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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

What should a girl do in this situation of flirting with her friend's boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Situation: Girl A has a boyfriend. Her friend Girl B "heavily flirts" with Girl A's boyfriend a couple of times, whilst talking online. The boyfriend breaks up with Girl A shortly after this [not due to the flirting, just for some other reason]. ...

What kind of gift do you get for the man who has everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I know this is very early but I'm eager to get my best friend a present as soon as possible-but he seems to have everything already! He's got nice clothes, colognes, guitars, books by the thousands on his Kindle, and movies and ...

This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spi...

The thought of infertility scares me as I'm desperate to have children when I'm older.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Around four months ago I found out my now ex boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend, and soon after she announced she was pregnant. However, although I believe it is his baby, she has told me herself that she 'thinks' the baby is his, but she's ...

We won't be talking as often... how do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - My friend, "Jane," and I have been best friends for 7 years now. Her boyfriend and I go to the same school while she goes to a different school. She had a barn dance last weekend and her bf was unable to go, so she invited me. We were drinking ...

Should I hang in there? I don't want to be played games with...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I met a man at church and he will wink at me and we always look into each other eyes. last sunday i went up to him while he was sitting down and said good morning to him. he had a big smile on his face and he pulled my head down next to his. after ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

I'm scared my flat mates will hear us having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is coming to see me soon in my halls of residence. However one thing thats bothering is my flat mates. I am worried that they be will embarassing or whatever, or that they may hear something due to the paper thin walls. I don't know if ...

I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afgh...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have sex with other guys with my husband's permission. He says 3 or 4 times in a month is ok, but don't cross this limit. I am doing it 2 or 3 times in a month with my friends. also i had it with his friend some time. actually it was his idea to ...

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now. And the one thing on the back of my mind, is his best friend. I've started developing feelings for him, and it's just come on so randomly. There's just something about him, that clicks ...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

Do these guys like my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - hello again i already know my gf has many male friends but i just want to know the signs if they like her or not cuz i already feel uncomfortable with her knowing so many guys...

How to open communications with an ex when you want her as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - So my LDR girlfriend, of 10 months, and I have been broken up now for about 2 months now. She was the one who decided to end things and at first I didn't agree with the breakup but over time I've come to realize that maybe it was for the best ...

Help!!! Think I'm in love with my best friend but can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and him have been best friends for a long long time. We're so close that it fascinates people. We were that close that we ended up in bed together and it never made anything awkward. We're still extremely close, but the thing is, I think I'm in ...

I know she loves me very much as a friend but I'm not sure she can love her at the same level as I love her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey guys, just in need of some quick advice. It might some pathetic or complex but I'd appreciate any feedback I get. I'm in love with my best friend. I withstrain with saying infatuated because I'm not obsessed with her, and I genuinely care a...

Should I text again or just leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl yesterday through a mutual friend and I like her, am quite sure she was flirting with me but not 100%. I thought things were going well but now she hasnt text back, is she just playing 'hard to get'? I've texted her twice and she hasn't ...

How to really ease into the relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - We were in a time of "space that he wanted". It has been 1 month now. He has talked tome briefly, he is taking it slow. I had plans already before all this happened and got a job and am moving next week. Last time I talked with him he was very ...

What do I say to him when we meet tomorrow to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im sorry if this is a little long but you need to know the full storry to understand. my best friend is a guy and he likes me, hes liked me for over a year and about 2 month ago he asked me out and i ended up saying yes because i thought ...

Should I ask her to be my girlfriend on her birthday or is this too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Ok, so I've finally met this girl at my very first party, she's 2 years younger than me and we pretty much hitting it off. It's her first time too, so we are so new to this whole thing. Anyway, I got her # and drive her home after the party... ...

Should I just approach him and tell him I'm ready for more???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have been "talking" to this person for approximately a year an a half but are and have always been in a grey area. As time progressed, things have gotten a lot better in that he is no longer afraid of people seeing us together or thinking that we ...

Any tips on how I can start talking to him naturally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have huge crush on a guy but the problem is i never see him on a night out so i never get the chance to get talkng to him. I met him briefly a few weeks ago and i got the impression he might like me too.We are from neighbouring towns and have ...

Am I a gal pal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I hope this will clear things up to show I am a good guy. A girl texed me last weekend and asked if I could be there for her at this party. I said sure anything you need. I didn't have anything to drink and protected her from other drunk guys. ...

Crush gone wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, well, I need some advice on this guy. You see I liked him for a long time, sometimes he used to give me small signals that he liked me. He would try hard to get as close as he could to me. (That means outside my personal space bubble, or not ...

I'm wondering if its stupid or foolish in a sense that I'm 'waiting' for another chance at 'us'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - to make a long story short, i was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. in the beginning, i lied to him about my past, which really hurt him and tainted the relationship. we took a 'break' after that, and since then we've been in this ...

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than ...

One-time FWB seems to be behaving differently -- am I reading too much into it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) - I was recently talking to a male friend, who used to be a kind of FWB, so to speak. That started when we met up after getting back in touch on a social networking site. This casual thing lasted about 6 months or so, we saw each other maybe 5 or 6 ...

Should I ask her out? I'm having trouble with doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - There's a girl I know that I like. I think she liked me like a month ago but I'm really bad at that stuff and didn't really think. Anyway, I want to tell her I like her as more than a friend But I'm having trouble with that. This girl is great. S...

Shouldn't she just trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are ...

How to make friends when you can't trust anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - After a big fight in high school, I've never been able to trust anyone aside from my mom. I thought I was great friends with a group of people from high school, but one of them got angry with me for trying to stop a fight between her and another ...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

My best friend has broken up with him and I would love to be with him... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi there I like this boy, i mean i really like him and we are good friends but my best friend was actually going out with him and i felt guilty about liking him . . but my best friend knew that i liked him and she said she was ok about it but i kn...

My friend doesn't seem to want to share "her" friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So. A few months ago I was at a party and talking to this guy who I had spoken to a few times before. Previously I had never even clocked him as a potential crush but there was just this moment that I realised I liked him. I saw him around a few...

I've never been friends with a girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i am 17 years old, i have never been freinds with girls. nor have i ever had a girl freind. there is this girl in my class whos number i have. i talk to her via sms and msn. other than this, i do not talk to her in school. i feel shy approaching ...

Could this guy have liked me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Could this guy have liked me? I went to a pub last night, and he looked at me a few times. When my friend, who was sat next to me was talking, he leaned sideways to look at me a couple of times (he was sat on another table and my friend was ...

I don't understand why he has stayed when he has no love in his heart for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am in the strangest relationship i have ever been in. This man is married but please no telling me i am a home wrecker because that is not the case here, I have been in this relationship for many years this man doesn't love me but he knows i ...

He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall! Here's the deal I've just finished my first year in uni and met this guy. I'd rate myself as average looking and of average intelligence. But his guy he just came from Korea last year, looks ...

I really like this guy but he totally ignores me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy but he totally ignores me. we used to talk and be good friends but then he just left this friendship and started doing the same to other girls. i dont think anything like what happened to me happened to them but i want him to ...

I'm not sure what to do because I really like her and I think she really likes me. Any ideas???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Yesterday me and four others went to fright night two girls and four boys in total. Basically it's twelve hours in Thorpe park. Okay so let's call the people; Emma Shannon Daniel Will and Aaron. So basically Emma and Daniel have known each other . ...

I took photos of his girlfriend's underwear and now he's found them! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i was cheated my friend who was done some good things for me but now i m feeling guilty one and half year ago i was leaving with my friend and sharing a flat in building. his girl frnd was my girl frnd's sister and so we were as group (girls w...

How do I get to her without coming over too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've known a girl for some time and we do seem to share some chemistry. Now, I am great around her at parties with her friends and I have managed to befriend all her friends (to a level where most of them count me among their good friend). I tease ...

Complicated... a married woman, a dance partner and my love of dance !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - This is COMPLICATED !!! I'm a dancer, I dance on stage as a demonstrator to an instructor teaching others how to dance, I'm very popular because I have a sense of humour and I'm very strong ! (don't consider myself attractive) I am in a position...

Guy is always confused about who he likes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Over the summer this boy (Lucas), who used to like my friend, added me on facebook. He asked me to hang out with him and he was really nice so I agreed. He started to like me, and I liked him, but then I went to Europe for a few weeks and stopped ...

Best friend's wife took him away from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Life a bitch sometimes hi I've known my best friend for 8 years I've always been there for him for better or worse I'm not gay by the way I have a girlfriend lol but I'm just trying to make a point when I said for better or worse. We were so close ...

In love with straight best friend. How do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my bi sexual best friend. I love this girl more then life itself and we're like sisters, refrai not we've cried together and basicly rely on eachother more then anything. At the moment shes going out with a guy who I don't really ...

The thought of being with other guys literally makes me nauseous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Though my best friends are guys, any other guy in my life has been . I mention these early things because though I take ownership of my bad decisions, things that happened had a profound effect on who I am now. I am sorry it’s so long but it was ...

I need some input on my thinking and maybe a little advice on how I should keep my mind sane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - About 3 months ago, I recently got together with a friend of mine whom I've known for 2 years in university. We were really good friends and I had no motives back then but but something changed and we ended up getting emotionally and physically ...

Why do I always remember every single thing about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - whats it mean when I remember everything she has ever said done or worn when I talk to her. 215 days ago today is the day I met this girl and for 215 days she has been driving me crazy in im not so sure a good way. I like her so what she knows it ...

I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - okay. I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals. Last week, my friend texted him and he ended up asking for my number. My friend told me and then he texted me. We just had a friendly conversation. Then the next day, there was a ...