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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I want a relationship with my friend with benefits. Please advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Okay, so i'm a highschooler. I've very recently started to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy at my highschool...i pretty much met him to hook up with him (bad me =[ ) but anyways, before it gets too deep into it...i'm...

We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...

I told him how I feel but he doesn't take me seriously, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this sounds rather silly but im a confused teanager, ive grown up to quickly. and theres a boy i like alot. were close freinds, and he said he likes me to. but hes got a girlfreind, who doesn't like me. hes breaking up with her soon though. ...

My friend is 7 months pregnant and in denial, after hiding the pregnancy from everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've just found out my friend is 7 months pregnant - but she's kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone - family, friends, the father of the child (it was a one night stand with a friend). She's in total denial and won't talk to anyone about it....

What is adequate wear for a wedding, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've been invited to a wedding, please excuse the fact that this isn't entirely a "dear cupid" question, but I would really asppreciate some advice as to what I should wear! I haven't been to a wedding since I was 10...I'm just really stuck as ...

I've wanted her for just under 5 years, she's been in a relationship all this time, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - A few years ago in high school I met a girl who was wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, etc. We hung with the same crowd so we were friends and spent time together as a group. I guess I developed a crush on her. I always wanted to ask her out or to ...

Should I choose the high school sweetheart or the stable friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am getting married in a couple of months. Today we had a high school class reunion and I saw someone I kinda liked back then. The thing is he kinda liked me too. He is still single and we started talking and I got to asking myself whether I ...

We kissed and I fell in love with him. But he's seeing someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Me and this boy, we have been mates 4 quite a long time now but the other night we shared a passionate kiss and i think i have fallen in love! But as young people, we have this thing called meeting (snogging) and he is meeting this girl which just ...

I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a ...

I'm shy and need tips on flirting with a friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him. But now its like we barely know eachothe...

I told a girl I liked her over the internet and she flipped out, but I think it was someone else I was talking to, how do I find out if she does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - i was talkin to the girl im maddlly inlove with - and i sed hi online to her and asked her about ice skating, becoz i wanted to teke her out somewhere nice where i could tell her how i feel. Insttead she completely flipped saying how much stress s...

My friend just doesn't put in the efforts to our friendship..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Hi My friend is being really annoying. Whenever i ask her if she wants to meet up, she is 'busy'. But her definition of busy is sitting at home or going to her dad's house. She's great when i do see her, and a good mate, but i wish she would ju...

How do I help her see that she's going to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - One of my good friends is friends w/ benefits with one of her guy friends, and she really likes him. And she told him the way she feels, like everytime she sees him it makes her day better, etc. etc. And he said "well that's nice to know. i'm ...

Should I smile because we are friends or cry because that's all we are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, Me and this guy have been through so much together. We've been out twice and even when we wern't going out we were still close friends. The first time we went out he dumped me but the second time i ended it. And yeah i regret it. I still lov...

We were supposed to go to the movies but they stood me up without even calling me, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, what can i say, This guy i work with, we planned to go to the movies,(it was supposed to be me, my cousin, this guy, and a girl that like him). So, the thing is they never showed up. Is this because they wanted to be alone, or is it because ...

I'm afraid he'd only accept my invitation to please me. How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I've fancied this guy for a long, long time. It's getting to the time now where I feel utterly deflated when I see him (science and english, lunch and break. Oh, and he's my best friends best friend). We're friends, and it seems as though he likes ...

How long should I say I waited before embarking on a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok, so I was with my present ex for almost 3.5 years and i lost my feelings for him. So I broke up with him. We are still kinda good friends, we don't really talk but we have to keep it nice because we see each other almost once a month volunteering ...

How do I forgive myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I LIED. How do I live with myself? I live with my boyfriend and a male roommate. My roommate recently rekindled a relationship with an ex-fiance, while hiding it from his current girlfriend. The current girlfriend showed up unnannounced and I ...

I try to give him the brush-off, so does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi, theres this guy i havent known very long but have come to be good friends with him. He seems to have changed in the last couple of weeks n i think that he might like me more than a friend. He casually says he loves me almost every day...and he ...

I'm in love with my old teacher, how do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school. It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was...

How can I get him to appreciate me and really understand how much I do care about him and how much he is hurting me deep down inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My best guy friend and I are both 16.Have been friends for alittle over a year now.We're extremly close,and dont get me wrong,I love to spoil my friends.But everytime we go out I pay for the food,movies,everything! He always says how much he ...

Am I silly still liking him after what's happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I started working in this bar from July time to end of October and I'd always liked the manager that worked there. I knew he had a girlfriend and always did but he's like the only person I could think about. About the beginning of October I finshed ...

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...

Should I go for it . . . .or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I like a guy a lot..we have been good friends for about 2 years now...I always felt an atachment for him from when I first met him...He broke up with his gf about 8 months now(not because of me)..I provided as much support as I could when he was ...

I'm in love with my female best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - I have just come off a long term relationship and quickly after the break up i got a new girlfriend. Every Xmas Eve, me and a selection of close friends spend Xmas Eve together eating Chinese takeaway watching a movie. The new girlfriend came ...

We're friends but very different, he wants a relationship, do I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I have a friend who I like alot (we are both 19) and I know he likes me too, but Im not sure if its worth giving us a go. The reason I think it may not be is because we are soooooooo different. He is a very out going, flirty, sociable person, ...

Stuck in a love triangle...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - ok so im 13 and well my friend and i like the same guy so he wants to date me but my frined is the guy i like best friend. and she syas that i shouldn't date him because if we break up he would hate me and so will she and i dont want to loose th...

I have feelings for my friend, should I ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - So im friends with this lad,we have been for about a year now.We are really close and i would class him as one of my best friends.The thing is i have started to fall for him.I cant get him out of my mind and really wish we could be together.One of ...

My friends chose my ex over me to spend Christmas with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - my best friend's have left me and went over my ex's on christmas day!!!! they havent asked me what i was doing all day they dont care anymore... what can i do apart from sit here crying!!!...

I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do. Theres this guy who I have been friends with for about 5 months now and he likes me I think and I like him a lot too...hes really nice, funny, charming, interesting, he respects...

I don't know if I should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Heya, the thing is that i have been meeting a guy on and off for about two years. He'd be the guy that id always be able to talk to and have a laugh with. We have both had other relationships in this time aswell. There have been a few times when we ...

Very confused!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Is emotional cheating as bad as physical cheating? Here is the issue I am away from my husband as we only communicate via messenger but most of the time we have nothing to say. I met someone who I love to chat with he knows I am married. He is no...

I want him to come and visit me to see if he is interested in me, an older woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Not long ago I wanted to get away so I booked a cruise. I thought it would be something good to do by myself and get away and think. I enjoyed it. While I was there on the first evening during the get acquainted activities I met a younger man. He ...

Boy Problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy, ive been sort of seeing him for 2 years, and he was madly in love with me back then i was'nt so sure, but now this time we have been together for nearly 5 months and im madly inlove with him, and he has broken up with me? theres ...

Please help me and tell me what to do exactly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I am 18 and he is 21. i actually like this guy from 6 years. we were at high school together in year 9 but now we are in a different countries cuz i moves to USA but he is still in my home country. he is doing his bachelors and so am i. i liked him ...

How can I show her a good time and hopefully hook-up with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Ok well I like this one girl, she has been a good friend and she recenly has been dating guys but no luck and I want to show her a good time to cheer her up and hopefully be with her. What can I do? We are going to hang out neer the beach where th...

Is it ok to restart things with my ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feel...

I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found...

I love him to bits but just as a mate..how do I tell him without breaking his heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So, i met this guy on the internet we hit it off great, but when we met up, i really liked him but he didnt like me. We had been dating for a month online and when i finally met him, he broke up with me telling me im not his type, but i really d...

My best friend keeps insisting that I stay single to wait for the right person - does he like me or is just looking out for me? (he's currently in a relationship)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So I have always had this one guy in my life that I can talk to about anything. He is always willing to listen and encourage me through any problem...We used to have very strong feelings for each other, but never dated because of bad timing and ...

Should I wait for him to have his "fun" ? It's been 4 yrs. Is it hopeless, can I expect a change, what should I do/tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5968 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Well I've been dating a guy on and off for 4 years 3 of those years it was platonic and it was never serious until this year. Well for me I thought it was. He was dating people on the side which he never told me I found out.We had a long talk about ...

How do I avoid the dramatics?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - The last time I fell for a "friend" it was a fabulous relationship, but the ending was horrid and even though we both would have liked to have stayed friends in the long term it just couldn't work. Now It's the same thing all over again-different ...

I really want a bf but boys only ever notice my friend.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I have this friend who is stunning, confident and flirty and all the boys fancy her. Trouble is, they don't notice me. And she can be a bit slutty too. Last night she had a party, there were two hot guys there and , surprise surprise, she spent th...

What does it mean when people say you're cute!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - i'm a female and i get this a lot usually from females, "you're cute." does that mean i'm attractive and good looking? i'm just wondering and curious........

We're 3 girls and boys who meeting to eat out. I like one of the girls but only met her once before. Any ideas how I can get to know her more and get a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - 3 girls, 3 boys. i like one of the girls. met only once before but talk online often. were meeting all together to eat out and maybe watch a film. any ideas how i can talk to her more, maybe get her number, date? i like her alot! thanks...

We're just friends. She wants us to be more, but I don't. She's coming to a dinner party tomorrow, what can I do to show her I'm just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Hi everybody, it's Andy. I'm in a slightly uncomfortable situation. I know in the past I have posted questions regarding my ex-girlfriend, and how I feel like love will not come my way for a long time, but it's questions like this one that will pr...

Me and my ex are best friends but he gets mad every time I hook up with anybody else and I feel jealous too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I ended a year long relationship last Valentines Day. After the initial break up we were able to maintain friendship, and presently are best friends who date a little. The catch is, we both hook up with other people now, and as much as he says hes...

I think I love him but he is saying he still likes my friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I used to be seeing this lad ages ago and then we broke up but he was seeing my best friend recently but now shes seeing sumbody else. I really like him still - i actually think i love him. He's sending out messages tht he likes me but his friend h...

He's newly divorced and has already found a new gf. Would I sound clingy if I write him a Christmas card? - in symbol I'm there for him/as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - It turns out that the guy I really like has a new girlfriend (sure it's a rebound thing, she doesn't seem his type at all, and he's just divorced). He knows I like him, but now I feel self concious about sending him a Christmas card - I would l...

My male mates tell me that my best friend likes me back - but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I tell him this. Your opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Hey, I like this boy and my male mates say that he likes me back. I am sure he doesn't i really don't know who to belive. Should i tell him or what. If i tell him i am scared that it will ruin our friendship as best mates! what should i do? ple...