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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do women actually like the 'needier' man and enjoy caretaking him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Does anyone think that some women can actually like needy guys who never got love from their mothers?I guess I'm asking are there women who like to take care of men? And if so,why?...

My bf and I spent a weekend in a cottage and my father is upset! Do I have the right to defend it and tell my Dad exactly, how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Right so, I am an 18 year old girl. Recently, I spent the week with my boyfriend at a cottage in Wales. It was just a nice little holiday for the two of us. My grandmother told me on the phone yesterday that my father and his sister (my Aunt ...

Everything is great apart from the bedroom department..I can't seem to please him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hi there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for about six months now. Everything is great apart from the bedroom department. He completley pleases me in every way but i only happen to be able to do it to him in the trousers department. Ive tried ...

I'm bi and have a gf. Not sure about this gay lifestyle as I want kids and family someday. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm a woman who likes men and women. I have never been comfy about my female attraction and kept it hidden for along time, my close friends and family now know, they are great about it. My problem is i have now fallen for a lovely woman, she is ...

He's not affectionate and I love it! I want more and he's pulling away..what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hi hope you all can help as I'm feeling pretty down right now. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is wonderful we have the exact same sense of humour, similar interests, similar tastes, we basically on the outside looking ...

I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose ...

He's unmotivated and I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. Help me understand all this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a couple of months now and I like him a lot although I can't understand why I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. I have recently started working out again and we had been talking about getting in shape and eating ...

My uncle is the 'town nutjob'...what can I do to get him from hurting our family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My uncle is ruining our lives. He (Let's just call him "Bob") lives on the same street as us and he is becoming absolutely unbearable. I have felt increasingly suicidal due to this man and he is making me ill. I do not want to be related to him as ...

How does she get rid of this friend, whom she dislikes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My friend has this problem and she needs help so i thought of posting it out here.Well, she's been friends with this guy for...like....1 year.They were really good friends but now he has been very sensitive for her.She has a boyfriend but that guy ...

Obsessed with a celebrity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I'm married, have been for years,with children but have recently become utterly obsessed with a celebrity, to the point of spending time chatting to fellow obsessives in fan forums and neglecting my family and man. the obsession began when I met ...

My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby..how do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby. This is quite complecated so bear with me please. My friend had a baby a year ago with her then boyfriend, she has a flat and its ment to be for her and baby only but the dad lives there ...

My relationship is losing it's luster. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I'm sure there are thousand posts like this one every day. Well here is where I am at...I'm worried that my relationship is losing it's luster. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little over 6 months, but we both believe (or we talk ...

How do I stop being a control freak? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I would like help from anyone who can let me know how to stop being a control freak. I've gone for, Ask no questions from loved ones. Give private space. Control green eyed monster. All the time. Has anyone else got any idea's??...

I miscarried and he left me! I want to work things out. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My long term boyfriend broke up with me on the day I found out I had miscarried our child. He rang me up to find out about the news and was very supportive. I miss him and love him so much and he still wants us to do things together but keeps saying ...

The ex's other children have no manners and swear profusely..my 3 year old is picking up on this this! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My ex's other children have no manners and swear profusely. Our 3 year old is now picking up on this. I have tried to keep our relationship friendly for the sake of our son but my ex is more interested in being awkward and making life difficult s...

Why do I have moody spells?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - please help i am 18 years old and i am really moody when ever me and my boyfriend have a good day out i alays seem to end it by me having a öoody spell and i dont know why plus when me and my boyfriend have a little problem i always make the problem ...

Whenever a guy gets close to me...I get cold! Am I too immature for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - hi i really want a steady boyfriend but when ever a guy gets close with me i go cold! i cant help it i just get these feelings that make me want to run! yet theres this guy i long to be with whos not interested. Is the feelings i have for him the...

I want her back but what if this other guy is still in the picture? The jealousy is eating me up inside, I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Ok, well. I dated me ex for about 2 1/2 years. We had what i would call a "perfect relationship" we had our differences but we would never argue to a point where we were outwardly upset with eachother... ya know, nothing that a hug and kiss and ...

FAllen for my best gal pal..but..she is interested in another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I have fallen for my best female friend. Unfortunately, she has other interests... another girl. They are consumed with each other, although they do not claim to be an item, they pretty much are and they have kissed, that's as far as I know they've ...

He's in love with her but still calls me! Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I have long ago broke up (like a month and a half ago)..well he now has a girlfriend and he says he's in love with her...but he has call and texted me for sex while they've been together...and now he has been texting me for the ...

What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I've recently got together with a girl who had quite a past. She has been very truthful and open about them. She's had 5 ex-boyfriends before we got together. I have no problem with that for sure as I have numerous past relationships myself. However ...

He want's to suddenly slow it down! What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months and i recently met his parents and a week later he tells me that he thinks we are moving too fast and he would like us to talk it slow. He didnt really say what he meant by that or how things should ...

Help with my girlfriend...has she got someone else because I feel really used here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Currently in a relationship for over a year now with my girlfriend, who's 17 and I'm 20. For the whole year we've always been in touch and haven't gone a day without talking to each other. However for the last couple of months, shes been acting kind ...

She likes me-I like her but she's way out of my league. How do I tell her that we can't date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - This girl at school really likes me and I like her but the only thing she is way out of my league and i feel i wouldn't be able to handle her as people would say and i just want to be friends with her for now because childhood relationships never ...

It seems I can't do anything right for her and she doesn't trust me due to a cheating ex husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi, new to this, 24 yrs old, so here it goes. My gf, of 7 months is ex-military, been to iraq and seen some stuff. She was cheated on when she was married before, and has always been told she's a screw up. I've told her repeatedly that i love her ...