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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...

I secretly fancy this woman at work...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I secretly fancy this woman at work. Problem is I don't know if she is interested in women. I am planning to leave my job next month and also want to express my feelings to her but don't know how. She could be married or have a boyfriend. I am a ...

Profile says looking for friendship. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and i live apart but been together nearly 3 yrs she is on facebook and has commented on her profile she is looking for friendship what does she mean...

I know the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but I have no confidence!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - im 15-19 years old ive always had a confidence problem when it comes to girls and i dont really know why.. i have loads of good friends that are girls and its fine in terms of that but when i start to like a girl it all completely cahnges..and i d...

I'm very attractive and always being hit on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i am a very actrive female and all my friends boyfriends and husbands try to hit on me. I dont come around and that is the reason. It makes me feel good that i am beautiful, but i dont like the people who i get it from. I have modeled some in the ...

Boyfriend putting her above us and its bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem right now with my boyfriend and any help would be appreciated. So we've been dating for almost 4 months and we live about 40 minutes away from each other. Now, we're not used to seeing each other every day but us...

What do guys consider a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down...

Does this girl like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Well theres a girl who ive been really really good friends with for years....we got so close we started calling each other brother and sister two years ago because we didnt really think about each other in that way... but on Australia Day this year ...

A question from my friend: Is he worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm very concerned for my friend right now. She had called me earlier today in tears. When I asked her what was wrong she only replied that she's so confused. Her boyfriend had broken up with her today, but he gave her the option of getting back ...

He asked for a bj and I want to make him happy but should I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i have a really great guy friend. we work together, at times hang out. i was in a 2 year relationship but that ended a year ago, and since then i've met a few guys and dated, but nothing serious; my friend is a virgin and lives with his mom, he is a ...

Why won't he tell me about his female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - This guy has confused me. We started off as friends. We get along really well together. He is the most caring man I ever met. Gradually, I felt I could see a possibility of a future with him. We are together almost like 24x7, except that we don't ...

I push him away yet he keeps coming back for more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi. so there's this boy that i think likes me. i am of course one of the more 'agressive' girls at my school and wont take anything from anyone! so whenever he messes with my friends or me i will go up and punch him. :) and he doesnt really care, ...

Why is he only showing interest after I gave up and settled for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - 6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date ...

He likes me, he loves me, but does he REALLY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Me and my friend have been getting closer lately. He's told me he likes me and i like him. he has been wanting me to kiss him and hes told me he wants to have sex with me. but he only tells me he wants to screw me, when hes drunk. but hes always ...

I'm not sure if I am being played or he is just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Okay, so there is a guy, and we have been friends for over half a year now, we talk online A LOT and in school. I catch him staring at me sometimes, trying to catch my attention and he often jumps into conversations I am having with other people. ...

I want to share a place with someone but not a boyfriend or my parents... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I was diagnosed with the mental illness (bipolar) over a year ago when I was 21, now you're probably looking at this and thinking then you deserve to be alone but what's a plan for not living alone that doesn't include my parents as life partners? ...

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...

My comfort eating...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Well the thing is I'm 12 stone and in my early teens and I have really big issues with my weight! I have fake friends (basically 2 faced but to the extreme and one of them is my cousin) and they used to like me but I went depressed and they were ...

Be silent and keep her or speak up and lose her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* We were classmates in kindergarten then she transferred to another school in grade school.. in highschool we were classmates again up until 2nd year.. then she transferred again to another city. we lost contact for 10 years and then...

Manipulative best friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - my best friend i say loosely...her mother introduced me to her brother behind her back...and when we were introduced we hit it off right away...then she began telling him stuff like ..don't get into an arguement with her or she will scream and go ...

Has too much happened for us to have a chance of making it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I can't believe this happened the way it did but here goes. I went to a party with a girl I have been trying to get interested in me for weeks. She got extrememly drunk and she passed out. I took her to my place and she kinda woke up a little ...

My friend is planning on breaking up with her and I am besotted with her! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - ok, so I'm a bit confused romantically right now, I'm currently single, but my best friend has been dating this girl for a few weeks now. I find her completely beautiful both physically and mentally. He however does not feel the same way about her ...

Should I go for it despite being unsure if he is gay or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hello, I am in love with my best friend but he's been in many straight relationships but after looking at everything I think he's gay too but it's against his religon! Well my best friend that was a really nice person that always helped me and wh...

Her actions suggest one thing, her words another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - There is a girl in my college..and we are best friends she lets me hold hands and is really comfortable with it.. she just broke up 6 months ago.She says that I am better than her ex.. but when i ask her out she says dat she doesn't love me.. s...

She says she cant have a relationship coz he ex is stalking her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I met this girl through playing tennis. We were just friends at first. She gives me her number. We speak regularly on the phone, text, e mail etc. Eventually we go on a date. It goes well. There is flirting from both of us, she tells me she ...

I'd like her as a friend but worry she will reject me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hi. A few months ago I started working with this group of temp workers. We do activities after work and stuff, all in group. A few months ago, I started liking this girl; I thought she likes me because she used to look at me and other signs. A month ...

Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I’m sorry that this is going to be a really long story, but I wasn’t sure what was important or not (‘’,). Well there's this guy at uni (A) which I met a few months ago, but recently I'd say we have become really close friends. Then on...

Should I have my friend tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok so I like this guy alot! One of my best friends is friends with him so do I tell my friend I like him or not?...

How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some ...

Unrequited love.... I now realize she was my first love, should I write this letter to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - unrequited love My flat mate and me fell for each other at uni three years ago. We had lived together for two years and just got on fantastically well, however despite her being a reasonably attractive girl I must admit that I didn't find her sexu...

My friend told me I have a "flatty batty" and now I feel totally insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I have some really close friends, but i always feel insecure about myself. I have small boobs compared to most of my friends, there all like b's-e's, and i feel really left out cos im an a. Also one of my close close friends, who is ALWAYS there for ...

Should I just keep acting this way until I never see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My best buddy he has always been very nice to me at school. He's always nice to me on the bus. I really didnt talk to him much today and always act like myself when hes around. I always sit in front of him on the bus and he always puts his arms over ...

Friends with benefits, how do I find out if he wants more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok two years ago after I broke up with my BF I met a guy who I talked to for a little bit but decided to make it a sex only relationship because I didn't want more. It worked out well. We had sex for like 4 months then I got back with my BF. A year ...

I get so attached to guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I get so attached to guys. If I have a drunken kiss, or even just a nice conversation or flirt with a guy, I immediatyly start liking them. I really hate it. For example, I met a really nice on Friday night, he was obviously interested in me, ...

How likely is it that the sperm live? And when do I test for pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Right so, I need some advice. First of all I want you to know that I'm actually 17 and still have a year left in school. Recently I had sex with one of my best guy friends who I have been in love with for about a year. He has told me not to tell a...

Is this too much to overcome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Ok, I'll apologize in advance for the length that I'm assuming this post will be, but I've got a complex situation that I'm hoping to get some input on. Here it goes... I have a crush on a very close friend, but I have convinced myself that the ...

How do you know when an ex truly wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - How do you know when an ex really Wants to be friends? We have been talking regularly and she always says yes to hanging out. She mentioned in the past It was her intention, and now a week later says right now were just friends. I did tell her I ...

I want to hook up with my long-distance friend, but we're both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend... but i am in love with another guy who lives across the country from me who also has a girlfriend. Well i am heading to where he lives to see my family and him. He is one of my best friends in the whole world. And i was ...

I feel second-best to his best friend and am worried she'll take him away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - For three years before he met me my boyfriend was in love with his best friend. She didn't feel the same way. He told me about her early on in the relationship, and said they had sorted things out between them and he didn't have feelings for her ...

Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be....

My crush is crushing on the class crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am in love with this pretty girl in my class. We've known each other for a year and hung out together a couple of times. Unfortunately, there's one of these smooth-talking politician types who is always telling jokes and acting fake. He already ...

Friendship, love... I'm getting confused here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I have asked for help previously and got some pretty good advice so I thought I'd try again. I think I made a terrible mistake last night and want to know what I can do to fix it. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend an...

I really like her, but I'd like to be her friend in the process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I like this beautiful girl! The thing is I feel she is out of my league. The thing is we used to talk a bit at school but that stoped. So last week she comes and sits next to me. So we start talking and I say I would help you if I ...

I want to move to a better life, but I don't want to lose everyone I know

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - **for the last several months my sister and i have been planning to move to north carolina, the plan was she was leaving in july with her husband and kids and i was going in december. i was very excited to leave and start a new life, away from all ...

Feelings for my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - have you ever had a problem that you have drivin yourself crazy over but just couldnt figure it out? well thats pretty much what i have here. i have a best friend that ive had feelings for over the past two years. she is one of the greatest girls ...

Would you tell him with words or body language if you didn't like the increase physical affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Girls, if you had a male best friend who admitted he liked you but you felt you wasn't ready for a relationship (for any reason but for example because you've been hurt in the past), how would you react if your male best friend gradually started to ...

love my best friend who I also live with..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I know there are a million people who have been through this but right now I feel like I'm the only one. I have a great job and live in a great city. I broke up with my ex girlfriend over 9 months ago now. My problem is I'm in love with my b...

Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...

Looking for no strings attached sex with a friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have a question for everyone out there. i have a friend who i have known for about 5yrs she is quite attractive but i've never seen her as more than just a friend, until recently. the thing is i have never had sex or fooled around with a girl ...

Should I just hold her and go for it and kiss her on the lips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have been best friends with a girl for 12 years (we are both 26 and I'm male). We have always been close and despite what people thought, we always said we were just "best friends". During this time I was not aware she was suffering from v...