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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I was dumped because she still wanted her ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6745 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I am a student away from home at uni and have been seeing a girl for about 7 months who is also away from her home and at uni. Recently tho she told me that she just wants to be friends, which I found out was due to feelings she still had towards ...

Is my girlfriend wrong to visit other guys, or am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. We've been together for about a year and 3 months and were very happy together, but now she has started going to other boys' houses. She says they're just friends but I can't help feeling jealous. When I told her ...

Why am I such a nasty bitch to my friend? Can I stop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I know this might sound pathetic but, I have 2 best friends. One of them I can be nasty to at times - in fact most of the time - and she's a real good friend for coping with me. But I want to stop being this nasty bitch. I have tried so hard to ...

I gave him lavish gifts when we were a couple. If he leaves, shouldn't he give them back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I am a 23 year old gay male. My best friend and I (since we were six) decided to become boy friends about 6 months ago after five years of relationships with others that never worked because we found we were looking for each other in our partners. ...

My co-worker is in a relationship, but it still feels like there's an attraction between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - I am a single guy between relationships (understatement!) and have become very attracted (also an understatement!) to a woman at work. The problem is that she is in a long term relationship, and yet, even allowing for the typical male tendency to ...

Why did the guy who seemed so great want to kiss another girl right in front of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6751 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Another love lost? I just got back into dating after the Vincent accident and I met this guy who lives across the street. He sang songs to me and acted like he realy liked me. This went on for about a week. It seemed like he was "the one." As if I ...

Did my old high school friend just date me to show off my great boobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6751 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I think I know the reason why my high school friend went out with me. I have lost a lot of weight and my friends don't know that I had gained weight in the past. Now I am in very good shape but well let's just say I can easily get a job at Hooters. ...

She accepts my invitations, but we never meet up and never rings back. Do I misunderstand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I recently became interest in a woman. We were co-workers with a company. Last year, I transferred to a different division. After my transfer, the two of us began serving together on a advisory board. I began to develop feelings for her. It grew mor...

My friend is an adult, but I think her sleeping with her half-brother is self-destructive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hi. I recently found out a very close friend of mine has been sleeping with her half brother. She is 18 and he is 31. They did not grow up together and only met two years ago. I am the only one that knows after she told me drunk one night – since ...

Why would I come to "hate" my friend, if we started dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I'd like some straight talking advice please! Sorry it's long... I met a man 2 years ago , we went on a date ended up kissing...but then since that date we've not really mentioned the kissing and have become really good friends. Recently he's bee...

I want him desperately. He's straight, single... and isn't interested!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - Please help me, I think my heart is breaking. I've known a certain person for around 8 months, and I've grown more and more attached to him. He's been there for me during some hard times I've had, and I've been gradually falling in complete love wit...

My friend can't stop looking at internet porn. It's taking over her life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Hi, my friend has a major obsession with internet porn. When ever she invites me over I always see her looking at porn. It's really bugging me now. When I invite her over my house, she goes on my computer and downloads it so I'm the one who gets the ...

How do I approach my very shy neighbour and let him know I'm interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Help! I've fallen for my friend and neighbour. He's REALLY shy and I'm scared to just tell him how I feel in case I've got a couple of signals wrong, and frighten him off completely. How should I play this? And if I tell him, how should I phra...

Too much information from my housemate! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - I have recently started uni and my housemate is really noisy when pleasuring herself and its even worse when her boyfriend stays. What should I do?...

I click with my friend on so many levels, but he just isn't physically attractive...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I have a really good friend who has liked me for the past 6 months. I think he is an amazing guy and I love spending time with him. Our personalities click the only thing is, well on the physical scale he's is not what I look for. Should I just get ...

In love with my housemate. Should I wait for him to figure it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone. My problem is that I am in love with my housemate. A few nights ago I thought he knew how I felt because he apologised for upsetting me when he kissed another girl when we were out. Now he's going out with her, and I want to tell him ...

Are "escorts" just prostitutes by another name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - My friend has hired an escort - and I tried to stop him but he did it anyway - are escorts really just prostitutes? He says he's lonely after losing his girlfriend but is it really just to have sex? Is that what escorts are for really?...

I kissed my boy mate and now our friendship seems broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, I just wondered if I could be clarified on something. I am 15. My best friend (a boy) and I are really close and as I moved I invited him to stay over for a week a few months ago. One evening we just kissed each other outside ...

My friend gave me a valuable gift, and I need to know if there are strings attached...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6758 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - If a guy that you are just friends with starts giving you expensive gifts for no reason at all, does it mean that he wants to be more than friends with you? I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with gave me a computer and desk. It wasn'...

He says nothing can happen between us, but I can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6759 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, In the summer I became really close to my guy neighbor. We've know each other since elementary and our parents are very close friends. But one time it just happened that we made out, and then a month later we lost our virginity together...

Was I just easy sex, or might there be something more between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Met a great guy at university, after a couple of months we starting sleeping together. He was my first. Now we live together with friends. He recently split with his girlfriend, and told me he was really confused and lonely and sorry for messing my ...

Both my best girl mate and me fancy my best boy mate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 13, and I have been best mates with this boy since playschool, 11 years. A week ago, I realised I fancied him, REALLY BADLY! So I told my other best mate (female)and she said she fancied him too! Now I don't know what to do, beca...

What's the deal with my goth friend? She's starting to annoy me and our other friends...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - I am a little worried for my friend because she seems to have a strange personality. She wears clothes which 'stand out' (goth clothes) and when I asked her why she said she didn't know. Her friends outside of school are all in their late teens or...

I felt it was destiny that we got together, but then he told me he just couldn't leave his relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I have felt a strong connection with a colleague at work for a few years now. We have always been friends and we are so much alike and share similar interests. We can make each other laugh and we can talk for hours non-stop.... About a month ...

Can't understand why my friend and his wife bother to stay together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - Why would a guy stay in a bad marriage? My friend is married to a woman who has two grown kids from previous marriage. Both her kids are herion addicts and have stolen money from him. He and his wife have nothing in common and she is ten years ...

We started and ended it before my separation. Now he won't admit to anything stronger than friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, a couple of yrs ago, I began working with someone who I was attracted to, but we resisted doing anything for a year as our siuations were very complicated, he lives with the mother of his two children and claims to only be there because ...

Afraid to ruin the friendship we have, I still want to tell her I'm interested...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid Hi. My name is Scott, I am 26 years old, and live in Ontario Canada. I have a problem, and have been trying to get as much advice as possible, before making a decision. I have been friends with this girl I work with for about 5 or 6 mon...

How can other people stay friends with their exes? Mine just looks uncomfortable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6764 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - My ex-boyfriend dumped me a while ago with tears, saying this might be a big mistake, etc. He was honestly such a wonderful boyfriend and I was so in love with him...even though we were young I really thought I had found something real. The farther ...

I want to be able to have better conversations with people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6763 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - A part of me is not developed or underdeveloped. It is that of social skills and that of having a conversation with people in general. I always tend to rather argue or analyse or act as judgemental and it pisses off some people especially women. I ...

The man I want, wants to be friends. A man I want as a friend wants more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6765 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have a big problem. I am in love with someone who says we should be friends. On the other hand I have someone who cares for me and he knows how I feel about the other man. I don't care for him. What should I do? ...

My best friend has started chasing my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - I've been seeing my partner for two years and recently my best friend has started texting him constantly, often using phrases only used by a lover/partner. I asked him about it after I couldn't stand it anymore and they both said I was just bei...

He told me at the beginning that he only wanted friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6766 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago and we have been communicating and hanging out together ever since then. He stated very clearly in the beginning that he was not looking for anything more than friends. However, in the last few days he has been ...

Tell my friend I like him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6746 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a girl and I have a friend that's a guy. I have known him for about 4 years. We are friends. My problem is that Ilike him as more than a friend, but I don't know if he feels the same. Do you think I should tell him how I feel or just kee...

Falling for a work colleague and it's so hard not to say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - I've fallen for a colleague who's in a relationship. We've known each other for about a year now and we get along so well. Lately it's becoming unbearable for me to see him every day and not tell him how I really feel. I've decided not to tell him...

Sometimes he acts a bit of an idiot, but I think I like the guy from my drama class...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I have known this guy from my drama class and we have been friends (Not best friends or anything) since we were 10 (14 now) and we walk home together after drama and its great and we get on well. Trouble is, I have started to have uh...feelings fo...

I don't want to end his friendships, but must he be so chummy with his ex-girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - Hi there, I was wondering if you could help me figure something out? I have a bf who I have been seeing for about 4 months now and it just so happens he is good friends with his two exes. This makes me feel uncomfortable and as though they are a ...

Could I have fallen in love with my friend, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

7 October 2005 (M) - I think I've fallen in love my old friend. He is smart, but I've already had my boyfriend for two years. I am very confused. What should I do to solve this problem? I have to see my old friend almost every day....

It seems like he's interested... but he also has a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - Hi A while ago I noticed that a guy at work seemed to be flirting with me a lot. I have lost weight recently and I am starting to feel much better about my appearance but my confidence is still very low. I started to talk to him more and we have a l...

Girls approach me like a father-figure, not like a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

5 October 2005 (M) - Hi I am young and handsome and well-educated but I can only talk and be friends with girls! I think they want me only for thier emotional offers. We get friendly and we become really intimate. They consult with me like a father(!) but as for sex t...

He has feelings for me, but I didn't realise I felt the same way. Do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6772 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have had intense romantic feelings for a very good friend of mine for a year and a half now. I just found out about a year ago he had feelings for me too, but didn't know I had feelings for him. Now, he has a girlfriend where I live, but has moved ...

My best friend is monopolising my time. I just want to have my own life, too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6772 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have an excellent friendship with my best mate; however she has issues with being insecure and is very demanding of my time. She rings and texts me constantly when I'm at work and at home. I'm flattered that she wants my advice and wants to turn ...

Should I continue to ditch the "toxic" friend who hates my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6772 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have a bit of an issue. My boyfriend, N, and I have been together a little over a year and we are very happy. However, my (male) friend, R, does not seem to be happy with our relationship. R seemed supportive at first, but would do toxic things ...

Why can't I move our friendship to a more intimate level? Am I just impatient?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6773 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I have been visiting a girl for a couple of weeks now. We aren't an item yet, but I am relatively certain that she does like me. Something is holding her back, though. She works two jobs, so we have very little time to see each other, and any date...

Everyone at uni assumes that there's something going on between my tutor and me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm having problems with one of my teachers. I am at university and have one tutor in particular who takes me for most of my classes. She has been very helpful to me this year, doing things like taking me home when i'm unwell and taki...

His answer to taking things further was No, so why is he giving me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6773 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I have a friend. We were intimate 20 years ago to be exact, it was something that happened for a period of time while I was married (but separated) and when it came to a head, my husband finding out and the escalation to almost physical ...

I didn't ask the girl out. Now I think I've lost her friendship, too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

2 October 2005 (M) - Needing to find a way to redeem myself I work with a girl who I developed a strong liking for. Despite several opportunities to ask her out I kept clamming up because I kept thinking that she may not feel the same way and didn’t want to spoil th...