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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I get her out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm a first year university student in London, and recently went to visit my friend in Manchester for a week (study week). Whilst I was there I met one of her friends and I know it sounds creepy but I can't stop thinking about her. I'v...

What did the beautiful woman mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - A woman who flirted with me told me the other day that if she wasn't married "she would snap me up!" What exactly did she mean by that? Thanks for any help ...

I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother.... he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and that is fine by me. His family adores me and is so excited. What am I going to do? How can I remain a friend of the family when he will always be ...

Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there ...

Is he just not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy last spring in the mall, he is definitely attracted to me. i had a crush and we flirted a few times. then he stopped flirting with me and i decided to stop going to the mall to see him but decided to leave a "window open" by seeing ...

Pursue or not pursue, that is the question.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a friend who is leaving soon and I want to know if I should persue him. I can't decide because he gives me mixed signals. For instance... says he cares about me, talks about hot girls, puts his arm around me in public, won't make a move aro...

My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a ...

I love my friend of 17 years

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone i have been friendly with this lady for years, we go out for the rugby matches. But recently she has split with here husband, due to his drinking and Gambling, and the divorce proceedings are near the end, but i have fallen for here b...

My bestfriend became my lover and now he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for years and over the summer we became great friends, then we became more than great friends and he became ever so lovy dovy and often said that he loved me. But recently he has become distant, he never says that he loves me ...

Why did he choose a woman similar to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - hi all,i got a problem that needs solving,i have a best friend who is a guy,he is also the best friend of my guy,thing is we were friends before my guy and i got together. i will call my best friend R. R and i are so close that i tell him everything ...

Can sexual attraction be so intense between two people that they are actually uncomfortable in each other's presence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I was just wondering (and please don't read too much into this!) whether sometimes the sexual attraction between two people can be so intense that they actually avoid each other (i.e. never actually consummate the attraction), net result being ...

I love him but he crumpled my heart into a million pieces and spat on them.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were going out for a long time since march time and then the other week he told me thats right HE TOLD me. ] That when he went on holiday to wales in April he got off with a girl but he said that he was drunk and then he told me ...

Why would he not call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone offer me any explanation for this please? I met a friend of a very good friend of mine a couple of weeks ago. This guy told my friend (also a guy) that he really liked me, asked him loads of questions about me such as am I single, wha...

A seriously confusing situation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Let's see here... I guess I can start with the beginning. Back when I was in highschool, I'm now a freshmen in college, I became very close friends with a girl. We hung out and generally were able to talk to each other about pretty much anything. ...

I'm really very bored of my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am 18 years old, I had a best friend, she is my best friend from last 2 years. I was admiring her so much that I used to help her a lot, even she was like that but nowadays she is not caring for me at all. She just hesitates to talk with me. ...

What is the most honourable thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hello I just started college this fall, and have been having issues fitting in with both the people at my institute. I find nothing appealing in getting drunk or high, or hooking up with random girls, or playing video games or staying up all n...

She's amassed $70,000 in debt!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hello; I've asked a few other questions, so I don't want to overload the board, but I figured I'd try one more. I have been with my girlfriend for 6+ years, engaged for 2+ of those years. I don't believe we will ever have a wedding -- after I p...

I think he's trying to impress the wrong people... what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - Theres this (cute) guy (he used to live in Australia and this Aussie accent) who's new to my school but only plobem is almost everybody says he`s a loser. The boys in my grade shove in lockers (he just lets it happen without defending himself) and ...

Younger men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - There is a guy who is younger than me and he really likes me but I think he is a geeko and I really don't like him. He is always following me around! What do I do!?...

Am I giving off the wrong vibes here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I don't know if it's a vibe I put off or if men don't find me beautiful but I haven't had a boyfriend since junior year. I like to do lots of fun things like all types of boarding, I ride a motorcycle, have got a good job and would say I am ...

Because of my friend she doesn't trust me any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hey people I need a little help, I mean I have this very beautiful GF... lemme just get to the point guys she doesn't trust people that easily and my Best friend told her that I went off and getting girls msns and sort... it pissed me off to no ...

I am scared to get in a relationship with him fearing he is worse than I am thinking.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a friend from work whom I will call N. We longboard and I talk to him at work. He works in the same department as my uncle and recently my uncle said that N is saying stuff about me he doesn't approve of. He wouldn't tell me anything ...

Does he really likes me or am I another one of his conquests?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I met a military guy 2 months ago, he's leaving in January, so I have this single month left to do something. When we met I notice he's too much out there, like a player kinda thing. He kept looking at me a lot and he even asked me if I was a ...

Lately he doesn't text me back, should I be upset or just get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I recently started to text this guy. My friend gave me his number and she said he is really nice, so I started to text him and have been for about a month now, but I found out that he is a player. But when we talks he calls me sexy and baby and all ...

Is it love... or the wrong signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 16 and i have a crisis I guess you could say. I feel very attracted to a 27 year old man. the thing is he used to work at my school as hall patrol. he plays football for a county team and i feel obligated to go to his games to cheer him on. ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Right, I completed secondary school back in June after finishing my exams and all that :). about a month after leaving I added this teacher on a networking site, and it was pretty cool. First we just chatted about movies and favourite bands et...

Another player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I liked this guy a couple years older than me.. and he was sweet and stuff when we started talking and we ended up having sex when we hung out.. well my cousin knows of him and heard he was a player. She told me this last night. Well it wasnt li...

From 100 mph to 0 in 15 months....!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - So I started going out with my current girlfriend after meeting her at the bar, she was a rebound for me at the time so things didn't really start off intending to turn into a relationship but it did- and that made things tough. Anyways the sex was ...

He laughed and called me his "fuck buddy!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi People I'm finding this really hard, I've been split with my bf just over a month, and I'm still in contact as in friends and I still sometimes sleep with him in the car, Well last nite I went round his house for the first time since we sp...

Do think this breaks all friendship rules - because my friend slept with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - About 7 months ago one of my good girl friends finished with a guy she’d been seeing, it was all very emotional and she was upset. That night we went to a friend’s party where after getting very drunk she found a rebound- good looking, one of the ...

My boyfriend is super shy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is SUPER shy, and I don't know why! Like before we started going out we would talk ALL the time and now its just like...i dont even know. When he is around his friends he talks all the time and is really funny! And i like him alot, but ...

Should I break up with my "imaginary boyfriend"???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - hey people, Basically, I was introduced to a guy at college, I thought he was cute but hey I think everyone got good looking friends. So anyway, we started to get to know each other and he WAS NOT my type of guy. I like the type of guy who is a dar...

He likes to chat with other girls online and says I have nothing to worry about...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - good evening I don't know how to say that and I know I am an understandable person but it really bothers me that my boyfriend likes to chat with other girls online and when I told him how do I feel about that, he assures me that there is ab...

Two cheating people on a weekly basis for 8 months

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi, For the past 8 months I have been seeing this guy. He has a girlfriend far away with kids and I am engaged. We see each other on a weekly basis and go on vacations to amazing places all the time. Is it normal to have a pure sexual relationship ...

Ran into my ex who behaved very oddly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Well, this is more a rant than a question but opinions would be appreciated. So basically last night I ran into my ex, first time I'd seen her since we split up (oh and it was BAAAAAAD break up I hasten to add). She kind of took me by surpris...

Why did she blow me kisses?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Last night I had a woman who I presume fancies me blow me kisses continously as I was leaving a restaurant. I know her so she isn't a stranger, she is older than me. What was her random reason for this? Thanks for any help you lovely people!...

Is is all right I have a teacher's myspace?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Right, my question is: Is it all right that I have a teacher's myspace? The thing is he's not my actual teacher, I only got to know him during cross country last year (he was one of the teachers that ran the club) and I thought he was fun and cool...

As the years pass I feel as if I've lost "the one". Does anyone else feel like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - We had known each other since childhood, it was almost inevitable that years later, as adults, we would get together. We both came from unhappy homes and in the past had problems with drink and drugs. Together we straightened ourselves out and ...

Is it okay to just not be that bothered about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman, and I started having sexual relationships when I was sixteen. I've been in two or three serious long term relationships, and all have been loving, and relatively sucessful except for one thing. I'm really not that fussed a...

We're only friends, but I'm upset because he had sex with another girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys i need some help or advice. The thing is this i have a friend who is a guy and we've known each other for 4yrs. At 1st i liked him and he liked me but nothing happened so we've decided to be best friends. I might stil have feelings for him ...

I might move out of state and I'm scared of losing her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about going on 3 years. Her parents deceased.... lived with aunt... lived with me... because of my mom's problems(anxiety).. she moved to best friend's house(girl), an hour away...(I don't drive... both 18 ...

My close friend who fancies my boyfriend threw a fit, is this my problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hey Im in a pickle ive just started going with someone. I really like him. We went out together for the first time and my close friend whos been depressed lately kept hugging me and pulling me away and crying on me WHILE I WAS WITH HIM. I was gett...

He can't get out of his marriage but I think he has strong feelings for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - hi. I am feeling very confused right now. there is this guy I love.. I have loved him for a year now,but i found out that he has a girlfriend. He thinks of my father as an idol or something and shares everything with him and respects him imm...

Why is my friend acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - My best guy friend has been ignoring since school started all because he has a girlfriend. At first I thought it was he didnt want drama that he with his ex (she thought he cheating on her with me). Once I said hi to him and he didnt even look at ...

My friends can't accompany me to the party, should I go alone to meet strangers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - alright so i'm going to a party tomorrow. it's a birthday party. for my old best friend. me and her have been friends for so long then she moved and we kinda drifted. but anyways, i was supposed to go with my new 2 best friends (well not new, but ...

I feel like I'm falling apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - This is quite complicated but I will shorten it to my best ablilty. Basically I met this guy. We have met once previously a few years ago, but the contact this time was purely online. I find it a safe medium for me as I am still coming to terms ...

What can I do for my 16th birthday!??!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - this isnt a relationship question or anything but i would really appreciate all of your suggestions. so this sunday is my 16th birthday :-) and tomorrow night(saturday) me and my friends wanted to celebrate and party...we love to club but we cant ...

Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin? All my friends have been in serious relationships, however, I have not. I have been on a few dates but I have never felt attrated to anyone. My friends say im picky but I dont want to hurt anyones ...

Was what I did really bad or am I overreacting here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together only for 3 months now, we work together and he was engaged twice before and his 2 ex-fiancees also work at the same company and we have common friends, however since our relationship started i've been hearing ...

How can I change from the "girl with an attitude" to being "the nice girl"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I want to the sweet girl but, I'm know as the girl that has an attitude. I don't mean to be like that but it come out that way. What do you like i need to work on?...