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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm so sick of being single! What can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Haven't had a girlfriend since March, been looking since with no luck. Also, i'm not used to this, before then i was basically never single for 2 or 3 years. It's been so long now and i don't really have any confidence anymore, i haven't got any ...

Is he interested or just playing a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

My boyfriend told me to stop talking to this other guy but I don't know how to tell him that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i don't know what 2do.. i gt bk wiv my ex nearly 2years ago n we've been goin out eva since n its bin great..except b4 i gt wiv him there was this guy i gt wiv at my uni..we neva went out but things jus happend- we didnt get round 2 havin sex but ...

He's chatty on line but quiet in person. I'm not sure he likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm really confussed about a guy who i think likes me but im not sure....i used to work with him he was really quiet so i thought he didnt like me? then ive seen him every now and again as we live in the same area and mix witht he same people. he ...

How do I regain her friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 79 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - this isn't about a romantic relationship.this is about my best friend who just doesn't speak to me anymore and i have no idea why. i want her back exactly a year ago i made a postsecret with a photo of me and my two best friends on. it read : i ...

It's really confusing that my friend suddenly withdrew, what have I done wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Theres this guy i like and we're really good friends but i think of him as more, we're close and he asks me for advice on girls all teh time, theres barely anything we don't tell each other, Lately we've got closer and spent way more time together ...

Is there no hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've got a male friend I like a lot and we hang out from time to time. Last time I spent the night at his, in his bed, but no sex, he kissed me goodbye on the lips in the morning and my stomach did a somersault. I began to wonder, so I texted him ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

I want to get more intimate with him but we only see each other for a few months. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - oh jeez...just did something veeeery interesting. some of you will remember the guy that i mentioned in earlier questions (the 'bad' one). well, i got slightly very hammered, and ended up making out with him (and going onto more, but we stopped), ...

My best friend has strong romantic feelings for me, I am in love with a guy who doesn't love me, I told my friend this and he is devastated, I want to keep him as a friend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hey, Okay this is a situation about me and my best male friend ever. Basically he's confessed that he's in love with me and I love him to bits too just not as more than a friend. He means so much to me and he has been there for me through thick an...

How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...

My friend is seriously depressed! How can I help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a very complicated problem, but I'll try to be as concise as I can. My best friend has been very depressed recently--to the point of severe depression, and I don't know what to do. The cause of her depression is the fear of change...

Should I be more understanding and patient or should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I have a great guy of 2 years...great personality, intelligent, attractive, and attentive (affectionate)...he is everything that I have been searching for. But I have been very patient with him (cause we aren't having sex...trust me I want to but he ...

How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...

Why would my friend not mention his family anymore while deployed? Should I ask if his family's OK? I'm worried about them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I have a friend who's military, He's on assignment away from home (here in the US but far from his current base). I asked him if his countdown for going home started since he's finishing the time assigned. He said that his duty is indeed coming t...

I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. What can I do to stop trusting people so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. It is like I keep thinking I am making a new/close friend and then for whatever reason, I eventually end up never hearing from them again and I am left wondering what the heck I ...

I don't know whether I go out with him or not. He did ask me out didn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - A few nights ago I was talking to a very good friend of mine, we were both just talking about how we were single and He said " so your single then?" and I said "yes" then he said "well i could fill that gap for you" I said "if you want to then you ...

Can I fit in at university even if I don't "party hearty"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hi. Im due to start university next month and am getting a bit worried. I took a year out before going to university to basically do some work. During that year I feel I have grown up a lot, met a new group of friends, my interests have changed ...

My boyfriend is behaving badly, but how can I tell for sure if this other boy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Well, my life is a mess right now...Again. First, my boyfriend, who I've been talking about being wonderful, is driving me NUTS. He has only given me a hug, ONCE. Except, like, if I hurt myself, but all my friends do too. But, he doesn't touch me...

Had to break up with her because I had mixed feelings when I asked her out; I still want to be friends, what should I say when she calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - ok where to begin i was going out with this girl a wile ago we were in love. then i broke up with her because she started to ignore me for about 2 weeks. she kept saying how she loved ect (she wouldnt let me go) and i really did love her but then ...

If I am like a brother to her then why is she interested in hearing all my sex stories??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - well, I am 23 year old male who is in deep friendship with a women who is married and elder than me and leading a bad relation with her husband. she is too open to me and keep saying to me always as you are my Best friend and if i start to say some...

One of my closest friends changed suddenly and I don't know if I'm to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Ok, sorry if this is really long..... its kinda hard to explain I have a friend named Nate, we have been friends for over 5 years, we have dated before for about a month but it was really ockward so we decided to remain friends. My boyfriend and...

I still can't get over him, even after 2 years. I feel like I got the sour end of the break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Please, Please read this.. It would mean a lot to me to get your opinion. In the summer before 10th grade(June 13th,2006), I got my first boyfriend, "Stephen". It was all so new to me because I had never had anyone really give me that kind of att...

I over-reacted and now he has been ignoring me! What should I do? I don't want to lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i dated for two months, talked for three months before that, and have been close friends for three years, he sent me a text saying we need a break after i acted a little crazy (he went away to camp and i was having a hard time not ...

I'm getting really annoyed with my best friend as she's way too clingy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - My best friend is very clingy. It is almost as though she has a lesbian crush on me or something. She always expects me to wait on her. And she's not too social..and gets bored very easily. I don't like sitting in one place during lunch..I like to ...

My depression broke her heart. Could get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - This story is somewhat complicated but I will do my best do explain it. Basically, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. She was really in love with me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was up at college, and was going through a ...

If she had wanted to hit me with the bottle, she would have... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - was at the pub meeting my friends n i bumped into this boy who is gorgeous..we hugged said hello..he introduced me to his friend etc..anyway bit of history..he is kinda mates with my ex..he stares at me and litrally turnt his head as far as it would ...

I thought he liked me, but stopped texting and has been asking abou my friend. Does he like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i dont understand blokes..how can you tell if a boy likes you?? been friends with this boy for a while..recently started hanging out..he started coming out by himself with me n sometimes my mates..he usually texts me everyday but last two days he ...

What can I do to get the guts to talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Alright I know this question has been asked many times, because I've seen but they aren't what I'm looking for. So I'm going to ask anyway! (I'm a freshman in high school; well in ways I hoped that would make it easier to answer my question) ...

We got off on bad terms but I still have to deal with him because of our mutual friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i dont know what to think!..i dont even know how im suppose to feel..oh wow ok real quick..me and my ex broke up on BAD terms..i tried talking to him the other day and he shouted at me..we had a tiff..ended in him threatening to punch me..so i said ...

He likes me, I like him too, but I don't know how to get into a relationship with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - ok so well i reallly like this guy... we are good friends we always sit together at lunch and class... well rumors went aroudn by his ex that we like eachother... jokes on her cause we do... but how do i turn on the flirting and the charm? and how ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with a male that we will call ram for just about a year now. We fight we argue and practically tear eachothers heads off. There has been cheating from both sides in the relationship. All of my friends wonder why I am soo crazzy about him ...

This guy at work asked me out but I want noting with him. Should I ask him if he wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused. I'm married and this guy at work asked me out. I've seen him around for the last few years and we talked occasionally. However, I was really surprised that he asked me out. I rejected his advances and then have been avo...

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - is is possable to be in love with 2 people at the same time? iv been with my boyfriend 2years now and we were best friends years b4, i really think i love him and at the moment i feel like i wont to be with him for ever. But i'm very close to my ot...

This boy likes me, but I don't! How can I turn him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Im getting so upset lately because im so stressed about two boys. I have meet up with Danny about 4 times, we have never kissed or anything but he told me he likes me on a text and i told him i dont know how i feel yet. But the way we talk you woul...

I need help on how to get over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i need help getting over my ex. i havent talked to her in a month and i have been doing fine. the last week or so she has came back into my life because school is starting and it hurts when i see her. we got into a fight over the phone and thats wh...

I don't want someone nasty like her in my life! So, did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Well, I was friends with this girl called Helen. But when we fell out, she would really say some nasty things and really mess with your head so you always felt that you were in the wrong. You never really knew when she would blow up and get majorly ...

Should I ask him if he feels the same way about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I'm scared because I never felt this feeling. I've had boyfriends in the past and I think I loved them. It's just that with this guy it's different. Whenever I'm with him I get this funny feeling in my stomach. It's like I'm at peace when I'm by h...

Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all ...

Should I have sex with my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our unde...

What did he mean when he said this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything...

What can I do? I don't want him to think I'm following him, it's all coincidenses!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - This is all TRUE on my life. A few months ago I met a man in a hotel whilst in Spain we were friends but thats all! He told me where he lived and by pure coincidence I own a flat very nearby him-which I rent out and live 100 miles away. ...

My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this s...

If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the '...

My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...

A nasty girl told the boy I like that I was ugly and I think that put him off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - hello i am 15 and had a crush on this boy for a while he is attractive and has other girls after him. we have spoke on msn a few times but that was a while ago.he is freinds with most of my freinds and when i was about to add him on myspace his d...

I'm crushing on my (ex's) friend but my life is under a microscope. How do I break out of this rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I just broke up with my long-time boyfriend. I was always checking out other guys and I realized that we were just incompatible or I wouldn't be doing that. I'm actually painfully shy and not the type to objectify men. Anyway, we both knew it wasn't ...

Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...

I don't know if I should wait for him or move on when he goes to the air force...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok so here is the dilema: I have been recently talkin 2 a guy and we haven't made anything official but i know were headed there. Earlier on he had mentioned goin 2 the air force and we discussed that if things got serious with us then we will fin...