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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He always has a gleam in his eye when he talks to me, but never texts or messages me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Today on the bus I was talking to my guy friend and he talked to me for the first time I've seen him. He thought that I was absent for 7 days. I told him that I was here for the first two days of school. He argued with me and smiled like he was ...

My boyfriend and his new best friend... he seems suddenly secretive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a new female friend who he has been somewhat secretive about. Should I be worried? I've been with him two years now and I've never met or heard of this women. Supposedly they were friends in middle school, but they haven't ...

What do I tell people about how and why we broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Hello , me and my boyfriend recently broke up . we both dicided that it ws best not to go out any more . the probem is that lots of people are saying that i dumped him by text and that i was really harsh and all but the truth is , he was just as m...

I'm in love with my friend, I can't live with her and I can't live without her! What do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I have been close friends with this girl for most of my life. For the past few years I have been in love with her. We went out but things ended badly and we didn't speak for 6 months. Luckily we were able to get past that and ar enow close ...

We want to tell that we caught them smoking but we are afraid!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Help! My best friends older brother and his friends were smoking, we knew it. We decided to find out of we were right. Then we accidentally walked in on them!! There faces showed it all, plus the cigarettes on the ground and the smoke. They were...

I've fallen in love with my ex co-worker...could the feeling be mutual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I met this guy where i work and as soon as he smiled at me I melted. Anyway, we got talking and started to email each other, then he went off to mexico. he's in the middle of travelling he world, but we kept emailing off an on, nothing ...

Can someone tell me the reason behind my ex's behaviour??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I am sooo confused:( My boyfriend and I broke up last month and I have been in bits. I really really love him and it hurts so much not being with him. The break up was his decision and I definitely played my part in the ending of the relationship by ...

I told my ex I still love him by email...and he hasn't responded! Do I let go of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - In a nut shell, im still in love with my ex. I see him every weekend when he gets time. we go out to lunch and he still drives my car because he doesnt have one and i let him. We broke up 3 months ago, but we have never had no contact. he has never ...

I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a ...

Did he tell me those things because he was drunk, or did he really mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Please help me out here, as I'm not sure what to think. It's a little long but please bear with me, any advice helps. On Friday night at around 12:30 I recieved a phone call from this guy that I used to see/talk to pretty regularly from O...

In love with my best friend who is engaged. Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I have fallen in love with my best friend. I have known my best friend for just under 10 years, and i have been in love with her for 6 of those years. She has been the greatest friend i could ever wished for. She recently threw me a surprise ...

Is my best friend REALLY okay with me dating her cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My 'best friend' and i had a fight a few weeks back, and it was about a sweet 16th party that she wanted to throw with me,(as in a joint party)which never went ahead because neither of us told our parents. The other thing she was mad at me about was ...

How do I improve my social graces, I am sacastic, self-degrading and don't fit in, any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - i feel socially screwed, like a real life larry david or a woody allen...sad thing is that those guys have social graces (i'm assuming), in real life that i do not have. everything that comes out of my mouth, in retrospect, seems sarcastic, self-...

How do I reconnect with all the people I knew and liked in the last decade?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - what are you supposed to do when you feel totally disconnected from all of the friends you had in the past, and the ones you currently know? i've been through some stuff within the last year that brought me somewhat back to myself, and now ...

She wants me only for a friend, I need more, I love her, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I have known this girl for about 1 year. During a period of time she was struggle with her bad relationship with her boyfriend. I support her by give her encouragement, also by standing by her when she needed a shoulder to cry on. etc... ...

I'm paranoid my boyfriend's friends,want him to break up with me, how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I am really terrified my boyfriend's friends don't like me. He is always saying that everyone thinks I'm really quiet which makes me think they are sitting around discussing me, I'm so paranoid they are telling him to break up with me. I wish I ...

Two people deleted me from their Facebook, am I not cool enough, how do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - two people deleted me from my facebook. I never really talked to them but I don't understand why they would do that. It really hurt my feelings. How do get over this?? I feel like i'm not cool enough for them. It affected my self esteem ...

How do I tell my bestfriend that I want to go out with her ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Heyaa, this is going to sounds silly but here goes.... Well basically I'm into this boy and he's into me. We have been together before a couple of times and I want to go out with him and he's asked me out and is waiting for an answer but I can...

There's this guy that has asked me out, but there are a few things in the way, and I like someone else! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Men are definately like buses!! I met this 21 year old throught my sister about a year ago and we've been talking on msn and such ever since, we've also met up a few times recently. He has now asked me out. However i have a number of proble...

I feel betrayed by the guy I like, and my friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - This summer I went on a choir trip to Spain. My best friend told me she kind of liked this guy, but it was visabley apparent the only reason she liked him was because she was trying to get over the guy who she hooked up with for a while. He didn't ...

I want to date a guy I like, but my best friend doesn't approve! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hii, This is a relationship question, and im not sure on what i should do so im asking for your advice on what i should do.Okai im 16 years old and i just started dating a guy whos 19"Mark", My bestfriend hates him and told me that if me and mark ...

My boyfriend dumped me because I'm too emotional, and couldn't accept my past. How do I move on and get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a toxic relationship for 3 years, and I don't know what to do. You see in the beginning it was all perfect, it seemed to us (and everyone around us) that we'd been made for each other since we shared the same hobbies, thoughts, ideas, ...

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been pr...

Boyfriend or best friend? Who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so now I have a new problem. . . I'm still with my boyfriend, who can be a real jerk at times when he pokes fun at me for being book smart and is starting to flirt with other girls. Sometimes, I go days at a time where I just don't talk ...

Kicked out because of a ladies night out!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm having a very difficult time in my relationship of 8 yrs. We share a child together and my "boyfriend"/ " husband" kicked me out of the house and took my car back due to me having a ladys night out a week ago and my friend and I ...

Pushed out of the group and I feel like I'm losing my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 41 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I had a group of friends. I wasnt the closest one to them (three girls) ... But one of them was like the leader of the other two. This so called leader shunned me out of the group and made enemies wiith me. The other two girls remained my friend. ...

My best friend has been spreading lies about me, and now I feel very alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I feel very alone. I had a falling out with a best friend as she betrayed me. Now, she has turned almost everyone against me by spreading lies and rumors that paint me in a very bad light, all of which are completely untrue. I have not stooped to ...

I feel like I'm the last resort friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've been in the same group (of three girls) for about 3 years. A year ago, we drifted apart a bit but still kept in charge. Over this period of time, they've picked up mildly bad habits (partying, drinking, hooking up, etc; stuff i don't really do) ...

Liking him but he has a girlfriend, do I call him? Text him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi.I like this actor who is a similar age to me, we are both in our twenties.I met him for the second time tonight, as i went seeing this show he was in again.He recognised me straight away and gave me a hug, it was him who held his arms out first ...

I like this guy and want him to know how I feel, but I don't want to make things awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so i'm an average 17yr old girl and i'm in love. Simple as ... or so I thought. Here's some more info... I have never been with a guy before and have only kissed in games of spin the bottle. This new guy walks into my life and we get on re...

Is he using me to get to my friends and meet new people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i know this sounds ridiculous but i dont have trouble finding men at all. but i recently tried a dating website just for the heck of it and i ended up meeting someone. on our first date i didnt really care because its internet.. "it wouldnt work" ...

The ex: Is there any way to train him to think of me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - my ex still treats me like i'm his girlfriend sometimes. he relies upon me more like a gf than just a friend. i think it's too bad, because that means that one day, he'll disappear from my life. i actually do really like him as a human, not as a ...

My friend likes the same guy that I do, and I don't want to give up either of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've liked this guy for a year now and i think he likes me to because every time i speak to him he has a big smile on his face hes always looking at me in class,his brother is my brothers friend and according to his brother h...

A few questions about a FWB situation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - what is there to say about a guy who got with you pretty much on the premise of friends with benefits (by his preference), but during the time you are together as fwbs, he keeps saying he wants to stay with you indefinately, and after the entire fwb ...

Can you be friends with someone who doesn't talk to you much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Can you be friends with someone who doesn't talk to you much? My friend ignores me a lot and doesn't talk to me but were always ok with each other! Its like a distant relationship! We see each other at school and when we talk he jokes around with me ...

I have feelings for another co-worker, and I'm scared of giving it a go because it happened before and blew up in my face! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I have this male friend at work who I've hung out with outside of work a few times before. We could both tell there was definitely an attraction there, so one night after a few drinks, we ended up in bed together. I wasn't sure if it was a one time ...

Should I have broken up with him? And should I try and get back with him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I had been dating him for 3 months, not that long for many people, but it is for me. I have never been dumped before, why? Because in all truth I'm afraid of getting attached and suddenly finding myself needing him every second, but at the same time ...

Why does my friend have to borrow everything from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i know this isnt a love question but im hoping for some advice. i have a very clingly friend..we have been mates about 6 months.The issue i have is whenever we go out she always asks to borrow my things whether its a dress or jeans or jewelle...

She cut contact with me because she thinks the distance is too much. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - ok so here we go. I've a rough life. im not gonna get too much into it but in short I've been thru it all when it comes to relationships, and I havnt been in one in years ever since my ex died. so I met this girl in the most unlikely of places. over ...

Me and this man started dating, and then he broke it off by saying he wasn't ready for a relationship, but wants to be friends. Where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I had a great date with a guy and he asked me out on a second date. We didn't kiss after the first date. The second date however was to take three weeks later as he was going away on business. He said he'd keep in touch but I didn't think he would. ...

Does my coach have a crush on me, or is it all in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - This is a very weird thing for me. I am about 16-17 and this is actually my first teacher crush. Technically, he is not my teacher but my coach for the sport I play in. He is a teacher though at the school I attend. My coach is also very young and ...

Why do guys always make comments about your friends when you're dating them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I was seeing this guy who used to always comment on my girl friends. He never called anyone ugly, but he would always say something if my friend was gorgeous. He would say: Wow, she's so hot. After he did this a bunch of ...

This guy has been showing signs he likes me...but I found out he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - okay i like this guy named nolen and he has been giving me sings but i can't put them together. well first in class he wonld not stop lookin at me then wen i noticed he waved at me. rhen the next day he found a pipe cleaner and he made into a bracle...

How should I find out if she feels the same way about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 85 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - hi am a 21 year old boy. i met a girl about 3 weeks back. and v became friends. she's really sweet and i like her. i think am in love with her, but am not sure. i want to know she's haveing d same feeling for me or not. what should i do?...

Is this FWB turning into something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - My friend with benefits suddenly doesn't want sex now but is even more loving and affectionate and attentive.acts like my boyfriend its nice Is the relationship changing to be something more?...

I broke off the friendship because she doesn't feel the same way about it, but I'm having second thoughts! Will she get annoyed if I tell her I want to be friends again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - me and my ex have been broke nup for about 2 months. we have a always been very close and very very good friends for the past 4 years weve dated before if you could call a 1 day thing a relationship. the last one ended after a week with her telling ...

In love with my best friend's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i have ever fallen this hard so fast. theres this guy ]and i really like him. i have for about...3-4 months. we are friends...and his sister is my best friend. She thinks that its gross and cute at the same time. He doesnt know i like him (thank ...

Should I ask my best friend to have sex with me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Okay. When I was in a part relationship with this girl we were having a bit of "play" on webcam and she ended up going completely naked for me. She is 2 years older than me but I have very strong emotions for her. Unfortunately, she now...

Me and my husband have been having arguments about a vacation to see my friend, should I still go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - About 3 months ago, my husband and I had a fight because I wanted to take a little vacation to visit my good friend. Reason of that fight was he didn’t trust me, and he dislike that friend of mine because he feels that I have changed since I met ...

Why do you think my abusive boyfriend is stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Sorry-it’s a bit of a long story. It started 3 years ago-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises, a few days after that I started seeing him in places he shouldn’t have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept ...