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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Want baby to have daddy but he's a bum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i feel so messed up right now and i dont know what to do. im 6 months pregnant at 19 and ive just found out that my ex boyfriend has gonorrhea, he says he didnt have it when we spilt up but he is such a liar i dont think i can trust him. we spilt up...

His family are coming betwen us. How can I make this relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 260 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - im struggling to keep my relationship with my bf alive due to his family. first of all is he is a long distance bf which i can only see around every 4-7 weeks for maybe 4 days. also we can only speak on the phone 2 hours a day the main problems...

Is it worth all the fuss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i need some advice. i got with my bf in March 2006. we constantly got into agrguments and i have ended it with him loads of times...it always seemed to be 2 months on 2 months off. Then in June 2007 i we got our act together and we've not split ...

Why is this a problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

25 January 2008 (?) - I have read about people writing some negative things about the other woman, I have been in this predictament if a man is saying he is unhappy at home and you are there to comfort him be it sexually or emotionally what is the fuss? I believe I ...

16 and scared to lose my virginity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Ok me an my boyfriend has been dating for only 3 months i am 16 an he is 17 we are in love you can say.Sometimes i get the feeling that he is cheating on me but then i think that he aint.everytime i go over his house i have some excuse to why we ...

She can't see that sex is love for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - hi I'm 54 my wife is 34 we have 3 kids in the beginning we had the best sex i ever had i love her so much it hearts dont work i have money look after kids all day we don't sleep together we have sex 4/5 times a year she dont touch me just says put ...

Tormented by love for cousin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - First off I wanna say The bible says nothing about being with a cousin as bad. Actually there are stories of key members being with their cousins. Its bad when you're with a brother or sister, thats considered incest. Anyways I am in severe agony ...

I lied to him and feel bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i'm 28 and in a long distance relationship. I lied to him about not changing my password. He is a computer person and i think that helped him. he asked me several times but i kept saying "no, i didnt." I've lied to him several times but i used to ...

To be or not to be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My ex and I recently broke up after dating for only 2 weeks (having been knowing and been attracted to him for a lifetime)..he broke up with me because he said he may still be in love with someone else or whatever, but he also loves me. I hones...

Top five to ten ways to win an ex back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - What are the top 5 or 10 ways to get an ex to want you back? I don't want to play mind games with him, I just want him to realize all that he's missing. I know that sounds totally selfish of me. But I guess I just want to try a few things to get ...

Loved one refuses to get help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - When a man leaves you for reasons of insecurity or committment issues, how do you convince him he needs help without outright telling him to? We broke up, but not because we don't love each other. Everyone said we were a perfect match. ...

Wondering if I'm being unreasonable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about three months now. So far we have used only condoms but sometimes we find ourselves starting to have sex without the condom and then putting it on when he's close to coming. Because of this we decided ...

Follow the path I'm on, or change routes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I have been in an "exclusive" relationship with a man 18 years older than myself for 3 years. Our age difference has never been an issue for me. He is very sweet and attentive when we are together. Sex is amazing. The problem is that he was ...

How to break addiction to abusive boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Dear friends, Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationhip for almost 2 years.He was nice to me for the first year but he used to spend very days and days with his friends not bothering to know how I am. since last few months he has started ...

My Partner has just left me with a newborn baby. How can I get through the grief and raise my two kids successfully?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My Partner has just left me with an 8 week old baby and I'm really struggling to come to terms with this and finding life very difficult at the moment. We had been arguing for some months and had come to a stalemate situation. Several nights a...

I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...

I'm disgusted... I found a fake rubber vagina in my bf's closet!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I found a fake rubber sex toy resembling a woman’s vagina in my boyfriend’s closet! I got furious at him and threw it at his face and said “What’s this?” He got angry at me back and said it wasn’t my business, and he had it long before he knew me. ...

He doesn't want to see me because of my depression but if he isn't interested then why spend so long on the phone with me???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Where to start. Started talking to someone on line October 06, we were supposed to meet 22nd October, never happened, had a huge online argument instead on a public forum. Started talking again Jan 07, he lived 280 miles away. He moved to within ...

I lent him some money, he wants to pay it back but I feel I've been used and manipulated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Will try to put this as simple as poss, just wanted opinions really. Got back with someone last november after being split for 3 months. Previous to that we were together a year. He lied about something, nothing major, but it caused a wedge b...

My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...

Why won't my boyfriend treat me like a princess anymore??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I usually talk in "baby voice" to each other, he talks that way when he is being really sweet and wants to show me affection. I admit I haven't been very nice in the past and when he would act like that I would get mad at him abou...

If I can see myself with another man should I still be with my boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I am happy in my current relationship, which is a serious one, but for a month i have had this other guy on my mind. We work together and for some reason i feel like i could actually cheat on my boyfriend with him. I have no idea if he likes me...

Deep down I am not ready for this type of relationship...but could letting him go be a big mistake??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - For over two years i have been dating the same guy. He is great, funny, nice, loving... But lately, especially over the last few months i have been questioning our relationship. Our families have different religions and he will never agree with min...

Am I making a mistake leaveing my abusive girlfriend??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, 6 months of that we have been living together. I met her when I arrived in Australia and quickly became good friends. After two months of dating I was offered a good job in a different state wh...

Her passion for me has waned...could it be our previous friendship getting in the way??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I moved across the country to move in with my best friend of 4 years after we had lost touch for about 2 years, then met up again and fell in love. I had always been physically attracted to her as long as I've known her. I don't think she had been...

I broke up with my bf several times as he's not contributing to the household, now I suspect he read my private emails! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I recently wrote an email to a guy I was seeing in the summer before I got back together with my on again off again bf. There were somethings that were said that was just for him but it was very platonic and i wished him all the best. The next ...

He shows he loves me but little things kil and confuse me inside.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone, So I am dateing this guy for almost a year now. I know he loves me and I know I love him too. I am very happy when we are together and we always have a great time. He is very friendly, loving, sensitive and nice. If I am sad he drops ev...

Is cyber sex cheating??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...

My wife added an ex as a friend on myspace and I think this is very wrong...should I just delete him or confront her first??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - My wife and I are married for a little over 4 years. We were dating/engaged for about 3 years before that. So we have a lot of history and a great marriage. Question is, my wife recently set up a myspace account (with my help, she is a little c...