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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I want a relationship with my friend with benefits. Please advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Okay, so i'm a highschooler. I've very recently started to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy at my highschool...i pretty much met him to hook up with him (bad me =[ ) but anyways, before it gets too deep into it...i'm...

We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...

I told him how I feel but he doesn't take me seriously, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this sounds rather silly but im a confused teanager, ive grown up to quickly. and theres a boy i like alot. were close freinds, and he said he likes me to. but hes got a girlfreind, who doesn't like me. hes breaking up with her soon though. ...

My friend is 7 months pregnant and in denial, after hiding the pregnancy from everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've just found out my friend is 7 months pregnant - but she's kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone - family, friends, the father of the child (it was a one night stand with a friend). She's in total denial and won't talk to anyone about it....

What is adequate wear for a wedding, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've been invited to a wedding, please excuse the fact that this isn't entirely a "dear cupid" question, but I would really asppreciate some advice as to what I should wear! I haven't been to a wedding since I was 10...I'm just really stuck as ...

I've wanted her for just under 5 years, she's been in a relationship all this time, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - A few years ago in high school I met a girl who was wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, etc. We hung with the same crowd so we were friends and spent time together as a group. I guess I developed a crush on her. I always wanted to ask her out or to ...

Should I choose the high school sweetheart or the stable friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am getting married in a couple of months. Today we had a high school class reunion and I saw someone I kinda liked back then. The thing is he kinda liked me too. He is still single and we started talking and I got to asking myself whether I ...

I want a long distance relationship with him but he's gone cold on me, how do I take that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i've been almost obsessed with this guy for almost a year now, and due to certain things, i do know he likes me back and stuff and in the past we've told each other that we do etc, but we do live about 2hrs away from each other, making things ...

We kissed and I fell in love with him. But he's seeing someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Me and this boy, we have been mates 4 quite a long time now but the other night we shared a passionate kiss and i think i have fallen in love! But as young people, we have this thing called meeting (snogging) and he is meeting this girl which just ...

I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a ...

How do you set a balance between dating your partner and maintaining your friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm young and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, when i first started dating him he was very popular and girls craved for him. He has now lost friends because of me. does this mean he is really into me? And i am seeing less and less of my ...

I'm shy and need tips on flirting with a friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him. But now its like we barely know eachothe...

I told a girl I liked her over the internet and she flipped out, but I think it was someone else I was talking to, how do I find out if she does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - i was talkin to the girl im maddlly inlove with - and i sed hi online to her and asked her about ice skating, becoz i wanted to teke her out somewhere nice where i could tell her how i feel. Insttead she completely flipped saying how much stress s...

My friend just doesn't put in the efforts to our friendship..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Hi My friend is being really annoying. Whenever i ask her if she wants to meet up, she is 'busy'. But her definition of busy is sitting at home or going to her dad's house. She's great when i do see her, and a good mate, but i wish she would ju...

How do I help her see that she's going to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - One of my good friends is friends w/ benefits with one of her guy friends, and she really likes him. And she told him the way she feels, like everytime she sees him it makes her day better, etc. etc. And he said "well that's nice to know. i'm ...

She and I are friends..how do I convince her to take this a step further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hey, I'm really good mates with this girl, but would like to take things further, but I couldn't work out if she felt the same. Through gradual subtle questioning, she started speaking to me about how her friends were saying that we should be tog...

Should I smile because we are friends or cry because that's all we are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, Me and this guy have been through so much together. We've been out twice and even when we wern't going out we were still close friends. The first time we went out he dumped me but the second time i ended it. And yeah i regret it. I still lov...

Does this sound like the basis for a lasting relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 209 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Up until five months ago I had a strictly platonic relationship with one of my best male friends. Then one night, we got drunk together and ended up having sex, which we continue to do regularly. However, we hide this fact from our group of mutua...

We were supposed to go to the movies but they stood me up without even calling me, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, what can i say, This guy i work with, we planned to go to the movies,(it was supposed to be me, my cousin, this guy, and a girl that like him). So, the thing is they never showed up. Is this because they wanted to be alone, or is it because ...

I want to make a move on her but I'm afraid I'm misreading her signals and will ruin a good friendship instead of getting a girlfriend, please help, what shall I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I'm really stuck! I'm good friends with this girl, and we flirt a lot together in a friendly way.. anyway, I'd like to take it further, but I a) dont want to read the signs wrong, and b) don't want to ruin our friendship by making a move if she do...

I'm afraid he'd only accept my invitation to please me. How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I've fancied this guy for a long, long time. It's getting to the time now where I feel utterly deflated when I see him (science and english, lunch and break. Oh, and he's my best friends best friend). We're friends, and it seems as though he likes ...

How long should I say I waited before embarking on a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 170 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok, so I was with my present ex for almost 3.5 years and i lost my feelings for him. So I broke up with him. We are still kinda good friends, we don't really talk but we have to keep it nice because we see each other almost once a month volunteering ...

How do I forgive myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I LIED. How do I live with myself? I live with my boyfriend and a male roommate. My roommate recently rekindled a relationship with an ex-fiance, while hiding it from his current girlfriend. The current girlfriend showed up unnannounced and I ...

I try to give him the brush-off, so does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi, theres this guy i havent known very long but have come to be good friends with him. He seems to have changed in the last couple of weeks n i think that he might like me more than a friend. He casually says he loves me almost every day...and he ...

I'm in love with my old teacher, how do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school. It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was...

How can I get him to appreciate me and really understand how much I do care about him and how much he is hurting me deep down inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My best guy friend and I are both 16.Have been friends for alittle over a year now.We're extremly close,and dont get me wrong,I love to spoil my friends.But everytime we go out I pay for the food,movies,everything! He always says how much he ...

Am I silly still liking him after what's happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I started working in this bar from July time to end of October and I'd always liked the manager that worked there. I knew he had a girlfriend and always did but he's like the only person I could think about. About the beginning of October I finshed ...

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...

Should I go for it . . . .or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I like a guy a lot..we have been good friends for about 2 years now...I always felt an atachment for him from when I first met him...He broke up with his gf about 8 months now(not because of me)..I provided as much support as I could when he was ...

I'm in love with my female best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - I have just come off a long term relationship and quickly after the break up i got a new girlfriend. Every Xmas Eve, me and a selection of close friends spend Xmas Eve together eating Chinese takeaway watching a movie. The new girlfriend came ...

I need a second opinion on the actions of a girl at work I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - There is this girl at work that I really like. I have been so close to asking her out on 2 occasions but both times I have mucked up and not bothered for fear of rejection, all people I have asked have said you never now until you ask. And trust me ...

We're friends but very different, he wants a relationship, do I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I have a friend who I like alot (we are both 19) and I know he likes me too, but Im not sure if its worth giving us a go. The reason I think it may not be is because we are soooooooo different. He is a very out going, flirty, sociable person, ...

Stuck in a love triangle...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - ok so im 13 and well my friend and i like the same guy so he wants to date me but my frined is the guy i like best friend. and she syas that i shouldn't date him because if we break up he would hate me and so will she and i dont want to loose th...

I have feelings for my friend, should I ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - So im friends with this lad,we have been for about a year now.We are really close and i would class him as one of my best friends.The thing is i have started to fall for him.I cant get him out of my mind and really wish we could be together.One of ...

My friends chose my ex over me to spend Christmas with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - my best friend's have left me and went over my ex's on christmas day!!!! they havent asked me what i was doing all day they dont care anymore... what can i do apart from sit here crying!!!...

I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do. Theres this guy who I have been friends with for about 5 months now and he likes me I think and I like him a lot too...hes really nice, funny, charming, interesting, he respects...

I don't know if I should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Heya, the thing is that i have been meeting a guy on and off for about two years. He'd be the guy that id always be able to talk to and have a laugh with. We have both had other relationships in this time aswell. There have been a few times when we ...

Very confused!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 213 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Is emotional cheating as bad as physical cheating? Here is the issue I am away from my husband as we only communicate via messenger but most of the time we have nothing to say. I met someone who I love to chat with he knows I am married. He is no...

Boys come and go... well in my case boys never come

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I like this guy. Problem is I like a different guy every other week...but I truely think I like this guy. Sometimes he moves in a seat and it seems like he does it to get a better view of me. He never talks to me but his friends talk to me a little. ...

I want him to come and visit me to see if he is interested in me, an older woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Not long ago I wanted to get away so I booked a cruise. I thought it would be something good to do by myself and get away and think. I enjoyed it. While I was there on the first evening during the get acquainted activities I met a younger man. He ...

Boy Problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy, ive been sort of seeing him for 2 years, and he was madly in love with me back then i was'nt so sure, but now this time we have been together for nearly 5 months and im madly inlove with him, and he has broken up with me? theres ...

Please help me and tell me what to do exactly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I am 18 and he is 21. i actually like this guy from 6 years. we were at high school together in year 9 but now we are in a different countries cuz i moves to USA but he is still in my home country. he is doing his bachelors and so am i. i liked him ...

How can I show her a good time and hopefully hook-up with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Ok well I like this one girl, she has been a good friend and she recenly has been dating guys but no luck and I want to show her a good time to cheer her up and hopefully be with her. What can I do? We are going to hang out neer the beach where th...

Is it ok to restart things with my ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feel...

I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found...

I love him to bits but just as a mate..how do I tell him without breaking his heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So, i met this guy on the internet we hit it off great, but when we met up, i really liked him but he didnt like me. We had been dating for a month online and when i finally met him, he broke up with me telling me im not his type, but i really d...

My best friend keeps insisting that I stay single to wait for the right person - does he like me or is just looking out for me? (he's currently in a relationship)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So I have always had this one guy in my life that I can talk to about anything. He is always willing to listen and encourage me through any problem...We used to have very strong feelings for each other, but never dated because of bad timing and ...

Should I wait for him to have his "fun" ? It's been 4 yrs. Is it hopeless, can I expect a change, what should I do/tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 214 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Well I've been dating a guy on and off for 4 years 3 of those years it was platonic and it was never serious until this year. Well for me I thought it was. He was dating people on the side which he never told me I found out.We had a long talk about ...

How do I avoid the dramatics?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - The last time I fell for a "friend" it was a fabulous relationship, but the ending was horrid and even though we both would have liked to have stayed friends in the long term it just couldn't work. Now It's the same thing all over again-different ...

I really want a bf but boys only ever notice my friend.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I have this friend who is stunning, confident and flirty and all the boys fancy her. Trouble is, they don't notice me. And she can be a bit slutty too. Last night she had a party, there were two hot guys there and , surprise surprise, she spent th...