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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How can I be sure if we don't work out that we can still be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - One of my really close boy mates have just asked me out but i dont no wat to say.Hes 2 years younger than me and a bit shorter than me. I do like him but how can i be sure if i do go out with him and we break up that we'll still me close mates. P...

The friend I want to get to know more left a message to say I love you on my phone! Not sure I feel that way!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 745 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I have a friend that I liek more then just a friend. We don't know much about eachother and we want to know more about one another. But today he left me a message on my phone and he was saying, "I love you!" Over and over again, I asked him if he ...

How do I change us from friends to partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - I have a friend that is a girl, I have known her for about 10 years, (since kindergaden) What i want to know is how to change this relationship to a boyfriend/girlfried relationship, thanks!!...

Should I pursue her or stop wasting time ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Well, I'm a senior in high school and I like this girl who is a freshman in college. Thing is, she is home for the fall term and possibly then some. We got pretty close this summer but I never asked her to go out with me; I took her to my high ...

My friend is obsessed with MSN messenger! It's like she's forgotten about her real world friendships..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - One of my best friends (and who I thought of as a potential g/f) has become obsessed with talkin on msn! She's on it pretty much every night and usually talks to about 10 different people at the same time which hardly constitutes as a proper ...

My ex and my friend - how can it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - There are rumours around school that my ex and my friend love each other and should go out ... however i dont rly think that my ex wants to go out with her ... but how can i be sure ? ... without asking him how will i know if they are in love ? ...

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

I am married and my online friend has fallen in love with me. Am I cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i am a 29-year-old married female having a 1-year-old child. A month back i made friends with a 20-year-old male on the internet and have been in constant touch with each other ever since online and over the phone. He claims to have fallen in love ...

She's been a good friend in the past but lately she's been very embarrassing to hang out with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - I had this mate until recently. I've split contact with her as she's let me down yet again. I was on a date and she kept trying to force us to buy her drinks because she's able to work but doesnt want to, so she complains and literally tries to ...

She is around a lot to be an EX

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted earlier this month and got some great advice... but still things don't seem to be getting much better. I am 24 and have an amazing boyfriend. We have been together over 10 months and we have everything I have ever wanted in a relationship-- ...

Should I try to meet a man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I had a a very good friend, she was a girl like me, she was dropped by her boy so I introduced her to my circle of friends, two of them wanted to have a relationship with her and she started to date them both at the same time but never wanted to ...

He told me that he was going to kill himself, should I tell his mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am feeling very helpless at the moment.My boyfriend of one year finished the relationship, saying that things werent working and he wasnt happy with the relationship, but at this moment i am not concerened about that.The night he finished it, we ...

I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a relationship and only sees me as a friend. Where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I've fallen for a women who I work with, problem is she's already in a realtionship and only sees me as a friend. In the last couple of days she ended her relationship and I was planning in the next week or 2 once she'd got over it, to tell her ...

My best mate doesnt like my Bf what can I do ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - one of my best friends (a guy) really doesnt like my bf My bf is the sweetest guy ever but my friend wont have any of it. Thing is they have only met once and now my friend wont even contemplate meeting him again For a while me and my friend h...

If we are to be together, again, I want a committment..not a casual friendship! What do you think he'll do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years, absolutely adored the guy until I found he cheated on me and threw him out. When we were together everything seemed perfect as I am a very caring individual. Well six months later he's contacted me saying he ...

Can you be best friends with the person you have just broken up with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - How can you be best friends straight after a break up which your g/f made? i don't want to feel bad by not being her friend, but it seems hard to see her as a friend..especially saying best friends staright after a break up, i don't get it...

I'm so confused, one min he is saying he loves me, the next hes telling me about all the chicks he has seen lately. whats going on????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl. I have really deep feelings for my best friend who I have been friends with for about 6 months now. When I first met him, I thought I had feelings for him more then a friend but decided to just wait, get to know him, and ...

My friend knows I am in love with him, he gives me mixed signals but just does not seem to care. I really don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hi, Im in a proper mess, im desperatly in love with my friend and he knows this, and I dont expect him to be in love with me back. It just no matter how much I tell him (in a text) he never comments, never runs a mile and well its destroying me ...

My girlfriend has a male friend. I have no problem with this, but he keeps stepping on my toes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend, I have no problem with this. But this guy is stepping on my toes. Always buying things for her, writing poems, etc. It feels like he's moving in on my territory. I try not to feel pressured. I don't want to be ...

I want to warn my friend that her bf is cheating on her...but how do I do it without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I have seen my girlfriend's BF out with another woman, getting very intimate in a bar. I did not approach my friend's boyfriend. I feel like I should let her know that he may be cheating on her, yet I don't want her to be hurt. They've been ...

How can I stop a relationship developing between my ex and my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 7 or 8 months becuse we ddin't think things were wotking out. Josh is a "typical" boy in that i could see him only leaving me for another girl. Howether, this other girl might just be my best friend. We vowed to ...

My best friend is flirting like HELL with my boyfriend. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My best friend just broke up with a steady boyfriend of nearly a year when the chemistry vanished and he told her he "just couldn't see things working out". This is very well and they are still close friends but my Best friend is now flirtingl like ...

I caught my partners mate eyeing me up and down, what's with that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I was taking my son to cubs the other night and a mate of my partner was stood opposite me when I was chatting to another bloke. After I had stopped I turned to talk to him and I caught him looking me up and down like a once over and then he moved ...

The fact that she called makes me insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's ex called here wanting to talk to him. Her current boyfriend is being sent overseas on a peacekeeping mission and she just wanted someone to talk to. The speaker phone was on and in no way did I get the impression that she is still ...

My friend made out with the girl I really fancy. Now I dont know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 752 days ago

23 September 2006 (M) - Some friends and I went swimmng like we usually do on a friday but we took a bit of alcohol. All of a sudden the girl i fancy (doesn't know) starts crying and walks away, i try to see whats the matter but she tells me to go away, then a minute or so ...

I saw my friend's boyfriend with another woman. Should I tell my friend? It was obvious they were very intimate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 655 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw a friend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was a dark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a business associate or casual friend. It was very obvious that...

Should I wait 9 months to tell the guy how I feel, or should I be saying, "hit the road Jack" and dating other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - Hello, Just looking for advice. Okay...so, I'm seventeen years old and a senior in high school. And I've developed some serious feelings for one of my very good guy friends, Jack. Problem is, he lives a bit far away at the moment, and the next...

Why is my only friend acting in this way? I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - well, i have been best pals with someome for a long time, but recently she has changed. I phoned her the other day and asked if she was coming out and she said that she had homework and didnt want to and that she was already planning on asking s...

I am a girl who prefers to hang with guys, why can't girls understand that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I am someone who likes to hang around with guys, and I hate it when certain girls and women try to talk and hang out with me. (In fact, there are very few that I like, or can tolerate, because I know too many who are mean to me for no good reason, ...

I have strong feelings for my friend, I am now single and she is on a break. Should I make a move and would this be what she wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - i need help! i live with my best friend, who has been in a relationship since we met. and i've been in a relationship since we met, as well. but we had an instant attraction to each other the first time we spoke that couldn't be denied. we both ...

Old college friend has made me realise my true feelings for my boyfriend. Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship where I have been living with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year now I am starting to think we are not working. we are very different. I have also recently been reunited with an old college friend w...

My friends girlfriend has fell for somebody else, now she plans on marrying her lover. How can I break this news to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship. But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him. And she fell for a frend of his so called lo...

I confessed my undying love for my friend, but he is totally unresponsive. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, recently I confessed my undying love to my best male friend, he is such a lovely guy it was bound to happen at some time. My problem is my friend is being unresponsive with regards to how I feel about him and I dont know what to do anymore. He ...

I had sex with my best friends boyfriend while she was asleep in the same bed. She seemed ok with it at first, now we hardly talk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i got really close to one of my co-workers and were like best friends and i considered her almost like a sister i never had. we go out with our other co-workers and my best friends boyfriend. so one night we got really drunk at the club and i ...

I feel like my best friend will neglect me when her old best friend comes back on the scene.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Well i have a bestfriend.she had a best best bestfriend before me.her friend moved away.if her friend came back she might stop being my friend and start being her old bestfriend.they might be friends and ill be left out.im worried should i just let ...

I have feelings for a friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - have this lady that i am friend with in school, but i am starting to have feeling for her but were both busy so i wanted to know how end the frinedship in a positive....

Why is it so hard to ask a friend on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi all. Been a regular and even given a few advice of my own. I am at the moment unhappy and tired of being alone. I am in my mid 20's and never really had a long term relationship. Longest been 1 month. I have never had a one night stand...

My gf and her best galpal message things to each other that I think is way over the top! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - I recently read a a few comments on my girlfriends myspace toward her best mate, who is a girl... Im not sure if its the way they act together as whenever i've seen them together they're not as hyper, but they message each other random things li...

Im so confused, we got on great platonically, she split with her bf I complimented her and she hastily left! Why would she do that ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Help, i'm confused and embarrassed. Over the last few months at a local evening class, I've been chatting briefly and platonically to a lovely girl whom i have always been attracted to. I was delighted to hear from her buddy that she found me attra...

Why might she be hesitant about a relationship even though we get on so well and what can I do ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 754 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - i have posted about this before and got all positive responses but things are moving and i wanted some more opinions, basically what's happened is i have fell in love(!) with my m8s cousin, the problem is she is just 17 and I'm 22 and we have become ...

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...

Is there a way that I can say it is a no go with him, and still work with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I am working a really neat volunteer job which involves politics which I am interested in. I am working closely with a married man who is extremely attractive to me but I have nipped it in the bud He has a wife and I care about her feelings and I ...

does this mean he fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - hi, i fancy this boy at my scout club thingy ~(its a club for girls and boys). he is new and doesnt really know anyone, at the club we play games like badminton and we have to pick a partner. i have never talked to him before but want to soon! t...

Fallen for one of my best friends! I 'm afraid to ask her out as it may hurt our friendship. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - hi im a 13 yr old male and i've fallen in love with one of my best frends that i,ve known for 2 years and im afraid that if i ask her out and she sais no that it will harm our relationship and of our frends...

Is it normal for him to be jealous of other guys even though we are just friends with benefits ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - is it normal for a guy in a "friends-with-benefits" situation to be jealous of another guy you might see? i recently told him about guy 2, who all i have done with is make out, and he was saying stuff like "well you can go have sex with..whats his ...

I can't seem to make friends! I'm a nice person so why is this happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i dont know why but i just cant seem to make friends! im a nice sensitive honest person, maybe too nice? when i had friends in the past, they just stopped talking to me and i never knew why? i used to hang out with 3 other people and now they dont ...

Wanted..someone to go on holidays with. Do any of you know of good singles holidays, or friendship clubs you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I wonder can anyone give me a bit of advice please? I live in the north west of england. I'm single, have lots of friends, but no-one to go on holiday with! All my mates are married or in relationships. Do any of you know of good ...

Why wont he just admit he is jealous, admit he has feelings for me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 756 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi ya, hope you can help, im in a situation with a male friend basically I have told him I love him, he wont make any comment to the fact that I love him and basically I have given up telling him how I feel for fear of rejection. The one problem I ...

He says she is just a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 757 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My bf had relationship with his ex for 4 yrs. they broke up sometime last year. I've been with him for almost a year and he still keeps his ex's clothes and call his ex once a month. I asked him and he said that he doesn't have any feeling for her ...

My friend lost her virginity even though she is a Christian and now she has lost all self respect! I want to help her get it back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 583 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - One of my best friends has been dealing with the loss of her virginity for the last 8 months and I have a question about trying to advise her. She is a very christian girl that believes in waiting till marriage and that her virginity was the sing...