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Archived questions from: October, 2020 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm tired of playing games. Should I end it with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

31 October 2020 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to meet up for halloweeen and she said we can’t this year because of COVID-19. It’s Halloween, I am working and she has just told me that she won’t be around evening as she is going out. I’m stuck with work (as she told me ...

My male colleague distances himself when I told him my feelings. Any advice about moving on, and what I should have done differently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - I am looking for insight on this situation of mine of a relationship that had dissolved. I am seeking a career change because it holds poor memories. I had a friendship with a male colleague for a year which I know he valued. I thought that he recip...

I befriended a co-worker who has many issues and I don’t know how to end the friendship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

27 October 2020 (F) - I need help, I seem to have got myself into a horrible situation. First thing is first I would like to acknowledge my own short coming and my responsibility here. I started a new job with an office of 25-30 women in one big room. I'm not much for...

I'm unhappy and not sure how to rebuild my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1275 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - Dear Uncles and Aunts, I very much need your advice. You don’t have to read everything (I just realized how long it is) , this will do ;) Here’s how I feel at this moment: at 44 I’m married to a husband, whose behavior I don’t like, I ...

How do I proceed? I'm in love with my ex who is in a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1277 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - Hello, my ex and I broke up about six months ago, she recently got in touch with me and we began talking and I confessed that I was still in love and wanted to get back together. She is in a relationship and I told her I wasn’t asking her for ...

Do I tell my friend about her teenaged son's attraction to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1276 days ago

25 October 2020 (F) - Hi I am 44 and I have been divorced for 6 months. The divorce was hard on me and I have very low self esteem and ended up having to move in with my friend and her son. Over the course of the months I have been staying with my friend I noticed...

How to deal with a pregnant friend who is constantly seeking attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1269 days ago

24 October 2020 (F) - How to deal with a pregnant friend who is constantly seeking attention? Hi aunts and uncles, I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with a friend who's been constantly seeking attention and her recent pregnancy has made it even worse...

Was he my friend or was I played?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1280 days ago

22 October 2020 (F) - Can someone please help, as my head is in a mess. I’ve being friends with a guy for the past year. I met him through work and we really got on well. We don’t work together all the time just occasionally. The past couple of months we’ve being mess...

This old friend of his is getting on my nerves! Should I just let him block her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1285 days ago

18 October 2020 (F) - Okay so I have been seeing my other half for around 6 months now. Everything is great between us however he has a female friend he has know for 20 years she is just a friend and married herself ect. However she is driving me mental now she mails or ...

Dealing with my friend’s relationship drama is becoming draining

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I’m having an issue with one of my friends which is causing me quite a bit of stress that I’d like your advice on. I love her to bits but she’s always acted like a doormat. It’s almost like she takes pride in being that way, ...

Old friend has been talking behind my back and is ignoring me. I don't know why and it's making me feel sick with anxiety

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

14 October 2020 (M) - I recently met up with an old uni friend who I hadn't seen for over a year. He took a picture of us together and sent it to a group chat. It turns out that 3 out of a group of 4 of us from uni had set up a group but I hadn't been invited to it. He ...

I went to a stripclub my girlfriend broke up with me because of it

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1288 days ago

13 October 2020 (M) - I need advice. My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me after she found out me and my guy friends went to a stripclub and got lap dances. I mentioned to her that they were pressuring me into going but told her that i did not really care to go. But ...

Weird Friendship Got A Whole Lot Weirder

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1280 days ago

13 October 2020 (M) - Hi Cupids and Aunts, I am here with another of my relationship issues. I've known this woman(whoms I shall call B.) for over 20 years now: I don't know what I am to her but she's always been something between a good friend and a cousin to me. L...

I’ve been talking too much about politics and now I’ve upset a friend! How to make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

12 October 2020 (F) - My best friend just started dating this guy and he seems to be actually a really nice person. Only unusual part is that he's a real live Republican (guns, God Bless the USA, etc) and we're all raving mad Democrats (including my best friend). All ...

I slept with my best friend and regret it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1284 days ago

11 October 2020 (F) - Three nights ago I slept with my best friend - male. We had arranged to meet up, go for food and drink and he would stay at mine. We had a really good night as we always do but we both got drunk and he started telling me He fancied me and how much ...

Am I dumb for thinking she keeps my stuff private?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

11 October 2020 (M) - Hi, Got a concern with my girlfriend - I am a private person by nature and my concern is this. My girlfriend sent me a screenshot of her girls chat. Her friend is talking to someone and slept with him. The chat was them saying how he stayed th...

Why has this breakup suddenly hit me? Shouldn’t I be okay now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1292 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - I was with my ex for 9years. We broke up a year ago. When we first broke up it didn't feel real and I was actually OK.. my friends said i was too OK. I went on 3 holidays in a row..went on loads of dates and went out partying most nights. I was fine ...

How do you interact with people who put you off make excuses and only want to spend time with you if all their other options fall through?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1293 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I work full time self employed. I can easily arrange a social life and time for other things whenever I want if I think it is worth it and I have enough notice. Because I work by appointment with people I need notice and to put ...

Is it ok to share nude and erotic photos with best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1211 days ago

8 October 2020 (M) - Is it ok to share nude and erotic photos with best friend?...

My girlfriend thinks its ok to see male friends/exs one on one. I'm not comfortable with this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1296 days ago

6 October 2020 (M) - Hi, I been with my girlfriend for six months, everything is going so well, I'm involved with her family, we never fight and we are in committed relationship, I love her. Some problems have recently surfaced, she feels it is ok to hang out with ...

My friend says he is straight but he has done things with me that lead me to believe otherwise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1299 days ago

4 October 2020 (M) - I have a male friend who claims he is straight but one night we was joking around then he let me pull his pants down just for a joke then one thing led to another he let me play with his dick and feel his bum he was naked I was fully dress he as a ...

Slept with a distant friend when on a ' break '

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

3 October 2020 (F) - please dont judge we all have slip ups when we feel down. i split from my boyfriend 6 week ago then last week i got some attention from a distant friend we were drinking and 1 thing led to another. we dont think he 'fired ' his goods i have a child ...

Online friend has a crush on me but she just went through a break up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

3 October 2020 (M) - So as of recently, a very close friend of mine ive known online brought me intobhis group of friends he has know for a while. Amongst those friends were a couple that were online dating for about 6 months prior to me meeting them. Ill name of them ...

My friend is a user. She asks me to do things that she won't do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

3 October 2020 (F) - I have a friend who's asking me to do stuff she herself doesn't want to do. At first I didn't realize what was going on, because she found ways to present things in another light. Instead of saying to others (I am not the only one) the truth,...

My girlfriend isn't comfortable with me hanging out with another girl who is a friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1301 days ago

1 October 2020 (M) - Hi All Been dating a girl for four months and everything is going well. We are going really well, we have committed to a relationship and have long term plans for the future. I have met all her family and vice versa, We have recently come to...

I kicked my husband out of the house tonight after finding out he had gay sex with his friend. I am severely depressed and in need of help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1302 days ago

1 October 2020 (F) - This is the very WORST day of my life! I have no idea how I will ever get through this. I was already diagnosed with severe depression. And now THIS! I have been married for 8 years to my love. It has been a good relationship except form the ...