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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to s...

4 Problems! What my sexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I'm so confused and emotional. I have a lot of compliacted situations and I really need help and someone to turn to. I've known I was different since I was 13. I was friends with a boy lets call him Tom I was kinda attracted to him, and sa...

She blames me for everything and split me and him up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - friends who dont like you being friends with other flamen people! im sick to death of this. seriously. my so called best mates have a go at me over being out with someone older than them. making me hide the fact im out with him from them so they don...

I feel my friend and I have a connection, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have this crush on a friend I have known for quite sometime now, and have only recently realised that I might have feelings for him. But I'm not sure if I really like him, or if I just want a boyfriend. I've never exactly had an official boyf...

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who ...

How long should elapse before you give them your mobile number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - hiya guys, I'm just wondering when everyone you saw a cute guy for the first time and you were really good friends how soon was it before you gave your number to them, in "that" manner? any answers would be much apreciated thank you...

Can anybody help me with what to say to him I'm really nervous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hear's the thing i met this boy when i was nine at school and i really fancied him but i thought that maybe my crush would fade like all of the others that i liked before him so i didn't say anything to him about it.But what i didn't realise was ...

She's really into me but I'm not into her I don't want to lead her on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 28 and I met a woman she's 37, We met about a month ago and she seems to be really into me, She's unmarried no kids, but I don't really like older women I like younger ones. She's nice and has cooked for me, we haven't been intimate ju...

How does the small stuff determine whether a relationship is worth investing in or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I wrote about a week ago. Guess I need a bit more feedback :-) So, for 2 weeks my boyfriend of 3 months had suddenly changed his behavior from loving to quite indifferent so I was close to the conclusion that he was trying to break up ...

I tend to get "dumped" because I'm too nice. How can I make sure this doesn't happen with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - ok i need some advice, iv been talkin to this girl for about 2 months now. and last night she came over to my place with some of our other friends for a few belated 21 year old birthday drinks. well soon enough it was time for my friends to go ho...

This "cold spell" is going on too long!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. This guy liked me and I liked him but he is shy and if im honest a bit strange... and I hardly ever saw him. But for some reason I still liked him. Anyway if any of you watch 90210 (series 1) where Liam is hot and cold all ...

No affection from anyone in my life, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - sorry this is long - need advice.. I'm a quieter person with few friends, when I was a child and teenager my family was never affectionate, I never got any affection, never had anyones shoulder to cry on when upset, so I never learned how t...

How do I stop having terrible rows with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for over a year now and we used to be very close but recently we keep falling out. We recently had a very nasty fight and said some very horrible things and did not speak for couple of weeks. We recently started ...

How do you start over making friends when you've been isolated in your marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - In highschool i was so attached to my boyfiend turned husband that I completely abandoned all of my friends. Now ten years later i find myself without a social life at all. How do you start over again at this late stage in life?...

He kept groping me while I tried to sleep! Why didn't I stop him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi Well I'm in two minds about this event and I hope someone can help me... I had a party the other night and was putting friends to bed in spare rooms at the end of the night when a guy friend of mine insisted he sleep on the floor in my room....

Fell for my best friend, but he doesn't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My best friend is a man and I am a woman. We have done everything together as companions for the last 6 months. We're both in our late 40's. I would like more but he doesn't not feel that way about me. He's been encouraging me to date and I have ...

I'm afraid he's losing interest since we haven't seen each other much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm looking for some advice, please help me because it seems that whoever I ask doesn't give me the answer I'm after. Basically, I'm stuck on a boy. Hugely. But recently he seems to have lost interest in me. He's my ex's friend, and I went to a ...

She wants to break up with him as I'm the "third person" in their relationship!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - So, "Rachel" and "Graham" have been together for almost a year now. Rachel is my oldest friend of 11 years and Graham is my best friend of 5 years. Since I've known him, I've also liked Graham as more than a friend but he has never been interested ...

I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she ...

How do I get over this guy, or is it even the right thing to do by getting over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok so i really really like this guy. he's just so amazing! i've liked him for almost a year now. on the last day of school he found out i liked him. he liked me a little to. we hung out and we talked and decided to just be friends. i was ok ...

Swallow one's pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met ...

Aaargh, I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been single for about 6 months. I really like a male friend, and have done for ages. We get on really well and share loads of interests and I really fancy him - however he's got a girlfriend so I'll never let him know I feel like this and ...

2 guys... only 1 crush at the moment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - There was this guy that I was interested in my Sunday School class and I asked him out. He flat out told me he wasn't interested in me or interested in dating. Now there is this other guy that I'm interested in that is a friend of that other guy. I ...

How can I get close to him when the only way we can communicate is by email or over the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Please, please help me! This might end up being long but I'll try my very best to make it short without missing important details (however important they may be...) My ex and I have this "mutual" friend. Mutual in the sense that whilst we were t...

Would it be terrible if I kept this as a secret? I don't want to hurt my friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me and two days later I went out with my friend (I'll call her Jill). We went to this party and my ex boyfriend's best friend(I'll call him Pete) was there. He just happens to be Jill's secret crush. I started dating ...

How do I convince my best friend to come to uni with me? I'm terribly insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Im applying for university to do a law degree, ive decided to live away and am very insecure and scared of not making friends, ive always been very socialable but find my self fake smiling at peoples jokes and thinking god please shut up ...so im ...

How can I control my nerves? I like him but am terrified to meet him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have met this guy from a dating site, we chatted over email and then swapped numbers and have texted every day since (a week now) he wants to meet.... I'm 22 he is 25 but I'm sooo scared i have not been on a proper date for months..... How can I ...

Has he gone off me that quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello About a month ago I started to speak to a really nice guy.. he told me he liked me.. but I didnt at the time find him very attractive at all.. we got on really well - his name's steve. I was seeing someone at at the time as well. Anyway whe...

I think my girlfriend prefers her friend's company to mines...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now. We're really close and are important in each others lives. Her mom works a lot so she drops her off at my house and we get to hang out after school till usually 7 pm. A couple o...

How do you get a guy to text you again? I try but he won't respond.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - How do you get a guy to text you again? I miss him and I want to talk to him. I used to be able to tell him everything that was bothering me but now he doesn't talk to me. I'm being set up with this guy I don't know? I want to cry because I love my ...

Can we be something more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles i also posted this on yesterday but had no replies so would hope that anyone can reply to this today it's really driving me insane. so yeah i posted something on here a few days ago about a guy who i've known since primary ...

Does he really just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - i have known this really nice guy since sixth grade and its now my freshmen year and we are barely even friends. we talk sometimes but only when we really have nothing better to do. occasionally he will do things like tease me and touch my shoulders ...

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...

My sisters act like my mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My sister is eighteen, and I am fifteen. When I got into my teenage years, my sister kind of took on the role of being my mother. Nobody asked her do so, as I do have a mother who is ALIVE and who I live with. My sister constantly lectures me a...

When is the right time to ask someone out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Girls are you more likely to say "yes" to go out on a date with a guy if you two talk a few times before he asks you, or if he just comes up to you and asks you out on a date? I wanted to ask a girl out today but we only talked once before and ...

I'm really confused as to whether I'm bisexual or not...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - heyx i am a girl with morals, for example, want to wait to have sex until marriage or at least until i am properly in love. Though i do so many things which go completely against this, like i watch porn and masturabate with my hairbrush. Does this ...

What would you do? How would you handle this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - A man fancies you. The man pursues you, a lot. You fancy him. You enjoy the attention and you go out with him. He tells you he loves you and has never felt this way before. You fall for him, you talk about the future. Then one day - literally ...

Is she just not ready for commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I met this girl and have known her for almost 2 months, from the start we just hit things off, and when i spent time with her, i had the greatest time of my life... she didn't tell me right away, but i found out that she had recently gotten out of a ...

Do I subtly flirt with him or tell him outright that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - What should I do. There is this guy i'm friends with, and i've liked him for a long time, i think about him often. But i don't know what to do, i have been ignoring my feelings hoping they would go away as i'm quite shy n stuff, but they haven't, ...

I didn't cheat on her directly but now she doesn't want to know me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I've been in touch with some amazing girl called Sarah through an internet dating website. We clicked with each straight away. I have never clicked with any girl beofe, even ex's. I am 34 now. Over 7 months we have emailed and texted each ...

I'm puzzled by her "wanting to protect me from her"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Ok recently I started talking to this woman. I find her very charming and funny. but some things about what she says to me have me a little confused. She tells me she likes me and we talk about dating but the other day her tone nearly did a 180. she ...

Getting to know someone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - There's a girl I've been interested in for over a month now. I think she is probably within my range and everything, but the real problem I'm having is the "getting to know you" stage. See, school does not get back in session until late Augus...

What advice should I give to my friend who doesn't know where she stands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hey! My best friend is 'seeing' a guy. She really likes him but he gives her mixed signals. They have gone on about 10 dates over 2 months. and i think after about 3 dates you know weither you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and comiit o...

Advice needed! I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - First off, i am a junior in high school. My ex-boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over a year now. (we've only been "off" for about 2 months over all) We started going out in February of this year again. We became isolated from our...

How do I get over her 100%?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hey. I don’t really know where to start. About 8 months ago my girlfriend (of 2 years) broke up with me. We got into a rut and started to argue etc. Since we broke up it’s been clear we both have feelings for each other as we nearly got back ...

I have been out of the dating game slightly too long, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I really like this guy and I met him through work, about 6 times in 4 months. He found out that i have a dog and he has two dogs and has told me where he walks them. also everytime i try to go as the work meeting between the two of us has finished, ...

Is slating about her boyfriend to me a sign that she likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I like this girl, she's real cute and all and i'm getting the vibe that she likes me too. She's not single but she was telling me that her boyfriend is an 'insensitive p***k'. How should I take this?Is she saying this because she likes me and wou...

My guy best friend has a girlfriend, I don't know where this jealousy is coming from!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My bestfriend of 10 years has a girlfriend now. I always had a boyfriend but up until the guy im wit i never thought of anything serious. He is the only boy i trust with no doubts and the only person who can bring a smile on my face at the worst of ...

Any tips on how to get closer to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so today I hung out with one of my best guy friend (guy number one), and he said he really liked me. I do like him, but I also like another guy a lot more (guy number 2). I told him this, and he was completely fine with it :) I feel a...

Lost love... how to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone this is my first time seeking help over the net. Lately I have been running out of answers and solutions. This is my love story. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years and 11 months. At the beginning of our relationship ...