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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My b/f took an ex home for the night. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend took an ex girlfriend home to his place last Saturday night after the pub she claimed to be hassled by some other bloke and asked could she go back to his for a while they chatted apparently then she asked if she could crash, he told h...

Can you Persuade an ex, that you should be together, and give it another go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...

I need to spend family time with my parents! How do I tell them this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl and I have a problem with my family. I live at home with my parents and younger sister but I don't really get on with them. We all work but when we get home, we don't spend much family time together. It is just like living ...

Mom caught me smoking! How can I get her trust again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - hey, well this is a bit long but here goes.. ive got into a bit of trouble with my mum + step dad.. i have a 16 year old bf (to be 17 in march) + im 13 (14 in feb) my parents think hes getting me into smokin, drinkin, drugs + sex but hes not. i ...

Everything was great till she said I lied about my past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - Been in a relationship for 9 months. Everything was great till she said I lied about my past. She is a police officer and I had a case that was going on it finally ended two days before Xmas. With a ruling that we could still see each other. She ...

Is there any hope for us or am I right in thinking that he needs time alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Bit of a long tale, but hopefully you guys will be able to help me with this! I have a boyfriend of 2 yrs. At the start of the relationship we were madly in love and it was wonderful. They were the best times of my life. However, we have...

My wife's sexual past disgusts me--over 20 guys from the age of 16-18!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - When me and my wife first hooked up, she was 18 and had me thinking she had been with two guys before me. Then the first lie came to light when I had to take a DNA test for our first son, because on a trip back home she had sex with "a friend". So ...

He doesn't like my speaking style and he cuts me off. Why is he so rude to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My b/f of 3 yrs.is continually cutting me off in the middle of something I'm saying because he says I "take too many words to tell a story"...he wants simple yes, no, and very few words. The least amount of words possible to say whatever I need to ...

The guy I like is into swinger's clubs and porn. I've thrown in the towel with him but how do I deal with my broken heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I met some one over 7 years ago. We have had a loving relationship during that time, we live apart. He prefers staying single. I now find that he is going out and is part of a local swingers club with another woman, he is dating other women, and ...

My friend's bf is all about her one minute and the next, he says nasty things to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am writing this for a friend. She is going out with this guy for about 9 months now. At the start he was the perfect boyfriend but he seems to have taken a bit of a turn. One minute he is all about her and the next he says nasty things, ig...

I'm bi and thinking of women too much. How can I work this through without it affecting my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I am in a loving relationship with my long term boyfriend. I consider myself to be bisexual and cannot stop thinking about women at the moment. It is beginning to affect our physical relationship a little bit. How can I work through this without ...

He lied to me--should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - should i forgive my bf. for ten months he lied to me.....he told me this weekend that he's still a v im proud of the fact that he's still one just like me but the fact that he lied to me kills me. it came out like this: must i tell you the ...

Betrayed and mortified! My bf was texting sex related messages to other females!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years had been texting girls and joined a mobile chatsite this isn't the first time. The messages were all sex related which hurt me really bad. I confronted him and told him he either stops or leaves. He has ...

I told him how I feel and he said he didn't want a relationship! But now, he's started dating my best friend. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. I'm not sure if this plan will work for my situation but I have been putting it to use. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I...

I have no confidence around women...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - hi,i want a girl friend but i dont have enough confidence to ask anyone out. ever since my last girl friend cheated on me. and now i have like no confidence around women? what do i do...

Mom's new husband seems to be pushing us all away from her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone...I am having a problem with my mom's new husband. They first met about 6 months ago on the internet and decided to get married pretty much a month after meeting which was the first thing that bothered me since my mother has already been ...

I won't be his first sexual partner, so now he's mad at me! What is up with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - hi ive been having some problems with one of my male friends, im 24 and hes 34. we met early last year and have since become good mates, however recently he has told me that he is a virgin and thinks i am the girl he would like to have his first ...

My husband is crossdressing and it makes me SOO uncomfortable Help!!!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Ok this is going to be complicated. My husband of over a year has started to act a little different. At first I found out that he likes backdoor play, and not on me on him! Then a few weeks ago he started wearing my undies, Telling me that ...

He is so loving and caring to her but her sexual desires are not met. What's his problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I'm writing this on behalf of my sister. She got married(by a proposal) last week and after her honeymoon of 7days, she was complaining about her newly married husband's sexual attitude. We are in Sri Lanka and since it's an asian country,...

Is he dating these other women (some are prostitutes) or... is he just helping them financially, like he claims?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I was dating for 1month a man who is almost double my age. I really loved him and i think he does too. But the problem is a lot of women calls him and he try to answer them by saying he is with his GF. and i told him to ask them all not to call... i ...

I am controlling...how do I stop being this way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

22 January 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months now. We've never really had problems, but he's good looking, and a lot of girls fancy him. He's just generally a friendly guy, and that's why I love him, but I'm afraid it comes across as ...

It doesn't even feel like a relationship anymore...should I even try to make it work??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I've been with my fiance on and off for four years. We have a three year old daughter and live together. We both cheated on each other in the past but he did it with family and i still can't seem to forgive him for that. It doesn't even feel lik...

He treats me like crap...so help me learn to 'unattach' myself from him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - There's a boy that I started dating. We dated for over a year. In the process of us dating, I got attached. I want to know how I can get unattached, because he treats me like crap. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore. There's another ...

He was abusive so I finally broke up with him! Would he have changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I never flat out told my ex that I was going to break up with him if he kept on being abusive. But, after trying to break up with him many times I finally did. Throughout our relationship and even after I told him that it was because he was ...

What is the best way to give her a chance to find her love for me again? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend says she has fallen out of love with me. What is my best way to get her back? We met when she was over visiting a friend. She kept coming back to see me and then moved over here to be with me as we had so much in common and we were in ...

I am disabled and can't walk! Is this fair to my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - i fall in love with someone and he also loves me but i have a big proplem i can't walk and i dun know if i could live with him in a normal life or i will injustice him??...