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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm still bothered by my girlfriend sleeping with a former friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I know what a pain it is to read long questions. But I really need help from some mature smart people! So… I met my girl, we were 22 finishing school, dated a few months, broke up, we stayed friends; started seeing each other again casually i...

What to make of this madness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I was recently a part of a indirect matchmaking. A great friend of mine introduced me to her friend. It was kind of awkward because there was a lot of pressure from friends for us to be together and to advance faster than both of us were ready. We ...

I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me...

I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...

How can I not freak out when we go to these parties and see so many naked/almost naked girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I know problems like this must have been asked like a thousand times before, so I apologize. I'm in college and next week is the university's anniversary, so a lot of activities and competitions will take place. A lot of parties, etc. And there i...

But I love her and want to be sexually with her. How can I make her understand that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - When I was 17 I was living a wild life, drinking, drugs and lots of sex. After my parents kicked me out I moved in with my uncle, got into a good drug program and joined a church group and took a purity pledge. I have dated girls since but never ...

I feel like a sinner and I don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I feel so so dirty! A man on here helped me with one of my problems and we got chatting and he said he'd help me with any other problems. Anyway he started talking sexually and I did too cos I was so unbelievably horny but now I feel so dirty and ...

I'm afraid I hurt his feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hey, there is this boy I've liked 4 ages and we used 2 be quite close. I still see him often and the other week, my friend asked him if he'd go out with me. The thing is, we were surrounded by people and I'm really shy so before he could answer I ...

Is it weird to fancy someone so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - In a nut shell was with a guy for 3 years, he treated me like shit, you name it he did it!! Met a guy thats 18, I'm 22!! Fancy him like mad but he's four years younger then me, is it weird to fancy someone so young?!...

Some questions for you to answser about a friend I'd like to be more than a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him ...

Silent treatment and no answer. What do do ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have currently developed feelings for this guy that I've known for around four years. Things have started to develop with us but we haven't had intercourse with him. Even though we both want to do things, afterwards I feel like he's given me the ...

Should I play him at his own game? Tease him and make him chase me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Me and my friends have been hanging around with this group of lads for quite a while now and basically one of them is what you would call the stereotypical bad boy, good looking but he knows it, cocky and is so persuasive and convincing. The thing ...

Should I take a sabbatical from all men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years, he has a lot of problems and growing up to do as far as his own life is concerned and I got tired of waiting around and so I told him I was going to start seeing someone else. After ha...

Does he REALLY only like me as a friend? I can't get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've liked him for almost two years. I think he found out that I liked him (`cause everyone else knew). He keeps on staring at me and when we talk he always puts his arm around my shoulders. There was this one time where he had his hand around ...

Is he making me depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i met this guy online and we have been best friends for about a year now and we talk everyday and i really mean everyday and im super happy when i talk to him and im my normal self but when we arent talking my friends and family think im depressed ...

I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the ...

I feel so used and hurt and cannot believe he didnt really value our friendship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - YES, YES! I am finally admitting it, I NEED HELP! I met this guy (online) about three and half years ago. At the time I was 'kinda' involved with someone else and he TOO had 'designs' on a chick. We hit it off immediately -sharing same sense of hu...

I like him, but he's a player. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and ...

I would like to have my parents' blessing, but how do I tell them about this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I come from a very religious family (my father is a pastor) I am a youth pastor. Just a little over a year ago a young girl joined our church she was married to a very abusive man and had a 1 yr old son and was pregnancy. I helped her leave her ...

Longing for the love I once had and want to have a family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone,I have a boyfriend who I have been with from I was 14,but when I turn 16 I was on a plane to the us. I was so said and hurt for leaving him down there and I always remember the last time I saw him he was crying so much. I came up here...

We have right good time, but his visit to my home town is just a "flying visit"??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Last year I got back in contact with someone I knew years ago. We live hundreds of miles away from each other so have mostly spoken via the net, phone and text. We have both admitted that we are attracted to each other. And have seen each other once ...

What kind of friendship is she looking for ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - hello people ...i broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago because it really had no future and i had a strong reason...she is and will always be the most special person for whom i care a lot in my life.... she is really sweet and very understanding and want...

How do I ask him out? What do I say to him?

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13 April 2009 (F) - this boy has asked me out and i have known him most of my life, he is really nice but until now i have only seen him as a friend, so i said no. but the problem is i think im in love with his best friend and have liked his best friend for more than...

Is her love for us fading out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I've been dating my partner now for 4 1/2 years we have a lovely little boy of 2 1/2 years. Over the last 6 months things seem to have changed dramatically as we hardly ever see each other. we live together but are lucky to spend a few hours a day ...

Should I tell him, or just stay away from their business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i like this guy whose girlfriend is most likely cheating on him he asked me advice but ive known the girl for 2 yrs she's never stayed in a relationship for long should i tell him or just stay out of it I really don't want him hurt....

What do you guys think? Do I no longer want boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm in a really complex situation right now. ok, I had an ex for 10months but we dated back in high school (the senior years) its been almost 2years since our break up, but during that time we'd use to flirt and always looked like we were going to g...

I am deeply confused and in pain. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I was Involved my a wonderful girl for around seven months.when we were first dating she confessed to me that she was still married with her long time boyfriend. It was an agreement between them two so she could get her green card.she told me that...

Best friends like the same girl. need advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Ok i have been talking to a girl, who i will refer to as L, for the past 4-5 months. We frequently have very long and interesting conversations through IM and texting (different colleges) and we have hooked up several times. A few weeks ago L bega...

Three girls, all like this one boy. How do I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i like the same guy as me and my 2 friends,but they don't know it. i want to ask the boy out but i don't want to hurt my friends feelings,they don't know i like him and i don't want them finding out the hard way. But i really believe i should ...

I love him, he's all I ever think about. What should I do?

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13 April 2009 (F) - Well im thirteen, and ive like this boy who's in my year at school for about 2 years on and off, and ive told him a few times but everything went awkward, but this time i told him and he was fine with it, and we were talking about it last night and ...

My guy made me feel like I did something wrong. Did I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Saturday night I went out with my boyfriend and 4other people he knows(1 being a girl). It was suppose 2b me and my guy at 1st but his man called wanting to go to the movies bringing along his girl. We get in the car and the plans have change. The ...

Confused..Scared..can't cry. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Okay so I was just informed from a guy I work with that he told my supervisor whose a guy that im gay.the guy supervisor all hurt and I need to have a conversation with him. moving on... though I think the supervisor told the rest of my supervisors ...

Addicted to the internet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - This has nothing to do with love or relationships, but I think i'm addicted to the internet!! I sound like a sad loser that doesn't have a social life, but i'm simply on it more because there's nothing to do, and I have no money. Especially bore...

I'm 30 shes 40, and I want to tell her how I feel

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I have been friends with an older lady, she is 39 and i am 30. We met at salsa classes and ever since the moment i saw her we have been talking. Recently, in the past two weeks we have exchanged numbers and started to text each other. She is ...

I think I'm in love with my best friend! But, we are both females!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Iam a female i have a good friend female we have kissed on lots of occasions my feelings are getting strong for her lately we have a few fights. We went to Thailand together and things happened there. I think im in love with her I don't want to be a ...

I just want him to be my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - my closest and best friend is in love with me but i dont feel the same yet i don't want to see him sad. i just want him to be my friend. am so confused...

I really like him. Should I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy who have seen a couple of times and he asked me out, i said no because i didn't know him very well but now i have grew strong feelings for him and i have began to like him. i have asked him out and he said 'dunno' and them people ...

Good looking guy!. Every one assumes he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Can a god looking friendly guy have so many female friends but not girlfriend yet?i like this guy but i don,t he like me.he has ginger hair and blue eyes tall and every one thinks he got a girlfriend when he does not ...

Is my girlfriend being unfair by not forgiving me my mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a relationship for eight months. I love my girlfriend but, alas, I've made some stupid mistakes. Considering that our relationship is long-distance, it's been difficult on me as I'm a guy and had recently lost my virginity (to my...

Am I wrong to feel this need for our penance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Here’s the story… This happened years ago… So, I met this girl who was a little rebellious at first. She was flunking out of school and what not. I really liked her because she was herself around me. I feel madly in love with her. She was perfect ...

Torn between two great guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Im really into two different guys and i dont know which one to go with. They are in the same band and they are both very talented, extremely nice and supportive, and cute. Which one should i choose???? Guy 1 six years older than me mature s...

I had fallen into a deep sleep but woke up because he had his hands all over me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I'm feeling a little confused - A few nights ago I was staying at a friend's house, we were watching movies and having a bit of a drink, nothing too out of the usual. A few months ago he'd confessed to having a little thing for me, bu...

What to do with the 2 boys I like .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - dear readers , im a senior in high school and im so confused i like this guy(well i like his image and he is all that i have ever wanted in a guy friend.) and he knows i like him, but i find it so hard to be myself around him,i lose my train of...

I did what I had to do on facebook. What's next for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - There is this girl I like, this is the same girl from my other question, and she's been avoiding me a lot. I tried to convince myself that I could get over her, but I cant. She was my first love and I've liked her for a long time. Well I did some...

Love at first sight and coincidence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - What do you think about love at first sight and coincidences? How i met my bf was we were both coming from school, i was coming from high school night school and he was coming from college night school, we were at the same station and got ...

The problem is I have begun to like him...a lot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - here goes, I'm a 24 yr old gal who likes this really cute guy and me and him were always talking online everyday, and we met each other two three times already.. he told me he finds me attractive and is attracted to me.even we met the first time he ...