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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the ...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2249 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Am I justified in feeling hurt or did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, Sorry for the long post, Thankyou to anyone who takes the time to read my story. I am in my late twenties and in a new relationship of 6 months with a man 2 years younger than me. He is the most amazing person I have ever met a...

He’s very affectionate towards everyone! Does this sound strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2276 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hi there I started seeing a guy around 3 months ago. One of the things i love about him.is that he is very very affectionate towards me. At gome and out in public. He sometimes says to be before we go out'can i kiss you a lot tonight in publi...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

Is he hiding something? Is he only trying to make me jealous that he has a girlfriend? Does he EVEN got back with her? What is he aiming for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2277 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - I've known this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday all day Mon stop. When we first met he was single, and then he started to flirt and trying to take it into a relationship. I don't want a relationship with anyone right now, and he knows it. ...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

How to deal with my two-faced work friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

26 January 2018 (M) - I have a friend, she’s around 8 years younger than me (24). She has always been very nice to me, though she is quite an intense person generally. She’s incredible career obsessed and focused. She recently moved to my department at work. I noticed ...

My boyfriend says he will break up with me if I move 150 miles away

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2255 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Iv been dating my boyfriend for a year and i love him so much. But i want to move in with my friend who lives 150 miles away and my boyfriend says if i do he will split up with me and look for someone else. So now i feel trapped because i dont want ...

How to get rid of a clingy yet toxic friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - I am a female student presently studying at a university where I met this other woman friend at a social gathering through some common friends.She was whining a lot about how she was not coping up at studies and with university life in general. Some ...

I can’t figure out what happened with him?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - So I was talking to this guy for like some months now. We found each other online though we already knew each other beforehand, we started talking in a dating manner only from like 4 months before... so i had never really met him after we started ...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

Is it normal to keep in touch with ex's now he's married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello My husband and I have been together for 11 months. Our relationship for the most part is very passionate and loving. We have had a few arguments but who doesn’t? Overall I love him a lot and want to spend my life with him There are a...

How can I find out her feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

16 January 2018 (M) - I have a female friend and have a crush on her from last three months. She is having a boyfriend and their marriage talks are going on. But its not confirmed as of now. While talking to her, it seems she is having interest in me.Maybe I am wrong, ...

My girlfriend wants to do a boudoir photo shoot, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

14 January 2018 (M) - First of all, this is the first time I'm posting stuff like this on the internet, so excuse whatever mistakes I make, but I have literally nobody else to give me a single different perspective on this matter. Here goes: I've been with this girl o...

He communicates okay, apart from when I suggest we hang out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2292 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a total of two months, we met on a dating app and have gone on one date since then, I even met his grandparents lol. At the very beginning he was eager-- calling, texting, you name it frequently and now after ...

HE wants to play games with his ex, but I am not sure about it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2292 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I started an LDR a week ago, we talk every day, everything is good. But he just got out of a 3months relationship ( his ex gf ended it..) Now, she's texting him, and he wants to go with it. wtich means he just wants to make fun of her and make...

My friend wont stop pestering me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2290 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Since mid December i decided to cut back on social media ( im not on it much ) i let my friends know i was having a break from it so they knew they wasnt being ignored. I really enjoyed having a break from it ive felt free and relaxed so this ...

I want to ensure my well being through this process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2295 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Seeing this guy who is older than I am. Very casual and open at first. It's been about three or four months and we both are kind of surprised we are still seeing each other, and that the relationship is progressing. I stay over a lot, we have the ...

Did I speak out of turn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2295 days ago

9 January 2018 (M) - Hello. My friend has a son and downplays his eating habits. It’s not serious according to her as it’s just a learning disability. He is 10 years old and only eats fast food, usually French fries, pastries or chicken tenders. I’ve seen this almost ...

The conversation will revolve around babies, should I suck it up and go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2291 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I am a happily married 37 yo childfree woman. Next sunday two friends of my hubby - invited us to lunch. His pals are both married, so we’re talking about lunch with two couples. One couple has a three year old very lively boy and another has just...

My best friend and the boy she knows I like ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - Hi,I really need help with this one... Okay so I suppose this issue started about 2 years ago, when I first this friend of mine, over time our friendship developed and he was someone I felt comfortable with. Then at the start of this year, I stupid...

I found my best friends sex tape online

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2289 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - This is unbelievable. There is a girl I’ve been friends with since we were two years old, and we are now 24. I recently found a video of her on a porn site (one of my friends who met her at a party sent me a link saying it looked like her). It 10...

I feel like the third wheel around my boyfriend and my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2295 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Hey all, I'm just looking for some advice on how to get a grip of my jealously and paranoia. My boyfriend and I have been official for two months now, when we started to date each other over the summer and at the beginning of our relationship we ...

My best friend seems to want to end our friendship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2295 days ago

7 January 2018 (M) - I've been friendly with my pal David for over 30 years. He drives a taxi for private hire for a living.I provide computer fixing services. A month ago, for the first time ever, he referred a customer of his to me who had a computer problem. The...

He's got a girlfriend, should I wait and see if it works out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2298 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Over 3 years ago, I met a guy in college who I began dating. We were both about 20. He is great and is a total sweetheart. We met and began dating in the summer 3 years ago. After our first date, he would always text and call, but was a little slow ...

Boyfriend wants to go away with his friends, not with me!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2272 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Lads holiday to Berlin when in a long term relationship of 5 years??? My boyfriend of 5 years and his friends want to go on a lads holiday after we finish our A level exams this summer. They are thinking of going to Berlin however, I’m rea...

I feel embarrassed and stupid about the party!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - My boyfriend invited me to his friends party. I don’t know too many of his friends but he really wanted me to go so I went. We got to the party and he sat across the table from me and talked to his friends and took shots with his friends while I sat ...

Did my friend hook me up with a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I am confused and need help to make up my mind and deal with my dented ego. A very good man friend hooked me up with his bestie. He knows us both very well. My friend is a very decent guy, he knows me since I was 11 and would not hook me up just ...

How do I enact new behaviours so my needs are not negated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I have a question about what to do regarding a specific behaviour by a friendly couple. I am thinking about this in a general context of re-evaluating my own behaviours within friendships (and relationships with men) because a consistent, recurring ...

Help me stand up for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2298 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - This is more of an etiquette question but it involves my two biggest pet peeves: ppl who CONSTANTLY talk to me when I'm reading and ppl who come over uninvited and help themselves to my food/chew up my time. It doesn't matter where I am, I co...