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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Friends afraid I'll put boyfriend before them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok i am 15 and i've been dating my boyfriend 4 3 months now and he took my virginity about 4 days ago now that is not my problem my problem is now my friends think i am going to change and they say im not going 2 b around them as much they think ...

I'm being patient but he's still hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so here is my problem. I hung out with this guy who we both connected on an unbelievable level. I know for absolute fact he is in to me so this is not a question of that. We where so in to each other that even though it was our first time out ...

Happy New Year to all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Happy New Year to all those who post on here, aunts or otherwise. May this year bring us all love, luck and happiness, and if not then enough alcohol so we don't care :)))))). Love and blessings to you all, Deema....

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep...

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

Candy cane fun and worries.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now ...

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going ...

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years ...

Could she be lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hey well im a guy and im just here cause im concerned my gf is lying to me and i need help.. theres this guy that was her friend she denies it saying she hated him! and couldnt stand him..i saw her photobucket and she has pictures of him and her ...

Is this friendship in dangerous waters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am a married woman who has been experiencing some turmoils in my relationship. I met this single man through work and we had an instant connection. He has been a wonderful listener of all my problems and I sense a strong interest from his side ...

Can I say we are in a relationship already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been having a long distance friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a business delivery I made. He's military so he left soon after that. The weird part is that we met only 2 times but a click happened there. Since that meeting we've be...

Does he want nothing more than friendship or...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with my best friend. His friendship means everything to me. We talked about us being together several times however he says he does not want to mess up what we have together. He thinks he is not good at relationships ... I kinda agree ...

Thank you for all the advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - just like to say a big thank you to all the aunts and uncles who have given me good advice,bad advice,labelled me even accused me in the years i have written my problems.as 2008 draws to a close and its been a horrible year in ever aspect of my ...

Shes chasing me but she has a boyfriend and I feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a ...

He just wants to be friends so why does he still want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - ive been with boyfriend for 10 yrs have a child which shes 6 now and he recently broke up because ive made mistake and he can forgive but not forget hes made alot more mistakes than i have anyway he says he doesnt want anymore relationships just ...

Does this make sense to anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - WOW. It's finally happened for me and my man. At last we have connected. He final found away through. Here is how it happened. He told me he could no longer continue in the realtionship because I had no heart to give. We had a massive row but ...

Am I doing the right thing by giving her some space? Why do you think she freaked and backed off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I've met this 18 year old girl she's quiet, pretty, cute, and shy. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she's an innocent girl. I’m 18 and I like her, she's something different and special to me, but the problem is she is a challenge. I’ve ...

I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help? I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up...

I'm not ready to talk sex yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they ...

How do I deal with my difficult friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really ...

Straight girl fancies her gay male friend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a straight girl who fancies her male gay best friend. I've known him for 3 months and he told me he was gay from the start. We clicked from the start and we have great chemistry. Initially I tried to set him up with dates with some other gay ...

Weird after I love you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Hey all, just looking for a bit of advice and help to understand my girlfriend really, sorry if it's long. Anyways I met this girl at uni, start of September and we hit it off straight away she really is spot on and we have so much fun togethe...

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...

My friend likes my girlfriend and she likes him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I'm with this girl there for the past 6 weeks and for the past 2 days things haven't been going that good!! she likes my friend and my friend likes her too! They were supposed to meet each other before we got with each other but it never hapened! ...

It's all very tense between us now and I don't know what to do about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Ok... I started talking to this guy off of a social networking site. We exchanged numbers, and started talking. We talked all day, every day. I loved our conversations. Some how emotions got involved before we even met each other. So, he went away ...

He seems keen one day then he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I need some help bad!!! ugh i hate it when you REALLY like someone that has NO interest in u at alllll!!! i really like this guy ****** and he is so cute, funny, nice, and sweet. I love to be around him and i could be on the phone with him all ...

I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - This may seem shallow, but I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me, when I'm with her they make comments for a joke, I'm not sure whether actually dating het would make them mock me even more.. Should I follow my ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

Do I stay with her or do I run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - There's this amazing girl, mind blowing girl that I have fallen for. I was her first love and she was mine, without going into detail, she now has a boyfriend who she loves and I'm back out of the blue. She has admitted that she loves me and can...

Shall I find a hotel so we could be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm 16 and I truly love this girl, she lives 3 hours away from were I live, however she lives close to my college. I sometimes go round hers now and then, we have made love many a times. I want to take the next step. What shall I do? ...

She has been cutting me off from everyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hey, well as it is coming to the end of 2008, i have been thinking back, and someone asked me 'who is the best new person you have met this year?' and then it hit me. i have met no one new, let alone the best one. and i have lost alot of people, and ...

Am I destined for permanent fuck buddy status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I have had literally enough boyfriends to equal my age. Its really depressing because no matter who I date (older or yonger, race, religion, whatever)every guy I've ever dated only looks at me as a fuck buddy. I recently...

Does my ex still like me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - On Christmas Eve I was driving back home and saw an ex getting out of his car near my local supermarket (I'd not seen him for 5 months). We both waved and I must admit I got a few butterflies in my tummy because I still hold a torch for him even ...

Shes mad and not speaking to me because she couldn't get in the club

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - ive been best mates with a girl for 5 years recently on a night out she didnt get into the club i got in and bouncer wudnt let anymore people in. i tried everything to speak to bouncer to get her in.. now shes annoyed with me and putting me o...

How do I tell my dad my crush has asked me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Okay im a 14 year old girl and my crush asked be out two days ago. Were together now. I don't know how to tell my dad about it ( I would rather tell him than my mom). I think he would be alright with it but im really nervous. How should i tell ...

What's my sexual orientation? Am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - ok, so since last year i met this chick who is like around her 20s and we 've been talking on msn ever since. but a few months when i first met her, i noticed tat i wait for her to come online and when she does, sometimes she doesnt talk to me so i ...

One boy always on my mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I fancy this boy and I think he fancies me and I am meeting him on Saturday at a football game. I really want to kiss him, shall I ask him if he will kiss me or just wait? Please help anyone please x...

First timer... Does it really hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...

She is so shy so how can I tell if she likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hello, ok I'll explain my situation, there's this girl I know, she's really cute and well she's fun to talk to, and I don't know how to tell if she likes me because, she's painfully shy, the only guy I KNOW she thinks is cute is Edward Mccullen. ...

Am I overreacting!! Help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I just dont know where to start!! I am going insane lately and dont know if its me or what? I dont even know why I am doing this but I need some views!! I met this guy last year over the net was a tad dubious at the start as there is a 22 year age...

How do I go on? Do I continue to date him? Do I end it? What do I do next time he phones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am in a VERY CONFUSING situation right now with an incident that happened recently. I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months, we have been on about 10 dates but never declared ourselves exclusive or anything. I've had sex with him 6 times an...

I'm a loyal, helping, trustworthy person but my girlfriends don't appreciate this, why does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate your HONEST opinion about something that's been plagueing me for many years now. I really would like to know why this continues happening to me time and time again. A shy, quiet girl at school who was s...

Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...

Why do we stare at each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi, i have a male friend who i talk to everyday on msn, however we do not live near each other. we can talk for hours on end whether it is a video call, by phone or just via msn. We use our cam's a lot wen on msn and recently we just stop talking ...

He won't go out with me because our brother & sister are dating each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - i have a really good friend and he is a boy. he says he really likes me ... and i really like him.. but he wont go out with me because his brother and my sister are going out .. i cant get over him because i have liked him for 3/4 years. what sho...

He keeps saying would you do me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - right.. i have some friends and they have a brother and he keeps flirting with me and when we talk he asks me things like "would you do me?" and i don't know what to do, because i am only 13 and he is 16. he keeps asking me the same question...

I want to meet him, do you think I should?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, I wrote in earlier this year (few months/weeks back) to ask for peoples opinions of whether or not i should meet this incredible man from belfast. I am 17, and i live in glasgow. He thinks i am 21 however, but we really do get on great, w...

How to make friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Ok so I've been so very lonely for the past 5 years because since 2003 I still don't have a single friend.. I do have many friends back in China but when I come here in Ireland things change.. I don't know what's the problem.. I dont want to be a ...

She's always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does this mean she just thinks of me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I am soon going to stay around a girl's house for four days, we have talk about sexual activities. And every day I take a picture of her and wank over her. ...

If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend? I'm not talking sexy negligee or lingerie, I'm talking flannel matching top and bottom pajamas. Don't get me wrong, sh...