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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me. I don't know why, I know he's not cheating because it's usually at his house with his grandma there and she would never allow that to go on. And when they do go out several of my friends ...

Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with my g/f without my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I’m happily married for 27 years with 2 grown up children. My husband and I spent lot of time together, and we go on vacation at least once every year. About three years ago, I went on a little vacation with my girl friend and stayed at my girl ...

Is he trying to give me hints? Or just being friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy, that I have known for approximately 4 months now. He is a year older than me and is in the same undergraduate program as I am. I met him in an extracurricular club Im a member of and we started out just as friends. He was ...

Am I a trophy to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well you know there are times when you want your boyfriend to like you for what you are and not for who you are.. the same with me I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we were really attracted to each other from day 1 and we still are.. so basicall...

Do I continue speaking with this guy and risk jeapordising my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey I'm a married woman, I love my husband so much and I don't wanna lose him, but I think I'm in love with someone else, I met this boy on facebook and we talk so much to each other, but I never met him in person, only speak on the phone and I'm ...

I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed ...

I fell for my best friend, but how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I fell for this girl and she is my best, most-trusted friend and i want to tell her but don't want to ruin the friendship. it gets more complicated because we are going to be joining the army together and she'll be in the same unit as me. my other ...

Did I offend him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really really like this boy, and have done for years. He recently confessed he liked me too. We aren't going out with each other just yet but he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him, and i want to but i don't know if i should. I told him i di...

Does he feel the same or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy that i have know for years. We are not bf and gf but we have had sex on many occasions. He was my first (as in i lost my virginity to him) and he has been my first for many things. (First guy to cook me dinner, first guy i ...

Does she still likes me and ignores me just to try and make it easier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - A while back two of my good friends split up. He felt she was too close to me, and was jealous, and she couldn't stand it, which brought all kinds of things up between them. I tried to be there for them both, but he blamed me and wouldn't talk to ...

Should I let my feelings for her remain a secret, at least for now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I have had a best friend for 10 years, and known his girlfriend for around 6 years. I have always been incredibly attracted to his girlfriend but have never done anything to make a move or compromise their relationship. For example, if I feel I ...

Out of my league....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - hey everyone i like this girl but i think that she is out of my league. We hooked-up(kissed) at a party about 3 months ago and some of her friends gave her shit for doing it. We talk like once a week texting each other, but i need to know what to d...

Should I be a self sacrificing dumb a*s or a self preserving b***h?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - ok so i have a problem. i have never been in a real relation ship, so i do not know how to handle this. There is a guy i have know since i was eight and he was twelve. i loved him from that moment on. im twenty now and he is mine and my brot...

Guys and scars

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm pointing this question mostly at the guys (and ladies, if u had something similar going on).. i've been through a surgery in the past year, which left about 2cm scars all over my chest and back - i had to remove about 30-40 tiny skin tumors...

Will he come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've made out with a guy who is 11 years older than me. He was my graduate student instructor last year but we started hanging out this year in March. in Fed, he met me again and talked to me and also asked for my #. One week later, he asked ...

Can someone console me please? Why do guys not seem to fancy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and so far I have never been in a relationship with a guy. My (girl) friends say that I'm pretty and sometimes I believe them, sometimes I disagree. No guys have said that to me though. It does hurt a little that guys...

Is she just joking or are these strong hints from her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Agh, im so confused. basically, me and my best friend, who are both bi, have had feelings for each other for god knows how long. however, she is not out, and we are scare it will effect our friendship so we have decided not to do anything abou...

It's all so confusing for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and ...

Is that a sign of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 20 years young and i've not had a boyfriend in a long time!!! i've like guys don't get me wrong but things never pan out and i don't deserve that to be honest i'm a nice enough girl but i always meet the wrong guys!! so anyways i b...

How can you tell when a guy is interested in you?

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17 April 2009 (F) - How can you tell when a guy is interested in you? I know this all might sound high schoolish, but its always like we are doing that stare and then quickly stare away thing when the other catches you looking...then sometimes it seems like he's ...

She says she loves me, but has no time for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have been facing a peculiar problem. She is my office colleague. We started dating about 10 months back. However, during this period, we could not spend more than 20 hours so far. Every time I ask her out she seems to have an engagement. ...

Is my roommate gay and has feelings for me? He claims he's straight.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - (I'd like to apologize for the wall-of-text you're about to get.) Basically the story boils down to the fact that I could swear a roommate of mine is gay and has feelings for me, but he claims he's straight. I would like to state that I have neve...

Am I being selfish wanting my cake and to eat it to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and he's 27. I will be graduating from college next month and my boyfriend revealed to me that he wanted to take me on a special trip to celebrate my graduation the day after my graduation. However, I told him that I would love to go but that...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...

Can anyone please tell me is he flirting or taking advantage of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi, this guy and i have been friends for three years now.from the beginning all our mutual friends pulled us together and the guy blushes and i cant just stop laughing when people put us together. now i want to know if he is flirting or does he ...

My best friend tried to finger me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand ...

My head says no but my heart says yes, should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - 5 months ago i discovered my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me, found a text saying 'come over so we can finally be alone' and believed that they did have sexual relations but merely emotional cheating at that time. Inevitably it was over ...

Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other. He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divo...

I lost her, Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...

35 weeks pregnant and feel so alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I feel so isolated. I feel like my friends don't wanna deal with me or talk to me. You know when you call or text someone and they don't answer or they just don't seem interested in what you have to say or how you feel. I ...

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

Should or or should I not, travel with him this summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Ok, I know I may sound superficial, but in my culture, IMAGE is all that matters for a woman; the way she dresses, she talks, her actions and who she goes out with. I would like you to bare this in mind. My reputation is very important for so...

In Love and Uncertain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My question: I'm single mom of 8 year old boy. He is also a fulltime single parent of a 14yr old daughter, and he picks his 9 year old boy (of another relationship) every weekend from out of state. It's been over a year. Most everything betw...

My life is full of bad stuff. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 (account age is wrong) and I just started high school. I think my life is just crashing down on me and I think I really need help. Well basically, life at home is no better either. I'm embarrassed to say that my sister is possibly mad ...

In love with my good friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey.. i'm lying in my bed trying to clear my mind up and i simply feel hopeless. i'm in love with my good guy-friend, for the past 2 years. i'm 25, female, virgin, and i never had anything close to relationship, not to mention a damn kiss :( ...