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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend is trying to take a job out of the country. How should I feel about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a really nice girl for about 2 and a half months. Things are going really well. About 5 weeks ago she told me about a job opportunity she was notified of that would take her to France for 4 months starting January 2009. We both live ...

My girfriend and I have been together for four years and we have had a great relationship, but recently she wanted some time from me, to figure out if she really wants to be with me, she feels the spark is not there anymore, I love her sincerely, is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - I have been dating my gf for almost 4 years and we both deeply love each other. We have been through it all together and it has made us and our love stronger. Recently after things had been going great she felt as though the spark was lost and that ...

How can I make it up to my girlfriend? Is it too late for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - well people i have ben on a relationship for the past 4 years and this is the first time i last so long with a girl. i got my heart broken back in jr high ever since i talk my self to not have feelings for none but this girlfriend love me so much ...

My husband and I do not have good sexual relations, I try to tell him what I like, but it does not take, I am not satisified, what advice can you give me to help the situation, I don't want to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i've been married for almost three years, and my husband works a lot of hours. we've got two children, a one year old daughter and a two month old son. i'm a homemaker. i have tried to come up with many ideas of foreplay and tried many ways of ...

My girlfriend and I have broken up again, we have small fights when we are together, but I think we would be able to get past them if we try, I don't know if she wants to do this, how can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Ok, recently my girlfriend of almost 2 years have broken up (1 year 11 months). I ended the relationship a few days ago because we have been having so many little fights that it's not enjoyable to spend time together. Immediately after I realized ...

My boyfriend is convinced I'll leave him, but puts me down all the time too. Why is he acting like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year started acting weird a month ago. He puts me down a lot verbally (that's I'm fat, act dumb, etc.) and I tell him that it hurts my feelings but he just says "you know I'm only kidding, I love you for you and wouldn't be with ...

My partner's adult (and married) children dislike me and I feel he should stand up for me more. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i have been on this site alot of times since i started dating the man i am now with. he is 69 years old and i am 65 years old. both of our spouses are deceased. my friend introduced us 3 years, and 9 months ago. I stay with this man almost all of ...

Why did her feelings for me fade as soon as she moved in? Did she do all this just to use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Before I met my girlfriend it was always her dream to come and liveand wrk in my country, we met and a long distance relationship developed,and we visited eachother. I moved Heaven and Earth for her and her Daughter to come over, never ever done so ...

My boyfriend is very controlling and thinks that I am cheating on him, instead he is the one who has cheated and admitted it, I have a baby, no money and nowhere to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i am 22 years old,. i have a 7month old with my boyfriend of 5 years. i am torn in what to do cause i dont want to break up my family but i feel like i cant do this anymore. here is why, my boyfriend is very controlling and thinks that i am ...

We argued frequently and would often end up screaming and shouting at each other, so I broke up. Why do I feel so guilty now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Sick of falling in and out of love. Hey all, I've just ended an 18 month relationship with my girlfriend and I feel incredibly guilty. I've had some serious health problems in this time and she stuck by me without complaining or moaning. I didn'...

Should I finish this relationship or hope that some day he'll propose to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I'm 27 and my bf is 26. We know each other for a little more than 4 years an have been dating for a little less than that. My problem is that I have the feeling that I'm not good enough for him. I always thought that he is the one, but now I am not ...

He didn't send me a birthday card on Friday, I am deeply hurt and have ignored his calls for the weekend. Should I let him go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Im a little confused..ive been seeing a great guy for months and although hes a little forgetful we have a ball and i have no other complaints. But...it was my birthday on Friday and even though he had a wedding to go to that morning in England for ...

My boyfriend isn't very ambitious and uses his mother's credit card to pay for our dates. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Ok. Here's my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 27 and he's 29. We both live at home. I work full time while saving money to purchase a condo. I have worked ever since I was 16 years old. My boyfriend on the other ...

We just got married and we are already having problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - well, my husband and i have been married for about 3 months...and sad to say its already having problems. i work part time, he works full time, we both clean and cook and take care of the house and stuff. im looking for a full time job but being ...

God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June ...

What can I do to get my relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for over four years now. Nine months ago my partner and I moved in together and away from our parents from the first time. We also moved with two mutual friends of ours. My partner has become increasingly ...

We planned our future together but now that she's in college..she doesn't want that anymore! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Ok so this situation is very complex but me an my girlfriend have been together for almost two years and we have talked about marriage and having kids down the road and everyday she would tell me how much she loved me and sending me messages that ...

This female has sent me nude photos and claims she's pregnant with my child! It's not true...how do I convince my gf that this other girl is a liar??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupids, I have a bit of a strange problem. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and a half. I love her and (hopefully) she loves me. But that's not the problem. Before i started seeing my girlfriend, I was set up on a ...

We started something that was never finished. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I developed an attraction for a guy at work who chose another girlfriend other than me. I was heartbroken but managed somehow to move on. We came so close to forming a relationship so I was devasted when this other girl made the moves on him (I'm ...

He wants to move back to his home town, even though he knows I hated it there. Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 mil...