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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I have been seeing each other for a little over a month. We are both in college, I am 19 and he is 23 and neither of us is a virgin. We havent done anything sexual yet (even thoough he is dying to lol) and Im ready for the next level. I want to give him a handjob but thats ALL I want to do for now. I am still not comfortable having sex at this point. I am worried that if I give him a handjob, he will expect me to do a blowjob or have sex right after but I want things to progress slowly. Is this a bad idea, will he expect more of me if I do it? Should I just wait?
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reader, thingyme +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Well... If you think you want to be with this guy and be serious i think you should hold out a little longer guys always want what they cant have.... (this is true) the longer you can resist the better it will be for you both if you don't want something so serious i think you should give in we all have our needs but.... the more you make him want you the more he will want you...
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (6 April 2009):
personally, i hate handjobs. from my experience girls who think they know what they are doing (my current girl has done a few and thought she was pretty good at it) have really no idea on how to make it feel really good and it takess a while for me to get off if i do at all. its not that you are all horrible at giving them, its just us guys do it hard and fast for are selfs and you cant do it perfectly (we have been doing it since 6th grade for average) so we know exactly what we like. you either will do it to soft or to hard for him. you could just do nothing untell you are really ready to go all the way.
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