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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Please help. I'm too scared to leave him, beacuse we have two beautiful daughters together, and I don't know what he'd do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3years and we have two kids. he always yells at me, he calls me names like bitch, whore , dumb ass, etc . he hits me and pushes me, but i love him and he says he loves me, but im not to sure. he always calls to see wher...

Can my moody ex ever get over his jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Can anyone offer me some advice? I was dating a guy for 4 months after being single for a year (by choice). This person came out of an 8 year relationship which was acrimonious and they are currently trying to sell thier house. A few days ago we ...

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affa...

My ex and I had an on/off relationship with him going back to hsi ex every time. I felt horrible and insecure to know they are together soon after our break up. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex two and a half weeks ago. Since then, I've been very good about not calling, and I was finally feeling good about myself and the situation. Then, yesterday, his ex-girlfriend's boyfriend wrote me a message over myspace telling ...

It's not fair on us. We want to spend some time alone, but his family keep getting in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hi, i love my boyfriend he is 27 years old and moved back in with his mum and dad when he broke up with his ex. We are putting in for a house together and he is fighting for his kids, but since i have been with him we dont get left alone. pe...

My ex refuses to let me move on, he threatens me on a daily basis, police won't do anything and I'm constantly terrified when I leave the house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I need some serious help! I have been with the father of my child for 4 yrs... he was very verbally and physically abusive so I left and moved in with my mother and my son from a previous. we still tried to maintain a relationship and he promised ...

My first relationship ended because she didn't have feelings for me, am I doing something wrong if girls don't connect with me emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a bind and I'd like some help, ANY comments are welcome!! So anyway here's my problem, I'm 22 and I've only been in 1 relationship which didn't go over too well for me (reason being is because she took nearly 7+ m...

"Well, if you're not happy then I can't make you, but call me sometime if you want sex"?! How could he tell me that after all the nice things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy for 3 months, he is getting divorced but still living with his wife until the house sold. I had been uncomfortable with this from day 1 but until now it never bothered me as I didn't know things would progress. He said she ...

He makes me feel low and lack confidence about myself. How do I change myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Well heres the thing, iv been with my boyfriend for a year now and he always seems to make me feel low and tells me that my friends don't like me. We split up a few weeks ago becuase he was finding problems about my personality and a week later he ...

Internet date already has a girlfriend, what shall I do? I would rather just delete his number, but how to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I joined a dating website and started to talking to a guy, he messaged me first. I checked his profile and didnt really fancy him but didnt want to be nasty so chatted for a while. Anyway he turned out to be very funny, a really good laugh. And I ...

He makes insecure comments now after our threesome, and now when I want to interact with one of my friends I don't tell him. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with ...

I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...

I cheated on my boyfriend and confesses, he wants me to think of a solution. His is to get even!...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend the other day, i told him what happened, now he wants me to think of a solution, but i don't have one, and his solution is to do the same thing to me, to make it even. what should i do?...

He threatened he'd stay in the rain, suicidal, so I invited him to my house where he continued his abuse, when I refused sex he said his ex was better, etc. Is this emotional blackmail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hello there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 16 months now. When i first met him he was a depressant after splitting up with his ex girlfriend, i helped him through it and he has been on and off them for some time know. He often says he ...

He said he would stay with me, but I can't get his comments out of my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm so confused and upset. I have been with my bf for over 4 yrs. I have been ill and out of work and he has been living in my house and supporting me. We argue because he's not good at communicating and therefore i keep second guessing...

My girlfriend is violent and refuses to compromise. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend regularly and violently freaks out over ordinary problems. This morning she was angry because I stayed up late on the internet in our room after she went to sleep (having put in earplugs, as we live above a main road, and simply said ...

My jealously keeps ruining my relationships, but is it my problem or his? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hey Guys..Im in a bit of a dilemma…I have written to you guys before about my insecurity problems…I am very insecure about myself, and get very jealous in relationships. This is the reason that I split with my last boyfriend, becuase he couldn’t ...

How can I become more confident during sex and foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boy friend for 7 months. We both want to try different things during sex but i dont have any confidence when it comes to my body. Im not very experienced when it comes to sex ( i have never given a head job and sometimes i wish ...

Before I met him he was quite the ladies man, now I need to forgive him, but I'm not sure I can...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for almoust three years now. Yesterday i found out that my boyfriend was planning to cheat on me, meeting a girl for the first time, while he was telling me that he was going to the doctor's with hi...

He watches porn even when I am in another room or in the same room, he just sits and stares at the computer images while ignoring me... I don't know how to handle this, it makes me feel bad and ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I have known for a while that he watches porn, we have watched it together and even bought various sex toys to use with each other. About a year and a half ago, he started using the computer. It took a wh...

There are 3 guys in my life, but I don't know what to do! I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hey I’m jus a confused 14 year old that needs help ha!......well I’m stuck between 3 great guys one is my boyfriend (age 16), the other is my ex (age 18) and the other is the sweetest guy that I jus met about 2 weeks ago(age 17)! Ok the problem is I ...

My wife is behaving strangely, how should I interpret it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I have noticed some inappropriate behavior from my wife your thoughts and input please, 1. my wife goes to a bus. client's bedroom when he is alone and when his wife is out of town, leaving my daughter in the car in the drive way. her excuse, "...

Should I send this email to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Here's the backstory. Before we started going out, we worked together and became good friends by being there for each other through tough times in our respective lives. Once she left the job, we started officially going out, and we were ...

I’m utterly devastated, I did admit to him I had made mistakes in the past, but he became very disrespectful and nasty to me, and in the end he dumped me. Is this what I deserve for trying to be perfect for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I admit I had made serious mistakes. And I never denied this to anyone. For starters I lied to him about my past when he asked. I lied because he was jealous much, and I kind of expected an awful reaction to the truth. I lied, but told him the truth ...

I've left him and now he says he won't see the children anymore. Have I made the wrong decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I left my husband of three years last weekend. We have two children together and I have a older daughter that he was parenting for 4 years. He says that I have broken up our family and he will not see the kids anymore. That if they want they can ...

This guy I like has a two kids with his girlfriend, but says he wants to get to know me better. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - i have feelings for a guy and he also has feelings for me.i been talking to him for about a month now and about two weeks ago he told me that he has a two year old little girl and a seven month baby and he also lives he with his babies mother.now he ...

He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell ...