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Is she just joking or are these strong hints from her?

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Question - (17 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *odaii writes:

Agh, im so confused. basically, me and my best friend, who are both bi, have had feelings for each other for god knows how long.

however, she is not out, and we are scare it will effect our friendship so we have decided not to do anything about it. unfortunately, i still really really like her and i think that she still likes me. there is chemistry between us and we get on really well,

we always say the same thing at the same time and have the same sense of humour. last night, we wer talking on msn and i was teasing her and she said "oh go fuck yourself", in a jokey way. i replyed "id rather someone else did, more fun"and then she said that she would, if she had a penis. and i laughed.

but then she said "we could improvise with something" and then we started a whole cnvo about what we could use. convosations like this are quite common between us, but neither of us have convos like that with others, but i wana know,

do you think she was joking and could anything ever happen between us? shes too scared of what othrs will think of her to come out, even though most peple suspect it anyway. so yea,

do you think she was joking and could anything ever happen between us? thanks x

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntI think that you shouldn't get into a relationship with her, I know you are both close but you are stepping over a line! Soon you aren't going to be able to see where you friendship ends and romance begins! Move on!!! Its normal to be close with a best friend and to some point desire them but don't cross the line! X

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