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writes:I recently wrote an email to a guy I was seeing in the summer before I got back together with my on again off again bf. There were somethings that were said that was just for him but it was very platonic and i wished him all the best. The next day, I got questioned by my bf if I ever talked to summer guy. The creepy thing was there was a word that he used that triggered my mind back to email that I had sent. I truly believe that he went into my emails and read what I had wrote. I'm completely pissed that he would invade my privacy that way but I have no way to prove it. Is this guy really trustworthy or should I just break it up for good? BTW, the reason that we kept breaking up was because instead of contributing to the household (he use to live with me) he was spending his money on pot. He didn't pay rent for months or even offered to pay for groceries. I was stuck with all the bills for the household and while I make ok money, I'm no millionaire. And while I'm not 100% sure he read my emails, I have that gut feeling because of one single word. It was a word that I used to call summer guy and only the two of us know it.
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reader, eddie +, writes (25 January 2008):
 He sounds like a he's not carrying his weight. You also sound like you were having an inappropriate email exchange with your old boyfriend and you got caught. You don't like the fact he snooped but you really don't like the fact you got caught. "there were some things that were said that were just for him" What does that mean? What was the "name " you called summer guy? Don't forget, you were talking to a man you had something with. That is threatening to a certain degree or at least could be seen that way. If you were saying things that sounded like you were reminiscing about the good old times, that is not a conversation to have. Why do you feel the need to continue to communicate with him and say things that are of a very personal nature. It gives the impression that there is still a connection of some sort.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 It sounds to he like he should have be a off and stay off. He's a mooch. Change you e-mail password, and say goodbye to him for good. Find someone who will treat you good and be good for you and with you as a partner. Stop playing this little game.
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