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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened....

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...

Is she stringing me along? Is her not contacting me even to ask how I am a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, Back here once again, in pretty much the same situation. I was going through a horrible break up with the same girl about a year and a half ago. But she came back saying she made a mistake, and i let her back into my life, and we were h...

Its gone sour since she moved here to be with me but I'm worried about her wellbeing if we split, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked ...

My friend grassed me up to my boyfriend. Do I become mates with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - rite this is complicated ..... very complicated. where do i start - well ive lived next door to this lad 4 about 12 yrs and he was best mates with my brother, when my brother went to university me n him became very close n he was my bestest friend ...

I feel bullied in my relationship.I want to leave, but I love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - For the past two years, I have fell head over heels for a man that just seems to not have the same emotional function as i do. Lately I have felt the pain and agony, of what it is really like, to have someone who you really care about just shove ...

How can we get his ex to leave us alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...

The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" ...

I am jealous because my boyfriend doesn't spend enough time with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm having trouble with my bf lately. I feel bored, and don't feel like want to see him anymore. We've been together for 3 years. He seldom spends time with me during the weekend,he spends all his weekend on trespassing to take photos. I know he is ...

I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

He lies about his bad habits and it pees me off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year and my relationship has been full of instances where we express something minor about the other person that upsets us - i.e. smoking, viewing pornography. In both cases, he's promised to quit smoking, and quit being secretive ...

He is a pathological liar, his family hates me, I am trying to move on, Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for ten years with this guy who is a pathological liar. He treats me good in that he pays all my bills and takes care of my son financially. His problem is that he bad mouths me to everyone and his family hate...

I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he ...

I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...

My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relation...

Torn between my best friend and boyfriend...which one do I choose??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I ve bin dating the same guy since high skool....am working and done with college now..so we've bin dating for a long time(7yrs)although a long distance relationship.. I met some guy about a year ago and we have bin very very good friend.....

I confronted him about him giving his number out and now he is calling me possessive and sick.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi.. i've been having lot of problems lately with my boyfriend.. i've been with him for 8years now. He is a good guy but i got to know that he mailed a friend of his(female)gave her his no and never bothered to let me know... i happened to find out...

Best friend's boyfriend won't let her see me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - So I’ve known my “best friend” for six years now. From the moment we met each other we were inseparable. We hung out every day, lived together for two years, and were closer than sisters. Our boyfriends have always had this weird thing about us ...

How do you find the balance between loving too much, or not enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - How does one find the balance? I recently heard a theory that if you show women you love them too much, all you do is chase them away. But at the same time, if you don't show then you love them, they will feel unwanted. What the f--k is tha...

He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) - I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...

Is he just playing hard to get...Or just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I made a big mistake last summer and had a no strings attached relationship with a guy for about 3 months. I started to have feelings for him so I called it off. I always thought that he did have feeling for me too but that he was afraid of ...

My friends tell me he likes me, but he won't ask me out. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I need help so badly right now. I am a college student and the guy I have liked for a year is graduating in May. I have known him for a year but we never really started getting to know each other until a few months ago. We flirted a lot and we ...

I'm 16, I'm LATE, told my boyfriend, he's being mean,help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to ...

Struggling to trust after girlfriend's affair. How do I discuss my concerns without being confrontational or appearing to be controlling or stalking her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. I thought she was the one and we planned our future together. Due to work commitments we do not live together but often stay at each other's house. A year ago I started to set up my own business ...

From Friends - to Lovers - to Nothing... but why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi I was really in to this guy I know, and yes we did a sex a few times, both drunk and sober. He told me he liked me, but it has been over 3 months since anything has happend. I find myself getting jealous of him when he speaks to other girls a...