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writes:I have a friend that has told me that his gf has some awesome... how do I say It (control down there). I have never encountered a woman that can do the things he has said she can and was wondering can any woman do that? I have a woman that climaxes and drenches me and the bed I love every minute of it, I was just wondering if any woman can control there privates so well that it can make a man cum without sliding in and out? Or is he FULL OF IT ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): Yes, there ARE women who have that kind of control. It can be an incredibly pleasurable experience for their partners. I was in my late 20's, and rather experienced, when I dated a girl who had developed and maintained her vaginal muscles. I'll never forget the feeling, or the girl.
After a couple weeks we ended up in her bed one night. In fact she had made it clear beforehand that this was the plan. I liked long, gentle lovemaking with lots of touching, oral, and other foreplay. She seemed to be just tolerating the activity, though I think she had one minor climax. I thought it was just nerves, new partner, etc.
We hadn't played very long when she got on top of me and put it in. We kissed and stroked for just a few minutes. Then she sat up on me, ran her fingers over my face, and said, "You're going to cum now.". She looked intently at my face, and I felt her interior muscles ripple around me. That brought me more than half-way there. She just smiled, no visible movement of her body, and gently pressed my shoulders down. The second time she contracted her muscles, I exploded - maybe the most intense climax since the night I lost my virginity. She just sat on me, grinning.
She stayed on me until I was finished, then politely lifted herself off. She said, "You never had that before, have you? The guys who know it's coming try to hold off, but they can't. If I knew it was new to you I would have held you on the edge a little longer.".
We kept on for about a month after that. The sex never really got intimate - always somewhat mechanical, and her deciding when I was going to finish. I figured out that was her personality - she just liked to know that she had control over people. But she could definitely use her pussy muscles!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell all thank you for all the help on this topic I really appreciate in and will pass on the info I have learned here on to anyone that may need it.
AGAIN THANK YOU FOR THE HELP ALL YOU HAVE GIVEN ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Yes and it's most enjoyable. The woman has to use kegel exercises to help her. Or more fun than that, try some tantric sex
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reader, jnh9011 +, writes (6 March 2009):
He's not full of it. I'm a squirter and I get the bed soaking wet but I can control it.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 It is called "Kegel" and yes, it is possible.
Check these out!
http://www.thirdage.com/sexual-health/kegel-exercises-result-in-better-sex
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/225-sex-tantra-and-kama-sutra/episodes/28096-orgasm-kegels-sex-positions-upping-ante
http://www.kegeltoner.com/
http://www.cidpusa.org/kegels%20exercise.html
Start exercising! (ummmm her, I mean)
Cat
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 It's possible for sure. You just have to experiment and play around with your partner to find out what works for both of you. Some girls also regularly do what are called Kegal exercises, which help with muscle control of the vagina.
Tell your friends, shout it from the rooftops; if she can tighten up when he is inside, it will feel great for both parties involved :)
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 March 2009):
 It's very possible!
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