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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is he warming to me and how can I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I met a cute guy in some of the fitness classes at the gym, and am starting to like him. He seems shy, so I sent him a fb friend request (2 mutual friends) in November and he accepted. I started trying to interact with him after that, but did no...

How do I assert myself without alienating those I care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - How do you stand up to somebody you love? I've always had problems with sticking up for myself. I've only ever done it once and it ended my friendship of four years with my ex bestfriend. How do I stand up to somebody like my parents or boyfr...

My best friend has been ignoring me and I suspect his girlfriend is behind it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I've been best friends with a guy for the past 6 years. We don't see each other very often anymore because we're in college, but whenever we're home we make a point to meet up, and we visit each others' colleges occasionally. Our friendship has ...

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class fe...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

I trust him but I don't trust his really attractive female friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship and although we've not been together for very long i love him,but i feel myself getting jealous of other girls already. It all started when he told me about his "good friend", that's like a sister to him. At the time i d...

I ended things but now I'm totally in love with him and I think he's moving on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hello, I really need your help. I’ll start by telling you the situation. You’re in for a long one so sit back. About a year and a half ago I met this guy; I’ll call him Josh, at my tennis club. I didn’t know him very well at all, but straight awa...

I just want him to love and care about me but he never shows any emotion

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I'll try and explain this as simple as I can :) Right, am 29 years of age and when I was a little girl, I had a best friend who is a boy and we where the best of friends since the age of 6 up until we where 13, we had sleep overs, we where best fri...

What are my options? This guy is starting to scare me, but he's a relative of my coworker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - okay so earlier this semester I moved into an apartment with a friend who lives in the dorms with me and also her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend. all of us are really busy with school and work and all three of them are going to be gone until sc...

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

Am I being too hard on my friend? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Happy holidays everyone! Hope all of you are doing well and enjoying this time of year. I recently found myself in a place where I am angry at one of my dear friends, “H”. Now there have always have been little things that irritate me abou...

Am I jealous? Or am I being disrespected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Okay, i'm not really used to girs being all flirty because my previous relationships didn't have any sort of problems with girls. But this relationship i'm in now all we seem to fight about is this topic. He says "you never want me to talk to any ...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by ...

Is she messing with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Hi, I have been in a long term relationship for years. A few months ago, a girl started working the same place as me. She's also in a relationship. We get on like best friends, we've told each other almost everything, some things we were too uns...

She's into me one week then ignores me the next week. Why so many mood swings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My partner exhibits some peculiar behavior that I find rather frustrating and hard to figure out. We have a great time together for the most part, and I really value her companionship and our overall relationship. At the same time, she goes off...

He's nice and he's flirty. But is he really just a player ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I've been speaking to this guy for a while on snapchat, he used to live nearby but has moved away (apparently only for a year but I am unsure). I never knew him when he lived here but we went to the same school. I just never seen him as he was a ...

He didn't invite me to show his friend around the city. Was I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - So my bf has a friend coming over from California. We live in Texas and this guy came yesterday. I live by myself and I know the lonely times sometimes are just annoying me. Anyway my bf told me today that he will come and his friend to my place to ...

I like her, but want to move on. How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Hi, I'm currently seeing this girl who I've been speaking to for a few months now. We aren't in a relationship but just speaking and seeing each other. We partially speak every day and see each other at least every week. Problem is, she is s...

Why is it considered wrong to just want to date or just crush on people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I have this problem where I had crushes on boys before and I always look forward to dating and having boyfriend until I actually got one. he wasn't a bad guy he did nothing to hurt me but he was sort of laughing a lot and kind of mock me by sayin...

My ex is calling me a whore and a liar. It bothers me! Would anyone else feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I'm in a bad situation and I don't know what to do about it. Apologies if this quite a long question. I can't really talk to my family because they all have quite decent lives and I feel like a bit of a black sheep. Anyway I've been seeing m...

Our plans to make friends are attracting the wrong people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - hello dear Cupid my problem is this I just recently graduated from high school and I saved up some money so that I can move in with a friend. we both moved to a college town and we plan to take one year of just working so we can find ourselves ...

Falling for guy in long term relationship - don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am falling for a male friend who is in a long term relationship. We met through work (at a social event- we don't work together so that isn't an issue) and have developed a connection which at first I brushed off, knowing he had a girlfriend. We ...

I feel very alone with no social life and no friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Hi dearcupids, I am 24 yr unemployed, single, postgraduate girl. I had many friends in college and highschool. But all of them are either married and moved to another city, or some of them got a job and moved to another city. I am facing the problem ...

My online friend always manages to bring sex toy talk into the conversation. Its beginning to make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I recently joined an online dating forum and have been chatting to a few people including new female friends which is great. The options on the forum in terms of what members are looking for are as follows: Serious relationship, fr...

My friends uninvited me for Christmas!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I live alone and I decided to invite a couple (who are friends) to dinner on Christmas Eve. She accepted the invitation and said why didn't I have lunch with them on Christmas Day. I was pleased as I am often alone at Christmas. A few days later ...

Boyfriend's "catching" up with an old female friend is starting to bother me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time communicating with an old female friend from high school. Now we have been together for a little over 4 years, so we have a lot of trust in each other, but I feel as if this is wrong of him. I'll tel...

How can I help my bestfriend? I think her Bf is behaving like text book beginnings of a domestic abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - I'm extremely worried about my best friend and her new "boyfriend." This may get complicated without names so for confusion sake's, my best friend will be A. Her ex will be D and her current boyfriend will be L. I have been best friends with ...

He doesn't seem bothered. Yet my friend's lifetime dream has been shattered. How can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - I've been keeping touch with an old friend of mine from school who left early because he found an opportunity to pursue an artistic direction, something he had always wanted to do. He's not the type who talks much, and I've often misinterpreted w...

Should I step back or crack on and see how we go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been seeing my ex for about 3 months now after splitting up in 2008. It was me that ended the relationship as I felt we'd grown apart and wanted different things out of life. We got chatting a good few months ago whilst in th...

Am I a sexual interest or a potential friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

19 December 2015 (M) - There is this married young lady who quite recently joined our workforce. From the first day she's been very friendly with me. I only work some of the day there as I go out every day to other places to do work. When I am in the area with her, our ...

With a great partner but I'm tempted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi - I met my boyfriend 2 and a half years ago during the first week of university and we've been together since. He's one of the kindest people I've ever met and is also funny ect. Honestly he makes me so happy and loves me completely, which I ...

Men only want me for sex and my friends only call when they need something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Sorry for ranting I'm in my late 30's, had 2 long term relationship. Ex bf wanted to marry a hot girl after being with me for 5 years. Ex husband is so clingy and jealous and emotions and physical abuser, had to end it. Little...

Years ago a guy was found not guilty of harming me. It divided the community. Does it matter that I get few birthday cards now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - I've gotten in to a massive argument with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. A few years ago I was raped and it went to trial but the guy was found not guilty. I live in a really small town and the man who did it was my best friends boyf...

I feel weirded out by my housemate's iciness and then occasional familiarity. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - So my housemate is gay and so am I. He asked to move in after we went on a tinder date. I'm starting to think he went on the date more because he wanted to move into my desirable apartment in an area he liked (but wasnt up front about it), and the ...

Any chance of fixing something this broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a girl over the summer as we were living in the same university halls, we got on really well and connected instantly. we spoke everyday and she even mentioned that it took me ages to reply. we met up when we both had moved in...

Considering our long standing connection, chemistry and flirtationship why has he put me on the back burner now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - So there is this guy I've been having a "flirtationship" with since the tenth grade now gone into my senior year of high school the chemistry and attraction between himself and I is undeniable from kisses, hugs and conversations we share. We jus...

Fed up of being the one to make the situation better. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - Hi, im 17 year old girl who has split from my boyfriend 8 months now, we ended it on good terms as we thought it was best. This has not been the case, at first he was pleasant and understanding; and then he started to act cocky and made comments...

What are signs that someone likes you? I think he likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm not an innately sexual person or someone who displays feelings well. I've never asked out anybody that I've really fancied for fear of reje...

She said sorry about the 3 way kiss, but what should I do? I'm pretty angry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - My girlfriend who I love a lot was out the other night with me and was really drunk and did a threeway kiss with her friend who was a girl and the friends boyfriend. what should i do? she has said sorry and is upset but what should I do im pretty ...

Am I right to be upset about this skinny shaming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - OK, I have a gay male friend who to me seems obsessed with my weight/body. I m female, a size 8 weigh 57kgs and i m 169cm. According to my doctor i m in excellent health and the right weight etc for my BMI (Body Mass Index). I ve never had an...

Will this be a repeat of last time? Am I the easy option after his last split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm hoping you can help. I split with my ex in 2008 after 6 years together. We didn't live together or anything and had no kids between us...just children then from previous relationships. We got together quite soon after my marri...

What can I do or say the next time I start seeing someone without upsetting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice. I have a friend that doesn't seem to want me to be with anybody, she is 20 and I'll be 20 in a month. We've been friends from being 14years old. She has always been like this and I have never known why. She's always bee...

Might it be possible for him to be friends with me again? Or did my cousin say something to upset him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So in July of 2013 I started working at this new place. And well I became friends with one of my co-workers. He had a family (girlfriend, and 2 kids with a 3rd on the way) well I fell for him. And he knew I liked him. I ended up losing my virgin...

Is it best to end my relationship now? Or does he just need time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He's my best friend and we had plans to buy a house together in 2016. He's been very hot and cold on the subject and I find myself worrying about our relationship more and more. He's promised me ...

Why do people feel the need to try to set me up with guys I'm not interested in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - This happens to me constantly, and it always puts me in an awkward position. I am almost never interested in the guy they've chosen for me, and then I feel guilty a.) because I feel I'm disappointing the friend who is doing the setting up, and b.) ...

I feel like I'm her 2nd option. Is it time to end this friendship? Sick of her letting me down.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I am so frustrated with my friend because whenever we make plans to meet up or go out she always cancels last minute and its beginning to really annoy me! For example we had dinner plans the other week. I went to the restaurant and got us a tab...

I am worried that raising this issue will ruin my friendship with my friend. But do I confront her about my concerns?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - My friend and her fiancé came to visit me at home yesterday. Her fiancé used our toilet which is upstairs (our house only has 1 toilet). He was in there a while and when he came back down he started asking me if I know where he could buy a Ferrari ...