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36-40,
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writes:Hey I'm a married woman, I love my husband so much and I don't wanna lose him, but I think I'm in love with someone else, I met this boy on facebook and we talk so much to each other, but I never met him in person, only speak on the phone and I'm going crazy over him, but don't wanna lose him either. Can you help me please or tell me the best way I should go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): If someone asked you: "do you want to jeapordize your marraige?"
what would you say?
If you would say no, then let the other guy go and forget it!
If you would say yes... then that's really weird.. lol
But lemme say if your age is what you really say it is, then you have a loooooooong way to go in life with this marriage and if you're already to the point of not being sure what you want, then i think you should take a long, hard look at whether or not you REALLY want to be with your husband and if you think you can be loyal to him, emotionally and physically forever and ever. If you don't think you can, then the longer you drag him along for your ride, the more of his life you take away from him, and the deeper the break in his heart will be by the end of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): you cannot have both, such is life.
if your hubby finds out about your other man, you will be dunzo. is this what you want.
if you want this other man, you have to "release" your hubby.
simple things in life, please do not complicate it. you are just too young to mess your life. and mess it you will.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 you love your husband, let the other guy go, just be friends. never leave the one you love for the one u like because the one you love will leave you for the one they love. dont jeperadize a life long commitment to be with someone you have never met. ppl can be anything on the internet and the phone. try just being friends bc you obviously dont want to loose your husband.
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