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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one ...

My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to ...

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving ...

Is he cheating on her or did they really break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Lots of advice on this welcome. I split up with my ex a year ago and he met someone else. I have a daughter with him and still have feelings for him. We email each other because he works away and for different reasons i had an inkling that he has ...

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he think...

No matter what I do he still doesn't trust me. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked. This is the first time we've been apart. He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he do...

Should I worry that we have sex all the time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...

How can I make my boyfriend be more mature about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - how can i get my boyfriend to help with my pregnancy? ok .. well my boyfriend n i been together for a yeae..n hes been really happy lately because of our child. and i really love him and care bout him .. the thing is ,, hes always buyin vide...

Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...

Letter to my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Dear M I hate the way you came back into my life like a whirlwind, then left again just as fast I hate the fact that both times it was for another woman I hate myself for being so stupid to have given you another chance in the first place...

I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away fro...

Does he want to work out the relationship in the future because he wants to keep contact with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - In a LDR for many years pretty close relationship we were looking towards a visa and overall serious connection. He broke up with me because he says I kept doing things that bothered him such as he would warn me don't go spend the money on that you ...

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there...

I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...

What do I do about this girl? Her father doesn't even know we are dating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Hi everyone , i'm dating a girl for about a year,just it's our actually fourth time that we r being together in past 6 years,not only that, we have a boy 5 years old.She constantly tells me in a last few months that she is in some kind of faze and ...

My fiance doesn't always cum -i need some advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - my fiance and I are currently in a long distance relationship so we're just seeing each other every after 3 months and we spend one week together. Between that time we always do a lot of sex and he could cum at least 3x a day for a week. But ...

My ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me bit I'm with someone else now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - So I have this amazing boyfriend of almost 3 months. He means the world to me and we don't argue he doesn't flirt with other girls. And to me his is perfect. The thing is my ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me even though ...

Do you think his parents will ever accept me for who I am or do they just care about what I have and what I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - So This is my dilemma I have Been with my boyfriend now a year and a half, a year into are relationship I still hadnt meet his parents and now I can see why I didnt meet them, He was finshing his law course in university and he said if he failed his ...

My husband went on a cosy 'business' dinner, I'm worried he will cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My husband recently went for a dinner with his supplier who met him at office for business purpose. I saw his mails and found they went out for a cozy dinner. He hid it from me. I asked him he said just a friend. What should I do after this. I worry ...

Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinion? I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and he lives in Sarasota and I'm in Ft.Lauderdale. I met him down here and when he was here he never wanted to leave my side. Eventually he told me he wa...

I used a fake id to ask my bf if he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi!! i have a botfriend but i ws not so sure if he took things with me seriously so i kinda decided to check things out myself. so i made a fake id and added him as another girl.And i asked him out on that id. He told me(thinking i was the other gi...

How can I defuse this situation, did I lead him on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Grrrrr ive gone and complicated my life. After a turbulant split from someone in january (my decision) ive been going in a certain pub every weekend, and made some frieds of the regulars. But one particular guy has marriage problems, and me being a ...

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...

How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant ...

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it ...

I need tips on how to be better at sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and I think we might have sex soon. I'm only had sex with one guy previously and I wasn't that great at it. I wasn't sure what to do when on the bottom and I REALLY didn't know what to do when I was on top. I'd like to actually ...

My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. ...

My wife freaked and left me, when she found this other woman's business card! I would never cheat..how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - A co worker gave me their business card by putting it in my front shirt pocket (I'm a waiter). She wants to cover a shift of mine. I get home and I put the card on the counter and leave to pick up my wife. When we get home, I take her jacket and put ...

He came back from officer training school and doesn't seem interested anymore! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are 22 and 21 respectively and have been dating for 2 1/2 years. He just graduated college and I'm a senior in college now. He's in the army reserves until December until he goes to flight school to become a pilot. Everything was ...

My fiancee is experiencing fears about marriage--should we still get married in a month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - To continue the present course or not. My fiance' and I will be married in slightly over a month and while I have zero fears about getting married she does. She says that 50% of herself is afraid of marriage and 50% can't wait and is telling the o...

I didn't understand that he couldn't tell me where he was due to his military job. What can I say to him when I apologize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My crush is military and right now is in a location where it's supposed to be confidential. I send him a note making reference that he didn't want to tell me where he is. He replied and ask me to try and understand that he can't tell me where he...

He's pushing me away! He doesn't seem to care.. what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Please help me, i dont know what to do. My best friend of 4 years found a boyfriend (yes he's bisexual). And since he came into the picture i got pushed out. To the extent that he stopped hanging around with me and would ignore me on msn. He had a ...

Do I have an eating disorder? It can't be normal..what's going on with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I found it quite hard to write this question which indicates to me there IS a problem. Still i'm not certain. i am a size 10 (in England) and i feel i could have an eating disorder. I do fear gaining weight and hate looking at photos of me because ...