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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm worried about my girlfriend's health, she's just not eating properly. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl i met at university for 8 months now. I feel that she does not look after herself properly and is very lazy in her approach to life. Eg. she wont eat three meals a day and wont cook for herself. Instead she ...

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...

I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...

I don't want to go out with him anymore, but I'm afraid he'll do something bad to himslef.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. He is 14 and smokes about 15 cigarettes a day. His dad is an alcholic and beats him reguarly. Every time I see him he has more bruises. He has also tried to commit suicide by taking overdoses. But him an...

After hearing bad news, my boyfriend put his foot through the TV set. It scared me and I don't know what to do now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating this boy for a while. I live with him in this cute little apartment in suburban Ohio. Recently he found out his little sister has cancer and when he found out he got so upset he put his foot through our TV. I love him ver...

I don't know where to start seeking help about my bf's problems. Please read and advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm writing to ask for some advice, I don't know if this is the right place to go but I don't know where to start. It's to do with my boyfriend, Jack. I'll give a summary of why we're looking for help. Jack grew up in a pretty unstable upb...

My boyfriend pouts, holds on to tiny arguments and gives me the silent treatment for hours! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend pouts. He give the silent treatment and will hold on to TINY arguments for hours. If I say the wrong word he completely gets bent out of shape and gives me the silent treatment. I can be sarcastic at times, as well as him. If he is ...

We are really serious, but I can't let go of the past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I am 15, and I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are really serious, but i can't let go of the past. He went to a party and cheated on me and i was so hurt so icheated on him and he used to lie and this hurts me to even write this. I ...

How do I handle my possessive boyfriend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hey all , i would like to ask for your advice about my problem. i really don't know who else i should ask .. well , i have a boyfriend who is younger than me. he's 2 years younger than my age now . now , i'm 17 years old . i love him very much...

Should I apologise for yelling to get his attention? Should he have apologised for the huge bruise on my leg? Should I find better ways to deal with him when he is moody?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I went to a club and met my boyfriend there. He went out with his guy friends first and I went out with my girlfriends first. When I walked in he was super sweet and flirty and we were all having a great time. We were sitting at a booth ...

I'm having his baby but my ex doesn't care and insults me after hearing lies about me, he also said I have an STD (untrue) and that our baby isn't his! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hi i just just lookin for some advice as im really lost right now ,my ex and i broke up after a big argument wer he punched the wall and broke his hand i never heard frm him again he changed his number! then a few weeks ago i found out i was ...

My partner gets off on watching 'she-males' and he wont stop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - please help. I love my partner, but he loves watching she males all the time and he stimulates watching them. Its breaking my heart. Itold him to stop and he says its normal and wont stop. I have just had a baby and feel down. Is he right to do th...

Our 1 year wedding anniversary went unmentioned. Does this mean we have a bad marriage??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Wondering if this means we have a bad marriage..Although I feel we have a decent marriage. We have a 6 month old and a 17 month old. I stay home, he works. He likes his job and it is not stressful for him. Well, yesterday was our 1 year wedding ...

I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...

Apparently I said some embarrassing things, now I've lost my friend, and she refuses to talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi I have a friend and we have this special relationship. We have kissed and flirted with each other quite a bit, yet we dont talk about it. However she knows that I love her because I told her quite a few times. I got drunk the other night and I ca...

I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting ...

We argue a lot, so should I move to another country with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been married nearly ten years we have two children. My husband is from Albania and for the last five years he just wants to live in Italy or Greece. He has brothers in both countries and he thinks its a better life. I am scared of going be...

She is just so cold....do I sound needy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hi, everyone i will to thanks those that help me out in my prior post in this site (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-became-very-close-but-now-its-all.html). Things are getting better for the past few weeks, but then there is another thing ha...

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

My online boyfriend can't seem to move on from past offences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi I would like to hear some opinion from anyone here. I have my long distance bf from US whom I been with for 2 yrs, we haven't meet yet but soon. As a normal couples we do have our arguments even to the smallest things. I normally send an email...

My boyfriend suddenly became abusive and now won't contact me. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i met my boyfriend during xmas at my home in 2006. for quite sometime, we were so much in love especially i love him too much. but to my suprised sudently he changed his attitute towards me, and started abusing me everyday, still i told him that i ...

I'm getting restless with my girlfriend of over a year. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - ok, i dont know if im in love! ive been wit the same girl for 1 yr and 1 month and been faithful but ive been thinking about cheating on her! some days i wanna be with her and some days i wanna be single and be out meeting new girls! we fight alot ...

Will this new long distance relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This guy i know has just started going out with his new girlfriend for about a month. AT the beginning of September, she moved away for school and Im not sure when she's coming back. He, however, lives in rez with some friends and has already chea...

16 wks pregnant and my husband's just told me he's fallen out of love with me. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 weeks pregnant and my husband told me after the last appointment that he has fallen out of love with me. I asked him how long he felt like this and he said just a few days. Can you really fall out of love in a matter of days? My husb...

I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...