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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is he in love with me? or was I just a cheap feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while, and sometimes I feel like he's making moves on me. Yet, I'm not sure whether those moves are fueled by his possible actual attraction to me or whether he just wanted a cheap feel. As bad as it sounds, I don't mind ...

Where can we all go? they don't want our friends to know they are dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 443 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Two of my friends are going out, but I'm the only one that knows. Were part of a 6 people friendship group and we all want to hang out but my friends that are going out want to be able to subtly hold hands or be really close without the others ...

He ditches me for others all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've seen a few best mate questions on here relating to mixed-gender best mates and the responses were pretty good, so I thought I might as well ask mine because I have nobody else to ask. My best mate Joe is 17 next month. We've had a lot of roc...

My Friend will not associate with unattractive People, is this common?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I'm 40, he's 22 and we've only been friends a short while. He's very intelligent - and I thought deep, until he told me that he doesn't associate with unattractive people because it badly reflects on him. He's heterosexual and his male friends ...

How would you describe this text?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - How would you describe this text message sent by a male friend to me after I had asked about a drink and he said to me you will have to be quick. 'You know i love nothing better than a woman who comes quickly'. Is this classed as a jokey, in...

We admitted how we felt about each other but he has totally backed off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I'd really like a second person's opinion of this "situation" as i have a tendency to overreact. I have this friend who, while i've known for a while, has only just become my really close friend within about the last 3 years. And yes,...

He's gay but fools around with girls, but he's never made a move on me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Hi guys and gals, I'd appreciate some help here.... There's this guy who's my college friend. He's gay and I think he's hot! Seriusly, im very attracted to him. Now recently i got a lil shock when i heard through the rumor mill that he was fool...

Is it weird for friends to say 'love you'?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Is it weird for platonic friends of different gender to occasionaly say "love you _____"???? Not "I love you" or "I am in love with you" just "love you" and the name???? I read a question on here and it made me wonder. I mean they said they were ...

We've been friends for years and now it looks like it might be something more, but there are a few things that worry me about him, plus I don't want to ruin our friendship! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Hello. For the first time in my life ive met somone who has all the basic things I want in a man. We've been close friends for 7years and he's been asking me out all 7years but I always laughed him off cos I never saw us together. Now years have ...

I always have to initiate conversation and contact with a friend, is our relationship worthwhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - I have been getting to know a friend better over the past few months, we have similar interests, we get along quite well and have a good time when we go out together. Considering that I have just resolved issues with my ex-girlfriend it isn't as if ...

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so ...

I don't like being a laughing stock!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Dear cupid I am a petite person. yesterday my bf (of 2 years) told me one of our common friends was teasing abt me that how my how short i look when i drive, how tiny my arms feet look and how i look like an egg plant.... I asked him how he ...

He's catholic and I'm pentecostal , I'm in love but scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm 22 - never dated before. For the first time really, I'm meeting a guy who has what I'm looking for but problem: I'm a staunch christian so growing up, i taught lots a thingss. He bets just for fun of it, ofcourse u know christia...

I want to put more effort into repairing our friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - My bestfriend is a girl Cassidy, and my other friend Martha said you've been helpful on her friend problems so I'd be grateful if you can help me. Cass is 16 and I'm 17. We've been having problems because I don't put a lot of effort in and i ...

Breakup occured because of my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - im 15 i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because i thought he was flirting with a girl well shes flirting with him and shes supposed to be my bestfrind. when we were breaking up it seemed like he didnt put up a fight but i want him back what ...

I'm uncomfortable with a group of his friends -- is it OK for me to speak up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - My bf has 2 groups of friend. One group is really nice and they;re nice to me and about me. The other are massive lads and are disrespectful about me asking personal questions about our sex life etc etc. My bf doesn't answer them but I hate the ...

Should I go on holiday without him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - hi i have a bit of a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are both 26 the thing is we planned to go abroad this summer for a week. But i would also like to go abroad with my girlfriend later on this year for 1 week. He thinks...

Can anyone figure out what the interaction between these friends could mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - A guy recently worked closely with a woman that he seems to ignore mostly. They chatted and laughed for hours. But when his body accidentally touches hers, he quickly draws it away as though he got burnt. Funny thing is, during the time when he'...

Do I tell my best friend I'm pregnant by him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him. we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noram...

I think I flirted too much and too openly with him and scared him off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 March 2012 (?) - I had flirted with this dude that I had met I think a good few weeks ago. I am afraid I came on too strong(I am very new to flirting with guys so...) But at first he didn't seem creeped out He laughed alot and when all of my friends went away he ...

I'm attracted to him but can't imagine having sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Long question alert..... So basically I've always thought I was straight until I started getting close with one of my friends; I need to lay out the whole story so bear with me... -I'm from and attend university in Brighton, the most liberal ci...

My ex enjoys spending time with me but no longer loves me. Do I give up on getting him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So I was with this guy for 2 years, until we broke up at the end of last year. We promised before we got together that we would still be best friends, and we are, we have such a laugh. He is perfectly aware that I still like him and ...

Can men and women really be just friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - I have got my girlfriend over 4 times with guys on a compromising positions, when I ask her about these guys she says they are her friends only and nothing else. Okay my problem is I told her severals times that I personally don't believe on such ...

Is he a friend..ore a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Me and my friend D met our freshman year, and we have been friends ever since (were seniors now). We drift apart, but something always happens (like our friends death) and we become really close friends when we reconnect. I have had feelings on and ...

How do I improve our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 447 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hello, it's Rach again. Right now, I have a problem. But then again, most of us do... On the 3rd week of January this year, I joined a tuition class. There's this guy in my class who I have feelings for. Everytime I see him, they just get deeper....

I thought my friend was gay but found out he sleeps with women. I'm attracted to him, do I say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I have a gay male friend and we're really close.I have been attracted to him since day one of knowing him but obviously i tried to keep my thoughts in check, knowing he's gay. I knew that there wouldn't be much chance of getting with him considering ...

She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both ...

How do I keep my friends and stop them wanting a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I am starting to go crazy here. I am in a healthy relationship. Most of my friends are guys, which I have known for years. Lately, I have had three of those guy friends tell me they want a relationship with me. I just politely say, I am happy with ...

She's dating my ex best friend but is she over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I am 16 years old and bi. My ex best friend was dating this girl, and this girl decided to break up with her to date me. We dated for three weeks and then she decided that she wanted to go back to my ex best friend. This caused a bunch of drama, ...

Does he have feelings for another girl?

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28 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for nearly 4 and a half years. To cut a long story short, he used to work with a girl I felt uncomfortable with because she is very pretty/sexy, confident, flirtatious... you get the picture. I may have felt ...

How do I like him without damaging our relationship?

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27 March 2012 (F) - I have an old friend who was my boy best friend in primary and he moved far away. I have been talking to him alot since he moved but i am starting to like him.he is meeting me and my friend to see a movie but i am wandering what to do about liking ...

Was she flirting or just wanted to feel my muscles?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Hi. I just turned 20, last week. Just call me Victor. I have to say, however, there's this very friendly female friend of mine. However, she is a little too friendly. Just call her Candace. I think she may be around in her early 50's. Ahem. Anyw...

I feel jealous about my friends dating one another

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 446 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - im in a relationship but i feel some feelings towards one of my good friends, now that they are in a relationship with another one of my other friends, i find myself feeling a little jealous and uneasy about hanging out with them. does this mean i ...

Wife's friend is dating her ex, and I overheard them talking about his penis. I'm not happy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Should I be pissed off or not. My wife's friend is really hitting on a guy who used to date my wife. I overheard them talking, and my wife said that this guy was a really nice guy. Will take her out to nice places, and buy her stuff. Then she said ...

Would you add on a facebook a guy who you sort of hooked up with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Would you add a guy who you brought back one night on Facebook? Or is that something you just don't do, apparently guys hate it? My friend said he would hate if a girl he went back, with found him on Facebook. Thing is, I didn't go searching him...

Forgiving a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hey Aunts and Uncles Do you think friends should be forgiven anything or is there a line you draw? one of my friends needed nursing (cancer) which I did whenever I had spare time I also cooked cleaned shopped did injections and slept over if...

Mixed signals from best guy friend. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - We've been best friends for 4 years. now he's 17 and I'm 20) Our jokes have now become way more sexual this year and kinda serious this past weekend. Even our texts are bad, almost like sexting! We were talking about sex and I said "You wouldn't ...

Could my new male friend help me on my road to recovery from my past with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Well I just got out of a relationship.. and for months he would send me mixed messages, I love you, or you're too attached and need to let go. It was getting crazy. I was his sexual partner for awhile but unlike him my emotions ran deep and it was ...

My coworker and I used to be friends, and he liked me, but now he's mean! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Long story short, I met this guy we worked for the same company but different buildings we have mutual friends. The offices merged, and we made small talk became work friends. He would email me and made a big effort to contact me. I wasn't into him ...

My teenage sister has a crush on my male friend, how can I stop her getting hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - i think my little sister has a crush on my best freind hes 20 as im i and shes 16 well 17 in 3 weeks. she has always been mega shy and never had a bf and hasnt even done anythink at all with a boy. ressenlty she has been cuddling up to him when w...

I'm in love with my best friends little sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - So I am in a sticky situation ... Here's the story . I love my best rinds little sister she is 17 she is incredible mature for her age she graduated high-school when she was 15 and studied in Spain for a year. She is smart , funny and charming young ...

How do I get through this with my head held high? And what about the guy, did he actually like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - So this is the situation... I met a really lovely cancerian guy aged 27 through a really good friend, whilst out for drinks. We ended up going out almost every week after that as a threesome for dinner and drinks, for about a month. So one da...

How can I help my friend? She's not treated right at home or by her boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - My friend is lately having a lot of troubles in her life, and I feel like she might not be able to handle them on her own. Her parents verbally and physically abuse her. Her mom calls her fat (which she's not), and a whore, and has said that sh...

We're struggling to just remain friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - i fell in love with my best friend and she has feelings for me to but shes engaged and has a 2 year old.shes 21 years old and i'm 35.we hang out all day every day and we talk about everything.she told me she had feelings but the next day she said ...

Should I hang out with my new guy friend or is it just not a good idea since I'm attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for a year now. Anyways, there is a guy I work with, I am attracted to. I get along with him great, we have almost everything in common. I know, you probably know where this might be going. I am not planning or leaving ...

I'm dating a girl who sleeps in the same bed as her male friend and doesn't see anything wrong with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - This is a bit long winded but I just want to give you as much info as possible so bear with me. I started seeing a girl (shes 24, I'm 28) and we had been on like 3 or 4 dates. I was also seeing her most nights after work as we live very close. W...

How can I be confident? I don't have many friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Hi My problem is that I do not have too many friends. I don't make friends too easily. I'm shy and at times feel conscious. And it comes in my way of socializing and having many friends...which I would like to have. Its not that I have a re...

Is a good/bad idea to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - Hi again, I just would like to ask the pros and cons of having an ex girlfriend as a "friend", like hang out, do stuff with them, I was wondrin if its a safe move to get her back or will i be risking frustration if ever i see her dating another g...

I don't have a great sense of humor. Is this why I have trouble with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - Ok, here's the problem. As I'm writing this, I apologize if it sounds a bit ranty. I'm fresh out of the situation that made me. . .jealous. Right after work, me and my buddies stood around and talked/laughed for a while. We were having a good time, ...

My friend is dating an older guy who's a womanizer and it worries me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - My friend (she is 14) has been daydreaming about a guy that is 4 years older than her (18) we'll call him B and her A. she has only seen him once and talks to him on facebook nearly non-stop. She told me that he has wanted to meet up with her on ...