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writes: Ladies help ….Are there aspects that need to be present in a relationship to consider sex? How do you know when to consider sex in a new relationship? How can a man let you know he is ready for sex in a new relationship? What things do you consider when thinking about having sex?How important do you find sex in a relationship?
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 I believe all women should enforce the 90day rule. A man who only wants sex probably won't stick around that long. But if she sticks around, spending quality time, and getting to know you and vice versa, then he is for real.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): i always wait to make sure he's not just trying to see my ass or see me naked. i only do this becausei the first time i had sex i was 15 and her dumped me right after.
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reader, Hsham  +, writes (5 March 2009):
To be honest there are no rules here, if you feel the time is right, then its right, nobody can decide for you. Feelings are not an exact science and its not the same for everyone.
What I do know is that you shouldn't rush these things. If you don't think you are ready, then you are probaly not ready. He will find a way to let you if he is ready for sex, and if he's a good guy he'll be patient.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): I don't trust guys easily.I am very cautious.I have this sixth sense when I know a guy just wants to see my ass.With out a legal commitment I wouldn't do it.
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reader, Typical'Ox +, writes (5 March 2009):
 In all honesty, there aren't really any aspects or anything you need to think about before having sex wit a partner. All that you need to know, is that he loves, trusts and respects you. And when you feel that you are ready to, do it. Sex is a very intimate thing that you indulge in with the person you love, and you need to trust them to do it, because emotions and feelings do come out, if you dont really love him, and your not happy, then seriously recosider even being with your partner. But it's absolutely up to you when you do it.
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