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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Your insight is needed here thanks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a 26 year old male guy currently staying in the US, trying to get a job. While working as a student worker at the University where I graduated form(for the past few months), i had the chance to work with this Korean girl who is new in ...

How can I tell him how I truly feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have this best friend that I've known for my entire life, he's a boy and he's also like my brother. I tell him every little secret of mine. But every time he sleeps over or I sleep over his house he always puts his hand around me. I keep on ...

I've liked him for so long, maybe it's God's plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy forever and let's just leave it at that. I've barely talked to him. I've tried to get over him, I really have. I'm involved in a band and I've tried to take my mind off him. But when my mind isn't consumed with my daily activies, ...

I need your opinions here...Just friends???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if ...

I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father figure to her child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Life is complicated a lot! My best friend told me today that she likes me. I used to be in love with her but never said anything. The problem is that she recently had a baby and I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father ...

We met up but how do I know if he really likes me or not?

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6 April 2009 (F) - I just started talking to this guy like a week ago. We talked on the phone for a few days then met up. I really like him and he seems to like me too. But how do I know if he does or not???...

I'm starting to worry that this is a more one sided relationship, or maybe he's just got too much in his life for room for me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I really need some help and I really don't have anyone to turn to :( I have been suffering from some horrible symptons recently and to cut a long story short I'm having tests to find out what's wrong. The doctor thinks it's endometriosis. I...

I don't feel like I'm following my heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and his friend and me have a spark between us. He's been texting me even though he has a girlfriend, who he's said he'll finish with to be with me when the timing is right. I like both of them but I like the guy with the ...

Normal to be jealous or am I paranoid? This guy flirts a lot ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm jealous of this situation - am I being unreasonable? How do I deal with it? I'm at college and I like a guy in my class who's a good friend. We're in a drama group and there is another girl who is pretty who he flirts with - touching her tit...

My friend is married but he's hinted he wants more than friendship from me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am really confused and upset, partly because someone I thought was a male friend has hinted he wants more (and he is married). I do have a conscience, but I do get on very well with him though he is lot older than me. He gave me his mobile n...

Is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each...

How to get into a reltionship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy. Ive been cinema with him before. We hardly see each other in real life because i rarely often bump into him at the bus stop. But we regularly speak online and texting. And hes normally fine and flirty. I really don't know were ...

I'm freaking out! My best mate grabbed my penis at the urinals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-...

Would this be too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...

He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for abo...

Who should it be? A, B, or C?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - well.. I have been single for years because I chose it to be that way. See, I'm too much of my own person and love to be 'free'. But now I am thinking of giving it a shot. Here's the dilemma... One guy, (A), I have known for almost two ye...

To Trust or Not To Trust? HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Here's the situation: I've been dating this wonderful girl for the past 3 months and they've been great! We have a lot in common and love being around one another :) The only problem is the relationship I was in previously was a devastating one ...

I'm scared of telling her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - i'm so frustrated with myself....!!! i have a really close female friend and i love her to pieces, but i've yet told her how i feel...im such a wuss--im scared of telling her... it's sooo hard being around her with her not knowing, and her...

Am I wrong in wanting to go out with a friend even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Let me get to the point, Am I wrong for wanting to go out with this guy I call a friend; even if I do have a boyfriend? I like this guy (friend) physically and he has a good personality, but I don't want to be doing anything wrong that can affect my ...

How do I help and support my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have a good friend who is going through some medical problems so she's drinking a lot lately. She's not an overly affectionate person when sober - but when she's drunk she is very affectionate and more relaxed to her friends, often hugging and ...

Shall I bother to resolve this deadlock?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I found out my ex (of 2 years) was seeing someone else only by chance, I challenge her at first as any person would, but I don’t ask any questions. I say good luck and walk away. I say no more. We all work in the same building, this was nearly 15 ...

How can I educate my friends on my disorder? How can I help myself overcome it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hey, i need help, im a 15 year old girl with social phobia, generalized anxiety disorder and Avoidant Personaltiy Disorder (SP, GAD and AvPD). The thing is non of my friends understand, they just think im being rude when i don't go to sleepovers...

How do I get things back to how they were?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on ...

What should I do to be his friend? I have a crush on him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy that was once my friend, but we never really talked then. Now we're like strangers, and we fell out several times. He can be really mean but also very nice.For 4 years, i think i talked to him for about 10 sentences. If i ...

2 questions: 1 on my LD boyfriend and 1 on my boy friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this...

I'm 21 and want to be living life to the fullest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy ...

Do I come across desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I was physically abused by my step mother when I was growing but between the ages of 9 - 11. I always found it hard to make friends as I felt people thought I was weird. Even my half brothers and sisters made fun out of me and found ways to make ...

Am I unlovable or just doing everything wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I feel so alone. I've never had a boyfriend and I feel like I may be unlovable. All my friends are currently in relationships and today it finally hit me that I have no one. I feel completely worthless and feel as if I've tried everything to lift ...

Please tell me how to find what is in his heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Am megna women who is like by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over hills in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At firs...

Want more than a casual relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Morning, my question seems normal in todays times, yet i don't understand. See, i'm not in a relationship, relationship with this guy, some call it a casual relationship or friends with benefits,his reason for not wanting a serious relationship just ...

Can l repair the damage l caused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - l told my best friend outright that l liked him, he was SUPPOSEDLY bi, but apparently l was wrong? l still don't know for sure. l had to tell him over facebook, as we were short on time. He reacted to me as if l had turned into a giant frog, almost ...

Why did everything change after he became ill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I just admitted to myself that I like this guy who lives about 12 hours away from me... (for obvious reasons it would be kind of hard to admit... he lives pretty far.) I consider us to very close, we tell each other everything. and I mean ...

I'd like to see him again but not sure how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm confused about a guy i like.I saw him tonight,i hadnt seen him for about a year,as i havent been to the place where i used to see him regularly that much.I saw him in a pub at first tonight.We looked at each other and smiled,but we didnt talk to ...