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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with two men. The first is the father of my son who I have been with for 5 yrs. Not a very happy 5 yrs. He is currently locked up (minor charge) and has been for 8 months. During that time I met another guy who I have fellen in love with. The problem is he is very sweet...too sweet in fact. So his BABY MAMA DRAMA runs all over him. His children (ages 12, 15) do not care for me because of all the negative things she has told them.He is very attached to his children but cannot be around all of us at the same time because of all the tension. He is very fun, loving, and gives me alot of attention. He is also affectionate. The type of guy that would give you his all.My boyfriend on the other hand is very competitive, and feels like I owe him something, but we have been together for a loooong time, and our families are very, very close. The other guy's family is very distant. Do I put up with the BABY MAMA DRAMA and his kids, or do I stay where I am comfortable? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 December 2008):
 I don't know what state you live in but I do know that you don't get 8+ months in jail for a minor charge. You should decide what is best for your son and move on from there.
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