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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I cope with these feelings I have for one of my best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3489 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I've been really good friends with one of my best friends for over 5 years now. She is a wonderful person inside and out. I've always thought very much of her and I have to admit I think I love her. She makes me laugh so much when I'm with her and ...

I am dating a guy 5 years younger than me and am afraid his friends are laughing behind our backs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Recently I have started seeing a guy who is five years younger then me, he is 19, and I have just turned 24. I have known him a while, as my friend is in a relationship with his older brother, and things started up in the last few months. He i...

My partner is acting like a single man..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I am just trying to come to terms with my partner of 10 years affair and although he said he loves me and he just did it for some excitement I am finding it difficult to get close to him again And although I thought I would try not to spy on him ...

Attended his farewell party. Should I tell this guy that I don't want to hook up with him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I hooked up with a dude acquaintance/friend at his goodbye party. My question is, he let me know he's coming back to town for a visit this coming weekend and I don't really want things to go down that path again. Is that something I shou...

My Bf of 3 years still sees the friends he mixed with back when he did take illicit drugs. Is it wrong to expect him to cut ties with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Here's the situation: I'm very anti-drug and when I met my bf of 3 years, he told me that he was a recovering addict, clean for the last 7 years and that he was over it. So I was fine with it. The problem is that he still hangs out with frien...

Clean now and sober for 23 months. How can I show these people that I've changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - When I was in my early 20's I began a bad habit that got me hooked on drugs (pills) and alcohol. I was able to hide it from almost everyone I knew. I met an amazing girl “T”, who had no idea what she was getting into and I thought I could ju...

Sex with Guy at work. Do I try to dodge her questions or tell her the truth, and lose her as a friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - So a few weeks ago I had sex with a guy that I work with, it was just a one time thing as we are just friends and I was leaving the job and we both wanted to have sex with each other. However now I feel really guilty as one of my close friends real...

Has my GF moved on, or can I restart and save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - Hey friends..my gf has been annoying me for the last few weeks. she has also been spending time with a new male friend, because i refused to have sex with her last time as i was not feeling well. Is she teasing me or something else?please do sugge...

How can I encourage this girl to want to show more interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - I'm fond of a girl.. She is in my school and we've known each other for 5 years. I love her. Though she didn't know about this till a few months back. In grade 6, we used to sit together as our teacher had made it so.. I stood 1st then and she...

Should I reconsider? And try to work things out with him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hey all so my boyfriend and I have been off and on for almost 2 years. Here recently we broke up and he moved on. He took his new gf around his friends like 2 or 3 times. Well he broke up with her 2 weeks ago and decided he wants us to work thi...

I can't hold onto friends and don't know how to make new ones

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - For some reason I can never hold onto friends. I try so hard to fit in and be good to them, but I always seem to be the odd one out, who doesn't get invited places or has to walk behind the group when the path isn't big enough. It makes me feel so ...

Why people assume that this much older man is my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - Why people assume that this much older guy is my husband?? I belong to one club. One member who is 24 years older than me which makes him only 3 years younger than my father drives me there sometimes as we live very close to each other. His daughter...

How can I possibly introduce my husband to a man who tried it on with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So I am in a predicament and I don't know what to do. About six months ago, I had a row with my husband and went out to my friends party and got really drunk. My friend's husbands rather ugly best friend was at the party, he was really drunk too and ...

Please help me! Is my fiancé abusing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So my fiancé thinks that its okay to look at girls who are way skinnier than me and then gets mad when a guy looks at me in a good way. He consistantly will do this right in front of me then tells me that im an attention whore and wants me to wear...

What is appropriate? What type of support would be suitable to offer to a friend who has been diagnosed with oral cancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Someone i know has recently been diagnosed with oral cancer, can you offer advice?. This is difficult for me to talk about. A man i know was diagnosed with oral cancer three weeks ago. The tumour is near his jaw. I am friends with this man, but ...

Why are people trying to match make? I enjoy flirting and dating but no exclusively. But don't want to be available for sex. Is that so difficult?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Please help me! I am so sick of people trying to play match maker but every group of friends I've had and even random co workers and relatives and people I go to church with are always trying HARD to set me up with someone. I have had a lot ...

I lied with a fake ID and fake photo. Now he knows the truth he's blocked me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - I love a guy bt I sent him fake photos and used to speak to him using a fake id. we are in a long distance relationshp for 6 months. He is the son of my friend and her neighbour.. He knows my sister because my sister lives same place as my friend...

Why was my sister friend so rude to me and why are women so mean to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - A few months ago my younger sister ( who lives in another state) got married, smallish amount of people around 60, at the end of the night there were buses that took us from the venue to the car park in the town where we all had parked car...

I don't want him to be friends with women he used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Question I'm in love with my boyfriend (of a year and a half)and we have have a great relationship besides the fact that he is really close to some female friends of his and one he is really close with that he use to date(sleep with)! He has a lot ...

What should I do about my secret obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - I can't get this girl out of my head. I've known her years and we talk now and then. I have a girlfriend who I really like but I know isn't 'the one'. I think about this other girl constantly and replay our conversations over in my head. I don't ...

I feel like my gf is better friends with my roommate than she is with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - I'm currently in a relationship that started 3 months ago. She and I spend a lot of time together and we already feel very strongly about each other. She is over my place a lot and she has become good friends with my roommate. The three of us hang...

My straight friends sleeps in the same bed with me and masturbates. Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm confused. I'm gay, my best friend is aware of this. It's not really an issue. He's straight. When we were younger, before I came out, we used to watch straight porn together. Which I don't think is uncommon for teenage boys. And, ...

Should I Tell My Friend About her Friend Quizzing Me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - I recently went to an event to support a friend. While I was there I spoke with two of her friends there who were a couple. The wife started asking me multiple questions about my friend including her work schedule. I simply said I didn't know her ...

Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple? My husband, who has always been faithful to me recently confessed that he 'liked' another woman he and I both knew several years ago. He had always denied it, but recently he ...

He Lied About Dating Someone - Should I Not Be Friends With Him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Last summer, I fancied a male friend (used to flirt with him a bit but nothing more than that) whom I got on with quite well. I told him I liked him, and he turned me down, saying that he was already seeing someone. There was a mutual guy frien...

I like my best friend, but it's complicated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - To get straight to the point, I have a pretty big crush on my best friend, but I'm not sure how he feels. My friendship group is a quite big one - there are around 30 of us - and both my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are in this group. Me a...

I'm gay so should I purse a straight friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - hi. This might take a while basically I have a boyfriend and I am gay. recently I have been having a few weird feelings towards one of our mutual straight friends. I have known him for a couple of years and always thought he was cute but straigh...

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my ...

How do I tell my fiance and my friend that I've fallen for his girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - I have been feeling ill with a current situation I have got myself into. I have been previously married which ended after she had an affair and got pregnant. I eventually found my current partner. I have a close friend whom I have known all my life. ...

Should I make a move on my friend's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I posted a question about my friend's brother not too long ago. In summary, I am a sophomore in college, he is a senior at my school, I am very good friends with his sister who is also a sophomore, and I have been interested in him for abou...

My boyfriend's friend is monopolizing his time and boyfriend seems to be suffering because of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi there, Long story short my boyfriend and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is the kind where we spend lots of time together (every night together even though we live apart), school, groceries, getting a snack at 2 in th...

Why doesn't my boyfriend want sex more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend it was in a "business only" relationship. At that time he was in a "bad relationship", that was pretty much sexless, that took him three years to finally get out of. When I first met him I liked him very much as a ...

I want her to reconsider just being friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made...

This friend won't give me the support I need, how do I deal with it when I'm alone with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hi Agony people, My problem involves a good friend of mine. A few months ago I was abused and cut up by so called friends. Other friends of mine had been told lies about me also and some of them turned on me and gave out to me for everythi...

What to do? I can't forget him. Yet now I am not the sort of girl he would go for.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3496 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - *Am currently in a long term serious relationship* When I started high school I was instantly attracted to this boy who was not in my circle of friends or in any of my classes. He just started saying "HI" to me every time he saw me. In high school...

I really care for this girl but unsure if she sees me as just as friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3447 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - I met this girl six months ago when I got a new job. In this job all the staff lived together in a house, so for the past six months I've been living with her. About two months ago I realised that I am in love with her. Before this I thought I was ...

I feel like I'm playing the part of my friend's mom and its too much for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

22 September 2014 (?) - I'm having difficulty with one of my uni friends and have been for the past year and it's really winding me up. If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it. When we first met, it was over the internet because we knew we were on the same...

Wanting to become friends or does he like me more than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm not sure whether a guy likes me or not. He is not the type to flirt, is shy, and is really only friendly to girls and as far as I know doesn't show interest romantically in them, and I'm pretty certain he's not...

My friend might be sending nudes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - So recently a new boy came to our school, the reason he came was because he got expelled from his old school for screenshotting a girls nudes and showing them to all his mates. The only problem is... He's quite good looking. My friend is a bit of a ...

My best friend treats me differently now that he's in a serious relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi , I've been friends with this guy forever and now we're bestfriends.he always wanted a relationship with me but I refused cause I didn't want to ruin our friendship, now he hav found this girl who is serious about him, he starts treating me ...

I enjoy my life but want to feel important to someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I'm confused about why I want things/ people in my life... I have a group of friends who are quite loud and chatty and funny. I'm fairly quiet. If I speak up in the group - nobody hears me, and nobody ever responds to me. When we use Whatsapp to ...

I wanted a relationship, but he wouldn't commit! Should I have waited longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I wasn't expecting or looking to find anyone as I had got out of a serious relationship at the start of the year, but in July I met this guy through a friend. We just instantly hit it off, and we swapped numbers etc. Since the first day I met I ha...

Have a Mega crush on him. How can I get over him, and talk to him in a mature way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I'm just going to put this out there straight away - I'm 15 and the guy I am hopelessly head over heels in love with is 22. I think about him all the time, he's the hottest guy I've ever seen and I don't know what to do. He's totally out of my le...

Love him so much, Is he taking notice of his friends who claim that he can find a better Gf than me? Is he really the Bf for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - My now ex-boyfriend and I were dating for 3years but he broke up with me a week ago, saying that he needs to find himself and what he wants out of life and that includes me. We had an amazing relationship but over the last couple of months we have ...

Am a making a bad choice in marrying this man? We do fight constantly. He can be controlling.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - My fiancé and I have been fighting constantly about everything but our last fight earlier today made me question if I'm making the right choice to marry him. I guess I'm looking for an outsiders view as to weather or not I should continue to purs...

We talked a little. what next? Shall I wait? Or take the initiative and contact him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I talked to a guy once a little and then I added him on facebook. He accepted my friend request and also he liked my profile photo. Later I also liked his profile photo. What next? shall I chat with him on fb when I see that he is onli...

My fears about love are keeping me from fully enjoying my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - A while back, I started talking to a guy on a dating site who was a 95% match with me. (I'm 18, he's 21) We realized that we have a HUGE amount of common interests, and really hit it off. We went on dates together and talked for many hours and found ...

One month LDR, and one of my best friends does not like him. Does that matter? Was it wrong for me to have words with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Hello fellow cupid readers, sorry a bit of background is needed for this. i am in an ldr with my bf of 1 month but we have been incredibly close friends since we were two and we are both now fifteen even though i only see him like four times a year...

Why is this guy being rude to me? He can be nice to others, why not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Ok so im a quiet type of girl until i know the person. There is this guy in our school. During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left. I was sitting behind them with my friend. Later that d...

He throws the word pregnant at me umpteen times......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - Dear Aunts, There is a guy who I like and who likes me but we are just friends. He shares his dreams, his personal goals and encourages me to try to get the best in life. However lately, he has mentioned that he would like to have kids when he is ...