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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant. What should we do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend dated 3 years ago for a year. we were truley in love. Because of my family not being to fond of him we broke it off and i was depressed for along time. I never really got over him and he never got over me. We met up again and my ...

How will I know if she is cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi guys... Im going through the phase of i think my Girlfriend is cheating on me im not so sure i need your thoughts please!!! and its tricky! I live in derby and she lives in tamworth about 30 mins apart im 19 and shes 17 we met at a party an...

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life pri...

He isn't working. Am I being selfish wondering is there any future for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - hi all just wanted your advice see ive been dating this guy for 4 months and since we started to go out he hasnt had a job , i mean hes tried going to job center and trying all sorts of places but its because he didnt get any qualifications i...

We're getting married but he's interested in someone else. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of over 5 yrs have been having some problems lately. We are engaged and are planning on getting married. But something has changed because he has met this girl who lives and hour or more away from us. He is all of the sudden ...

What can I do about erection problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I have erectal and low libido problems, more than two years ago, and my wife is very upset about it, as she thinks, its because I don't love her anymore. I don't know what is wrong with me,I went t the doctors and they say there is no indication ...

Am I doing the right thing letting him chase me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - hey everyone... i asked a question about my relationship with my ex yesterday...and i got responds but now i have another.. we were suppose to hangout yesterday but i told him i had things to do just for the mere fact that im still vulnerab...

He doesn't meet my sexual needs but masturbates to porn...does this mean he wants more sex but just not with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My sex drive is much bigger than my boyfriends. We've talked about it before, and he says that he likes to 'save it up' because it feels better when he cums if he doesn't have sex everyday. I would definitely prefer having sex more often than every ...

What shall I do?? I can't have him because his family won't permit it but I can't be without him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - hello. I'm a 22 years old Muslim Asian girl (i'm a Malays). I'm studying in one private college in my country and it is the same place that i have met my bf. My bf is a foreign student from Arabs. We have been together almost 3 years. He is fro...

The thought of her having sex with another man gets me depressed...can we ever have normal sex again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they had...

Found out my gf had a threesome and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for almost 7 months now, and just yesterday i saw where she had been posting on here and saw that she had posted about having a threesome with another guy, and a girl. I was shocked when i saw this and when confront...

How do I overcome his hypocritical ways of trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My other half is currently in the Army. He's preparing to go to Iraq, he'll be leaving in June 2008 until September 2009. This will be his second time. We've conversated on a few things. One of the topic was my exes. What happened? Why this? W...

He says he wants to please me but never does.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf for two months now and we recently had sex for the first time...I didn't get any pleasure from it...nor do I ever get anything out of any sexual thing we do. I know there is nothing wrong with me, because I am very capable of ...

When we meet it's great but it feels like he doesn't make the effort...should I say something??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks but we hardly see each other. I have 6th form and he has just dropped out of university and is looking for a job so it isn't that easy to. So i only really see him at weekends and sometime...

What shall I do about the father of my son who is violent, drunk and on parole??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My baby's dad, who was in jail for 1 year and a half, came out already. He makes me mad because he tries to say that he has right over me and my son when i was the one taking care of me and my son and him and i still am. My baby's dad don't wo...

He criticises any decision I make...should I just roll over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I am in a long-distance relationship with a man I have known for 8 years but have been dating for only 4 monthis. Lately I feel he criticizes/analyzes any sort of independence or decision I exert. If I watch a show about a relationship and I tell ...

Should I still trust my wife after she admitted emailing her ex behind my back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi, My wife received an email from an old boyfriend, she told me at that time and we agreed to that, she will reply and tell him that, my husband don't like us to exchange emails and for that this is my last email to you. The problem is my wi...

Do you think she is someone he would like to have an affair with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have recently found out that my long term partner of 10 years has been emailing another woman in a way I feel is wrong. here are some examples: Hi Nici just a quick e-mail so you are in my contacts folder, hope you're ok and not enjoying the war...

Problems with my 9 year old step daughter...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - im worried about my relationship with my step daughter (9 yrs old), briefly: she moved in with me and her dad in september last year coz her mum said she couldn't cope, me n the girl had a good relationship and despite her occasional insecurities ...

Shall I make a move or do I have to wait for him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Hi I am very shy. I am in a relationship for 2 and a half years now, and he hasn't kissed me yet. Every time I am with him something stops me from touching or kissing him... I have never been kissed. I know it is weird ok! Anyway, when I am not wi...

I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around o...

Fallen for my bfs friend...but I want to stay with my bf and just get his friend out of my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Alright. Hi everyone. I know my story is a little long and complicated but if someone could give me a little clue on what to do to help me I would be realllly happy. I apologize for me mistakes because english is not my first language) Now here ...

I feel like I am always walking on eggshells with my gf and it is wearing me down...what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - It seems like my girlfriend always is upset. It feels like anything I do. She is an emotional and sensitive girl - this she does admit. She will cry at any sad part of a movie, cry when she is happy; just generally emotional. However, her constant...

Are my fears based on something possible??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere ...

Help needed for long distance relationship and religion issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - There are two main conflicts in my love life. 1.) My man in the moment does humantarian work all over the world; so we try to cumminicate as much as possible, but this has been going on for 5 months already and I am just aching from being away ...

I want out of this relationship but I don't know how to break it too her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Ok, i have posted for help 2 times so far and both i have not added ALL the information, and iwant to be 100% sure about my next moves. AND I AM SORRY THAT THIS MAY BE VERY LONG!, but please read it all and help. ive been with my fiancee for...

She wrote love notes to her ex and I found them! How do I forget this and move on with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, I need a little advice... My partner and I have been living together for 5mths now. When we first met we were both fresh out of previous relationships - I had been dating someone for 2mths and she had been in a relationship for 2yrs....

He wants me when he is not with me and I don't know what to do because he is my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends since we were in the 4th grade; from 4th grade to 8th we had a little thing for each other but never really did anything about it. Now in 12th grade we are closer than ever. We are a group of best friends and him ...

She swears undying love for me but I have seen her have cybersex. Am I being unreasonable??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Can anyone tell me why people go to dating sites as single if they don't want to meet anyone? Over almost 2 years me and my partner have had several upsets due to her going on date and flirt sites. No matter what is said the truth is i am always c...

He slept with someone else and hurt me...is this a sign I need to run faraway??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Hello there, I was madly in love with my ex bf. We called it quits last month because he told me cheated and also because the long distance was too hard for him. So I let him go as he wanted. We continued to keep in touch via phone, talking a...