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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm don't know whether to have feelings or don't pay him no mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - What should i do if me and this guy have been friends for 2 years, we start off dating then we lost contact with each other. Now we have start back talking again. He tells me he loves me but don't share no other feelings. I don't force him to tell ...

I'm worried about my mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - hi I'm worried about my best m8 because we went out together and my dad took us,then i saw my male friend there so i thought we could all hang out as mates cus i thought we were i woz so wrong!!!!i feel sorry 4 my male friend because recently 4 ...

I'm 22, a virgin and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a proper bf. Ive been on dates and ive kissed a guy before. Last week i went out wiv this guy who was really nice, he was clingy though and i ran a mile. now he thinks ive messed him around and...

Since we started seeing one another we've not been as close. How can I get things back to what it used to be like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - ive been seeing this boy, Sean for about two months. at first we were just really good friends, but everyone always told me that he really liked me. however, i ignored it and we continued to be close friends. about two months ago when we started ...

I constantly seek reassurance that I'm pretty.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I constantly seek reassurance that I'm pretty. I think that i am very pretty wen i have makeup on but wen i dont i just feel disgusting. So wen im out i carry round my makeup with me and im constantly touching it up, thinking about it, looking in ...

I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend. I think i should talk to him about it but don't want to affect his relationship. Can anyone give me some advice?...

What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?...

I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his nu...

I only like him as a friend, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I really like this boy right and i always have and all of my friends know, but one of them has started going out with him.. i dont know what to do because i really like him but i cant ask him out or anything but i sometimes go places with them ...

How do I know if my ex boyfriend still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid how do i know if my ex-boyfriends still likes me?...

I have never had a female talk to me the way she does without having deep feelings for me. HELP!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - I am in love with a friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would have bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. However in January I ...

He is still a part of my life and I have deep feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - dear cupid, i used to really like this lad x we used to be really close we were sorta seeing each other but had to keep it a secert becasue our friends didnt get along and forbidded us from seeing each other we kissed and i wanked him off and he g...

My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgustin...

My boyfriend is going on holiday with 3 female friends and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship over 2 years now. Because of our belief, we don't have sex and don't sleep together in the same room, only if we go somewhere over night with friends. Now my boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 3 of his friends of his works ...

I confronted her about cheating on me and now she's ignoring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Here's the story. I got an email from someone saying that my girlfriend of a year cheated on me. They told me to look at her myspace inbox in september and it would be there. This is what it said: Guy: I hope that we can still be friends aft...

There's this guy friend I've had feelings for, for a very long time now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - There's this guy friend I've had feelings for, for a very long time now. I told him about this quite a while ago, but he didn't feel the same way, so we just stayed friends. Since then, I've pretended I've gone off him, but I really haven't. It's b...

Do i tell him how i feel, wait it out, or just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Well, I have a friend that i really have strong feeling for and who I would like to be more than just friends with. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend. Now, as his friend he tells me that she is not the one for him but never made an attempt ...

He seems quite keen yet backs off it I get too close.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I had a relationship with someone I used to work with 3 years ago. He is 18 yrs younger than me. Neither one of us has seen anyone since.I left 1 month ago but we have always remained friend since we broke up. We have got very close in the last 18 ...

Should I forget them or concentrate on being a friend to them both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I'm like these two guys who both like me too. They have both asked me out but I don't know who I like more. It's weird because they are both not my usual type but I have fallen for them. I know that if I go out with one I don't want to lose the ...

My friend is so embittered to love and dating men. How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi! I need your help with agony-aunting my friend, because I just don't know what to tell her. I think she may be a lost cause. Okay, so, she never fell in love at all until she was twenty-six, and then it was with a married man - a workmate. They...

Could it be that I am still a virgin at my age because of possibly low testosterone(male sex hormone)levels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - NB: Please reply to THIS question; ignore the previous one- it was accidentally posted prematurely! I am a 27 year old male student, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any se...

He's sending signals one minute then backing off the next, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - dear agony aunts and uncles i need your help, ive have just met this guy and i cannot get him out of my head he is sending signals one minute and then backing away the next i don't know what i should do please give me some help A.S.A.P PLZZZZZZ...

We broke up but I love him so much and I KNOW he still loves me. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 in we have ben to gether for at least 6 months and last night he told me we have been together too long and i ask him so what's that suppose to mean he said nothing. But before last night he told me we are going be ...

She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels ...

I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting really mixed signals. We were best friends for about 4 years + we really close and then we both had relationships with other people for about 2 years and we drifted, but then we became ...

She invites me over to her house and all she does is snog her boyfriend, it's soooooo embarrassing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I'm at the end of my tether. My best friend and her boyfriend invite me over to her house. Then all they do is kiss, pull and do things infront of me that make me feel REALLY uncomfortable. They don't have any other friends becoz when they ...

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...

I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother. I have known him since elementry school and even back then I really liked him, He is a freshman like me so at first when I became friends with his little sister it was kinda awkward ...

The wrong boy likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hi i am 14 and i like this boy in my class but one of his close mates likes me and i dont know what to do should i tell him how i feel or just ignore the boy who like me?...

Dilemma about telling a good buddy.. he's dating his old gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down ...

Should I call him or just leave it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am ...

Should I tell her we shouldn't be friends any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - ok heres the thing , i felt like ive always been bi but didnt realize there was a definition to my sexuality until the age of 13 i think, im 17 never had a boy/girlfriend, mi best friend is a girl and i dont know how to explain it but... i get these ...

I asked her out and she said she'd tell me the next day. It this her way of politely saying no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - i asked out this girl i really like to go catch a movie with me. she asked me questions about when i wanna go, and if we're goin alone etc. she said she'll tell me the next day coz she might be busy. i cant help think that's a excuse or nice ...

Is he really that upset with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Right, basically I was with this guy for 3 months, and we were friends for about a year and a half before. He sent me a drunken email, saying how he liked me and we started to go out. He never used to push me into anything, but started to get a ...

This is meant to be a "no strings" relationship but I think he's falling for me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I have this no strings attached sexual relationship with this guy for over a year. He's the one who said he wasn't ready for a committed relationship, and now we see each other very infrequently, and have sex at his place. I started to fall for him ...

I've never had a boy like me so I don't know the signs, do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 May 2007 (?) - well there is this guy that i really admire!! he is really nice and funny and good looking. there is a local club that we go to. me and a few friends go in and have a chat and chill out. this guy is always in the club and he always sits alone. he ...

Can you love someone as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - can you love someone as a friend???...

I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Hello. I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice. I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relatio...

What can I do to ask my crush out? Should I take the initiative here or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Ok my crush knows I like him and I think he hates me, my friends say he dosent but I dont know what to do. should i forget about him or see if he asks me out or whatever? ...

The guy I cared about is now married to someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - The guy I cared about is now married to someone else, I knew that I was never going to marry him. I am linked to him on a professional basis and only contact him when absolutely necessary and that's by e-mail. The first time we saw each other face ...

One year of resumes rejections in my country have helped to develop in me a sense of personal and professional insecurity Is this abnormal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I don't know why I'm posting this. I guess I just want emotional support. I was kind of O.K. whith my one year old unemployment status. I have a Master's Degree and were I live this evidently overqualifies you for most jobs. Nobody in my country ...

He's told me he isn't looking for just sex but he isn't looking for a relationship either, where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I like a guy who i work with and he has told me he likes me back i leave the job in August as i am a temp so i dont have to worry about working with him. I spent the friday just gone at his new house just talking for hours and kissing and just ...

He said he really liked me so why is he sitting on the fence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Im so torn at what to do...An old flame and i have begun talking and him and his g.f have recently broke up...When he was with her he was tellin me he always wanted me and he loves me n such. Now hes saying hes too scared to get involved with me cuz ...

Is he flirting with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I'm pretty thick when it comes to deciphering if someone is flirting with me or not, so I'm asking for help here! There's this guy I know, and him pursuing a relationship with me would be a little ridiculous due to the circumstances we're both ...

My friend is getting too flirty with my girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - okay i had had a problem with a friend that i felt was too flirty with my girl. my girl said she told her to stop and that she would.now n the past i had really really insecurities... my girl helped me to grow out of them. but now after this problem ...

Has he got this sort of body language wrong and the bloke is just being friendly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I asked my husband the other day that if a woman he knew winked at him what would he think and he said 'I would think she wants to know me more, she fancies me'. I asked him what he thought if a bloke winked at me and he said 'I would worry'. He ...

I can't just stop liking him. He's so perfect... one in a million. What do you think I should do?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Ummm well my sister has this friend Ray. And I really like him. Majorly. Everything he does is completely awesome. But he is probably the least liked guy at my school, simply because of the way he dresses. He doesn't really care about that and ...

Why did he kiss me for so long when I know he doesn't like me in that way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Recently I had a passionate kiss with my best friend that lasted hours. My friend kept pulling him away because she was drunk and stuff, but he kept coming back to me. But I know he doesn't like me in that way...so why would he kiss me for so ...

My girlfriends are so bitchy to me because I have always liked football!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Sorry for the length! I'm a girl and I love football and I've always been into it since I was little. Obviously this always made me popular with the guys and I've got loads of mates who are guys, who I really get on well with. I've had no problems ...

He's gay but is giving me all the signs that he fancies me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I work closely with a man who is gay but recently he has been flirting with me so much that i dont know whether im coming or going. He stares into my eyes for longer than normal, looks at my mouth when i speak and just says and does things body ...