been together for 8 years.He has this emotional relationship with his ex wife that drives me nuts and when we speak about it he gets very defensive, he is also recovering in and out alcoholic.She ...

After we met, he stopped communicating! What's happened, could he be into another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - basically i started talking to a guy on the internet just over a month ago. we really clicked straight away and would speak for twelve hours at a time. after a couple of weeks we also started with phone conversations and he seemed really into me, ...

I'm confused by his actions! Do I try to keep him as a friend? Will he contact me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - HI this is a bit of a long one but I really could do with some kind of clarification here or advice. I went on a date with this guy back in January. We hit it off really well and he said he wanted to see how things go. The next time I heard fro...

I'm concerned that she's going to try to take him away from me. How do I tell her to back off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - In the past year and a half, my boyfriend and I have had a lots of ups and downs and things were finally seeming to get better again when 2 weeks ago on Saturday we were at a friends house and we met a girl, lets call her C. My pregnant friend, ...

He told me he was lusting after other women, which was a shock to me as I thought he'd become rather asexual! Should I be worried and what can I do to spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi - hoping someone can help me out here. I've been with my partner for 16 years. He is 44 (I'm 5 years younger). We have two young kids. He wasn't so keen on having kids but went along with the plan. Things haven't been great with us lately and ...

He admitting he thought he might be gay but then he changed his mind! How is this possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Help, my boyfriend has just admitted that he thought he might be gay this summer. I found chat logs of him talking to men and web-camming with gay men on the internet. He says that it was just a phase and that he loves me, which i totally believe as ...

Analyse yourself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Why do we, and I say we referring to man and women always seem to grab on for the little things we have. And when I say little meaning things or people that are worth nothing. We stay with someone even thought we are not happy because we are scare ...

We keep fighting and now he doesn't want to see me any more. How do I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been arguing a lot until about 2 weeks ago and since then we had been getting on great until yesterday. Yesterday we started arguing again, and he would not let me out his room as he had locked the door and took the key. He...

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

My girlfriend is too "shy" to call or initiate contact...any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a woman for a few months, and lately we've had to spend some time apart, I've realized that she generally waits for me to initiate any communication. I understand that she loves me...or has said so- she come to visit from a great ...

I feel like I am running our relationship - should I sit back and see if he takes the reigns?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I feel like I shouldnt have to be running my relationship. He never initiates anything, even going out or sex. our 5 year anniversary is coming up and i want him to put in some effort and so something special. yeah i could contribute seeing as this ...

I am pregnant with my ex's child, but he wants nothing to do with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - im pregnant, my boyfriend and i broke up...things were good till he cheated on me on the roof while i was in the house....at that time i didnt know i was pregnant. later i told him and he came down to support me or so he said.....(we lived in ...

He doesn't want kids - EVER!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I'm only 20 years old and I don't plan on having children any time soon as I want a career and to focus on myself for the next ten or fifteen years. I'm getting married to an old friend who I've cared very much about for years now and we tragical...

I may be too needy and others don't respect me for it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey Not sure this is realy sexual or relationship themed, but i think ultimately it does relate. Am going through a bit of a confusing time at the moment. I live in a large shared house, we are all students, about 9 lads all known each ot...

His ex wife won't let me see my step daughter...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband's ex-wife won't let me see my step daughter when he leaves for boot camp (army) what can I do about it?...