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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have some growing up to do...so how do you go from a spoiled child to acting like a responsible adult?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to always get along and spend a lot of time with each other. Last night out of the blue he told me that he loved me and didn't want to break up with me, but lately he had something on his mind. He was worried because we ...

Having problems in our relationship due to his immaturity. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - this is going to make me sound awful, but here goes. My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 5 years now, we got together when we were quite young and he never really seemed to mature and we're having a lot of problems because of this. ...

I feel our relationship is based on lies and inconsistancies! How can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I am really confused. I got together with my boyfriend after he had just seperated from his wife. It was a very difficult and nasty seperation.(and contiues to be a nightmare) We have been together for over 3 years now and although initially he ...

Her allergies are getting to me and it's affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has recently been diagnosed as being allergic . . . to nearly everything. In fact, when she asked the doctor for a list of everything she is allergic too, his answer was it would be easier to give her a list of what she isnt allergic ...

I'm not in love with her and she just won't take no for an answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - hi everyone, i hope someone can help. well, i've met this girl quite a while back, she's very attractive, but, there's a problem. I'm not in love with her. And I've told her this many times already. But she just won't take no for an answer. she ...

I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and ...

He's divorcing me and with a new woman...so why is he calling me for phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Why would my soon to be ex be calling me for phone sex when he is supposedly into a new woman and relationship and has asked me for a divorce? He lives in the UK and we returned to the US and he continues to call me, even from her house! Help ...

Too much to handle- boyfriend/kids/me.....jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Okay, so here goes! This is going to seem somewhat complicated: So I've had this boyfriend for a little over 5 months now. Over these past five months, I have fallen totally in love with him, without a doubt in my mind. So I was going to tell hi...

Not sure if I should marry him as he doesn't want kids and I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Should i stay with a guy that says we can get married, after years of saying he never would, as long as i never trick him into having children. He says that i do then he'll leave me and the child on our own, it's not like he hates children but he ...

If I take care of my divorce baggage and give her space...will my gf come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for 9 1/2 years and she just broke up with me and now I have some much hurt it is hard to deal with. I am no angel and have never finalized my divorce. She says that is not the reason. Her mom passed away 2 months ago and ...

I thought we were going to reunite, but she blocked me on messenger! Why would she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - i was in what i thought was a serious relationship for over a year, with a woman, that i had a relationship 10 years earlier, which lasted almost 2 years. as time when by after the break up, which came as shocking surprise, i moved on with my life, ...

How can I break it off with my very 'dependant' girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - I want to leave my girlfriend but she's too dependant on me. I don't think she'll be able to cope. She says her life has never been as happy as it is with me and I've turned her life around. She says I've helped her get off drugs, move to a nice a...

We've grown apart a bit. Is it normal to feel like this or is it a sign that something's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hi, this is probably going to sound ridiculous but I'll give it a shot. I'm really confused about my feelings for the man in my life. i know that infatuation and wild romances are temporary things and that being in love with someone is something ...

We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...

I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....

Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...

He ogles younger women. What can be done about it?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I have written before about this and cant believe I still have the problem. I am 53 and my fiance the same, we are totally in love and I have never been so happy. I could not ask for more in a man, he is wonderful. But occasionally he says things in ...

Do I give myself time to get over this, or should I end it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I am 26 and my boyfriend of the past year and a half is 36. We have a really goof relationship. My problem is this, we have a very good friend. He has known her longer than I have. They have had sex in the past. The other evening, after inviting...

I'm so moody even my family cant stand me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hello well ya see this i really need help its for any doctors out there please help me im so moody even my family cant stand me i dont want to make anymore problems i just wanna get on with my life is there any medication out there that i can take ...

How do I cope with a workaholic boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and what first attracted me to him was the fact he is a determined person.However, I have came to realize that his determination is more like money hungery. He works 7 days a week. It seems like ...

I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...

Not trusted yet! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My boy friend says I am the love of his life but he doesn't trust me. And wants to know eveything I did when we were not together. What do I do? ...

Why did he cheat on me so soon after our break up? Should I end our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - where do i begin. i had been dating my boyfriend for 5 years when we decided to move across the country together. the situation got really tense and we broke up and he moved back home. shortly after he left we began talking on the phone again and ...

No matter how pleasant my dates, I get bored of them very easily. I call it "carnal apathy." The only different relationship has ended and I'm back to the "old self." Ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Hi there, I Feel rather ridiculous having to come to a forum for the answers to my problems, but without spending hundreds of dollars this is the best help i can get. Around half a year ago, I came out of my first real relationship. It...