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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking...

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also...

What do I do about this tiff between me and my roommates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Right so Agony people.I need some help. A few months ago I moved into a house with some friends for college. A tiff occured between me and two of my housemates. They claimed I said something bad which I didn't. Anyways I fel out with one of them but ...

He wants to hang out with me but I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'll be starting uni in the fall as an international student, and, as I'm sure most incoming freshmen do, I did a little facebook research on the current students at this university. Of course, I didn't contact any of the guys, and was left just ...

Our flatmates only growl at me when he's not there! I suffer from anxiety and depression so this is very difficult for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I don't know what to do. This year I moved from one city to another to live with my long distance boyfriend of 2 years. It's about six months on now. The move was really hard for me cos I'm shy and i left behind my close friends and the place I was ...

The guy who I thought was my closest friend will not talk to me. Am I over-reacting to his actions?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Hi, I had a small party and my closest friend at it wouldn't talk to me at all. He spent most of the night having a great time with another friend (their conversations were completely exclusive as well, so there was no way I could join in). He...

Am I being selfish? Or is my reluctance to share information with her due to her need to compete with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - Hi everybody, I am a nursing student soon to qualify and I have decided that I want to go down the route of medicine. I have researched the course and contacted the university. I have paid for the upcoming GAMSAT examination and started ...

I feel like I've rebuilt myself from the ground up and am ready to explore a new relationship. How do I convince friends and family not to worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I'm needing some advice on how to handle a new relationship situation which has honestly got me stumped. About 3 months ago I came out of an abusive long term gay relationship. The abuse was mostly emotional but there were tmes when it crossed ...

The more I talk to her the stronger my feelings grow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3558 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - a girl has come in my life and she is like my best friend.she said we can only be best friends and i respect that and dont have any problems with it. we been talking to each other over phone regularly for past couple of months. i can live as a fri...

Would you interpret this as he now just sees us as friends or still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi, my question is, how to interpret a text from a guy that has in the past said he definitely likes me. I texted him Happy Birthday and he texted back 'thank you my sweet friend :) xx I hope to see you soon'. Would you interpret this as he now ...

I really want her to feel appreciated and loved.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Ok. So my girlfriend went to stay with her best friend last week. They have been close for 5 years and it turns out last week he told ger that he was in love with her. We have been together for 7 years and when she came back there was a huge...

My looks turn people off. Why wont people give me a chance? I'm lonely and I need friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - My sad story here we go. My looks turn people off. I'm married have a child but want girlfriends to have coffee with. I'm not that ugly but look real young for my age and older people think I'm a kid and younger ones think I'm uncool. I dress ...

I'm gutted that my boyfriend canceled our getaway weekend and went out with friends instead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. Things have always been good. Recently we've both been busy with work but I've found I'm seeing my boyfriend less and less. He plays football for a local club and trains ...

We found out our close friends gave us a recycled gift as our wedding gift! Would you mention that you know to them?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm really annoyed about something and I can appreciate there are more important things to worry about but I do feel I've been taken for a fool. My fiance and I got married 2 months ago and because we already live together...

What's my problem? Why don't I make an effort to contact my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - frnds i dont know what is the problem with me.. i am sure a guy who thinks a lot. i have a hard time making friends. i am 22 and can say have no frnds and because i dont make an effort. i had friends in college but i never seem to connect with ...

He likes me! But am I over thinking? What if I do later change my mind about having children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hello dear cupid'ers! I'm head over heels in love and it's absolutely wonderful, this guy is officially the cats pyjamas. We have been in a relationship for around 9 months now, and we are looking at getting a place together. I know we make eac...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even ...

Did I miss the boat? Should I reply to his message brushing me off?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about this. I contacted a guy last night. I only met him once and it was a while ago. I had a night out with a friend and I met him then. I sent a friend request last night and sent him a message just asking if he remembered ...

My friends and family say he will cheat on me because he is in a band!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy Jake for a few months he is 25 and a singer in a band. He also works with a local contracting company. Most of my family and friends say that are relationship wont work because of his "free" behaviour and that he goes out...

I've fallen for my mate, but don't want to ruin the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I have strong feelings for my mate and he doesnt know and I don't know if he feels the same should I tell him yes or no if yes should I tell him over internet or face to face I don't want things to be awquard or weird and most of all I don't wanna ...

Should I confront her about why she deleted me from facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Small question.. Just finished college ive just noticed one of my friends from college has deleted me of Facebook, no idea why, we were quite good friends as far as I'm aware. I thought maybe it was because we had finished college and she felt she...

Am I flirting wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have never been good at flirting, first of all, but recently I don't know what has come over me with this new guy I know... It started with me and another girl getting him to promise to buy us ice cream because the weather was so hot. Then, a ...

Would it be okay to go out with a friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship of about 5 months, we were together previously. I have a friend who I haven't physically seen, just messaged since I reentered my relationship. My friend did admit he had feelings for me previously when i was single, but i ...

She's come back into my life, but she has a Bf. Should I tell her my feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 July 2014 (M) - Too make a long story short. A girl who ive really liked has come back into my life, I've liked her since 7th grade and that was 9 years ago. I'm a college junior now and a lot has changed from then, she is still amazing to me, when i first saw her ...

I've got back with my ex and its made my friend angry!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - Just a basic question. Is it fair for friends to get angry at you over decisions you make for yourself and your life? For example, recently, I got back together with an ex who I have been on again/off again with for quite some time. And as soo...

I am so fond of him, Does he not notice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3564 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I fancy this fella 25. We get on so well. I don't know if he fancies me. We hadn't since each other in a few weeks; when we met he said its hard to forget a pretty face. I was like thank you. He likes all my stuff on fb. But he would never ask ...

If you've had a platonic relationship between a woman and a man how did you manage to do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - I'm a 25 year old married woman who has trouble making friends. I don't relate to other women well, so I turn to men for friendship. It isn't a case of just having more in common with men, either. There is something I can't put my finger on bet...

When a guy holds your waist after hugging good bye

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - Wondering if this is a subtle hint that a guy may have feelings for me. We were with family and friends, and upon leaving this guy hugged me, I hugged him but very lightly...as I pulled away he moved his hand down to my one waist side and held his ...

Dating my landlord: is that a bad idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - Hello everyone! I just moved back to the city and found a flatshare in a great location, all bills included for 400. The tenants are wonderful and the landlord when I first met him was great. I am 23 and my landlord is 29 so quite young. Th...

Dating a month. So why is he saying he's afraid of being criticized by his friends if he loads a picture of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - He said it was because he was afraid of being critized with his friends. But i'm a pretty girl, and the friends he does upload (which are girls look similar to me. So I don't understand what the real problem is. We have been dating for a month, ...

She recently broke up with her Bf, so is it too early to as her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

22 July 2014 (M) - Hi, bit of a lengthy question here. About 2 years ago at college I ended up getting paired with this girl for a school project and ended up liking her, but at the time, she had a boyfriend so obviously I couldn't do anything about my feelings for ...

Do I just leave her alone? I wanted closure but she said she doesn't need it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Should I simply leave her alone? I have just finished college and I do not date at all but one day, I met a girl in the library and we quickly got along really well as new friends and we found out that we had so much in common. Over time, we st...

Is he telling friends those things because he knows I'm over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3566 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Therrs this guy who ive known for a year and its like...we made out alot and I used to have like a huge crush on him. I even told him. But there was a few times he has kissed me cheek, but there was this time where he kissed me for no reason out of ...

Experiences coping with Type 1 Diabetes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Does anyone have any experience of coping with Diabetes Type 1 - NOT type 2? My daughter is being really affected by getting Type 1 at the age of 24, very suddenly. She's highly intelligent and would benefit from a 'buddy' - even an online pen-pal ...

I'm married and have been chatting with a man for a year. We'll never meet so its harmless isnt it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Ok so where do I start. When I was on maternity, I spent long days in the house by myself. My husband has become rather un-attentive and has lost interest in most conversation. I was very lonely and restricted in money for doing activities...

Hopelessly devoted to the wrong men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3567 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Please help. My mind is not reliable nor my heart I met a guy thru a mutual friend and we just hit it off chemistry wise and spiritually. He also knew my ex-bf who has abusive and terrible to me. Some of what was helpful early on was his kindness...

Was he being polite or is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm just confused about a guy I met the other night, if he's interested or not I was out drinking and we met at the bar, talked for a bit but I felt like I was being awkward which is common for me, then at the end of the night we hugged goodby...

Should I ask if he slept with his female friend who is about to visit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) - Just starting a new relationship with a guy and it's going great. He has a female friend who he's been friends with for about four years, she lives abroad and they met online. She's coming over for a visit soon and I don't know what to feel. They ...

How do I handle this message from my very best friend, who was hurt by a misunderstanding!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) - Recently I have had a health scare. I work with my very best friend and she has told me I'm her best friend ever and she has never in her life had a friend that means as much to her as I do. She tells me all the time she loves me. So when I found ...

What needs to change so that girls want to go out with me and so that I can go on to develop a relationship with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

19 July 2014 (M) - Now this is probably going to sound a bit doom and gloom. But it's something I've put a large amount of time pondering over and I guess it's the "elephant in the room" for my life. I have used this site for many years now. Constantly posti...

Am I over reacting? My husband's been having outburts that make no sense. It this the start of domestic abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1784 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years, married for two of them. He is usually helpful, polite, funny and affectionate. In the last three years, there have been outbursts that made no sense. In the first one, he started an argument when we ...

What are some good ways to rekindle friendship with a friend from school, where we have lost touch with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hi I am thinking about contacting an old primary school 'best friend' she was brilliant, but when we moved onto high school (the same one) we made different friends and have gradually lost touch and not spoken for about 8 years. I really would ...

I'm older now so how and where should I meet this guy I used to talk to online? What's a way to make it safe and get to know him better in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hello everybody. Hope we are all well! A quick question really, if anyone is able to let me know their opinions? Right, I'll try and keep this as short as I can. Basically, a few years ago I did meet a guy online. We hit it off, yeah, bu...

Should I give it time to develop? I feel confused about my Online long distance friend. I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - Hi everyone Sorry, new to this site so not exactly sure how it works but I'll just ask away. Well basically I'm in a sort of confusing position with this girl who is my best friend. She's from Taiwan and we've been talking (online) for at ...

Is there any way to find out if she has feelings for me without making our friendship awkward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - I've known this girl Katie since I was 12 years old (she was 8). She was the younger sister to my best friend. As we got older the two of us became extremely close. We became best friend , hanging out every day after school, having sleep,overs with ...

Is my online friend right to be angry that I didn't ask him for money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - I have a great online friendship been going on about 18 months now, we are good friends have lots of chats and fun. Earlier this year I was out of work and he was very supportive of me cheering me up and just being there for me to chat when I was do...

They say I would have been rocked by a tree stump. Do they have a point?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - OK, I had sex with a new boyfriend recently. It was our first date and he took me to the highest heaven. My friends were not as impressed. They told me my reaction was based on circumstances and looks, ie it was my first time after 23 years of ...

My parents don't like one of the girls I've invited to a sleepover. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - So I want to have a sleepover with four friends (5including me) but my parents do not approve of one of my friends and say they don't want me to invite her. The problem is, not knowing my parents would object to her staying round, I told her my ...

He ignored my facebook request and now is staring at me at work. Awkward! What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm in an embarrassing situation! I recently started at a new job 5 weeks ago. Everybody's lovely but there are a large amount of staff that rotate, so you can often go weeks without working with certain members. Anyway I'm tryin...