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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I think I'm in love with my "friend with benefits" and I'm so depressed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with someone I dated for a few months. We see each about once a week to hang out and have sex. I've become secretly very attached to him. I can't eat, I can't sleep and I feel so sad most of the time ...

I can't avoid him, I can't have him and I can't let anybody have him other than me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunt, I am 26 years old... and I can't think like it. My best friend is a guy(D). We love each other and it's quite deep and we are physically intimate. We can't marry cuz we both belong to different religions. So the heart of the ...

Opinions needed please... Should I just wait to see where things go? Or is this just a lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've known for around 2 months now. For around the first few weeks we got along reeeally good and flirted a lot. We have like exactly the same personality. Then for a few weeks after that he started distancing himself and not ...

I have a huge crush on my best friend's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I have this huge problem. Let's cut to the chase - I have a huge crush on my best friend's brother. My best friend has an older brother and I've known him for so many years, and I've never ever thought about him in a personal kind of way. He ...

I don't know what happened do you think he's just making excuses or did he mean what he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I really like and I thought he liked me too but I don't know what happened. We've been really good friends for about five years; one day we were hanging out and we were kissing then all of a sudden he's pulling away, saying he ...

I don't know how to snog...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 and the guy I like is 16 and I really want to meet up with him and I don't know what to do. It's going to be my first time to kiss someone and I don't know how to snog. Please can anyone help! plzsss... help me! I'll be looking for your ...

Is it necessary to set boundaries and categories for male friends?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - My confidence has been in the toilet for like longer than I can remember and have ran from almost every relationship I have come across because I want to be settled in my own life and fairly happy before I enter into anything with anyone.....

Why am I always more "enthusiastic"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I started going out with my first boyfriend 3 months ago. Im embarrassed because i always seem more enthusiastic when we're making out and i get excited kinda easily. Is this because i've never had a boyfriend but he's had three girlfriends? We've ...

After 3 years together, do you think we are drifting apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I can't help deciding what to do. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and over the last 3 months, things with us have not been great. we don't argue, but we don't talk either. I can't help but feel that we are driting apart. I went out...

It sounds like he likes me, but I'm not completely sure. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago,and I bumped into him last week. I went round his house, we were talking, and then we kissed. But I'm confused as to how he feels. We're not going out, but we're more than friends. He asked me why I was single, so I re...

Why don't boys reply to my texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Why don't boys reply to my texts? This is a commonly asked question at dear cupid and I understand it really isn't as important as a domestic violence question, but I feel it needs answering. Now this is just a personal opinion and if any guys ...

Follow up: Thoughts about going to and working in Spain

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - My heart is breaking a little, but I'm not in love with a man, but in love with another culture and another country. I would like to know if any of you have heard of someone like me (a North American with no European roots) who was able to live...

Needs translation: what is he getting at here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - If a guy from my work and I were emailing and he told me he had wonders what it would be like to kiss me, does that mean he wants to? He asks me if I thought his wondering was wrong. What is he getting at? ...

How to flirt someone in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone I see a lot of Caucasian girls in Bangkok especially in the shopping mall. some of them look cute and I really want to start talking to them. But the problems are that someone comes with their parents and I'm afraid to talk to them beca...

He said, "I want to make love to you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - A few days ago, for the first time, I got naked with the guy who I was seeing. He got really horny and whispered, "I want to make love to you." I thought he was just horny so I didn't respond to it. 30 minutes later, he asked me if I wanted to make ...

If I ship out I'm gonna lose her but if I stay I can't have her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I have a friend and she is great. She makes me happy just to be around her. She knows exactly how to make me smile. We work in the same store and she is a manager now and I'm a regular employee. She used to be a specialist wich means when the ...

I have a crush on my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now, and I think I have been in love with his best friend for almost three years. It's so hard to explain, but I met his best friend a few months after my bf and I started dating and for some ...

How can I be with her in the position I'm in? We are really great friends and yet I'm in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I have a friend she is great. She makes me happy just to be around her. Sshe knows exactly how to make me smile. We work in the same store and she is a manager now and I'm a regular employee. She used to be a specialist which means when the managers ...

Follow up: It's all so confusing for me part 2

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - This is a follow up to a question I put on here on the 17 April under the title. "It's all so confusing for me" http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-all-so-confusing-for-me.html. Since the post I have made things worse I went and got drunk and ...

Do white girls like tanned-Dominican boys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - ok, I'm a Hispanic dude, born in the US to Dominican parents, but I do not consider myself Dominican at all. I do not behave like your average Dominican and I definitely do not talk or write like your average Dominican. You see, that I do not c...

In love - long distance relationship she's not... maybe...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (?) - When you're in love with someone and know they're not in love with you, what do you do then? I've fallen for her..(we are in a non commited long distance relationship). I fell in love with her over the years of knowing her but I know she is not ...

I told her how I felt, and she is shocked. Any advice?

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19 April 2009 (M) - I often go to the same region of Spain for holidays,i know people there,2 years ago i met an amazing English lady there, we embark on a mad 6 months relationship,it moved very fast,then suddenly without any warning she ended it,said it had no futu...

She is giving me mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I think I am getting mixed signals, or she is playing games with me. Well, there is a girl in my Clinical Psychology class who sits right next to me, she seems to give signs that she might be interested in me; such as she always leans in to whis...

Did I just lose my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Me and this guy had been talking for about 4 months now, almost everyday on the phone. I told him i liked him, something he already knew. He always told me he liked me but since i am scared of love and commitment i never responded. One day i told...

Could he just appear in to my class to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a crush on this guy for 3 years. The other day my crush came through the door of my last class. Everyone started yelling "Oowww, Nancy!" He just smiled at me. I was just trying to hide myself and tried to tell them to shut up but i wa...

My new b/f is talking too seriously too quickly...how do I put a stop to this before I get too scared?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for almost three years and for most of the time I knew him he was pretty much only interested in hooking up with girls or having really short relationships that were based purely on sex and as his friend, and only his ...

I don't know if I love him, but I cant get over him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, because my family moved to QLD. After we broke up, my ex slept with a few girls, and messed with my head, and treated me horribly. A few weeks ago, I moved back to Adelaide, And I hate to admit it...

My g/f and I often broke up. Is it over this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - well my gf and i broke up....again and well she broke up with me like usual and i think were really over. and we broke up cause we fight to much and stuff and we break up a lot and she always comes back and i let her. but not this time shes h...

How do I make him see that the girl he's been waiting for may be me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - So there is this guy who I met the other day, and he is.... perfect. I don't know what else to say. I really like him. But there is a problem, he doesn't seem to care about me at all. We were hanging out in the park with a few other friends an...

Why is he coming in my dream constantly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - This boy from my class who I know constantly appears in my dream, one day after the other, ok I fancied him once upon a time and then it ended up dragging to about 5 years liking him on and off but why now? Why is he coming in my dream constantly? ...